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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

Do just read the first sentence and respond or do some of you read what ohter people are writing? I've noiced some of the responses have nothing to do with anything other than the first sentence of a discussion.

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Connie1013 I have noticed that too. I try to read the whole thing before replying. Sometimes the lead words can be misleading or as in your case, mispelled. "pat" got my attention after I replied to another discussion. Sometimes, I have no idea what they replied too.

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

Do just read the first sentence and respond or do some of you read what ohter people are writing? I've noiced some of the responses have nothing to do with anything other than the first sentence of a discussion.

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bluebird1956 Sorry, but I frankly get disgusted with the people who just read the first sentence, or even worse, just the title, and then post a response. Sometimes it is so apparent that it is almost funny when they are so far off the topic. It is, however, still...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

Do just read the first sentence and respond or do some of you read what ohter people are writing? I've noiced some of the responses have nothing to do with anything other than the first sentence of a discussion.

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Phaedra_Scythe Some people just post as much as they can to up their post count and don't actually care about making the discussion work. I on the other hand am having trouble getting many posts because I always try and think about a reasoned response. Not to toot my own...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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Doomsayer Talk it out with your wife. Explain your feelings however you can. If I were you, that is, a parent who thinks that their child's grandmother would have a detrimental effect on the child, go with your guts. The way you're talking, it sounds like you don't...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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gvnath2007 Hi friend. It iscommon . All mother-in-laws are not good. illiteracy is one reason, and the atmsphere where they grown up and the family background are also factors for such behaviour. I saw many cases of such type. But instantanesouly, mother in laws will be...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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texasclassygal You need to let your child see her grandmother, just monitor your child so she is not influenced by this person, I mean if we could pick our relatives we would not pick the ones we have, including your wife's mother. Your child is going to know that she has a...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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donafelchua Despite all the things, i will let my child to be seen by her grandmother. Don't let your hatred as a protection to your child. It's alright, provided if you'll properly raise and guard your child.

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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mtdewgurl74 It is hard to keep a wife away from her mother and will probably be equally hard for you to keep your child away as well. The grandparent can fight for grandparents rights and visitations so beware this might happen if you do not let her see the child and they...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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sebelini Well it really depends why you think she is nasty. The word nasty to one person could mean something really trivial for another. I know of someone whose sons are not too good, one steals from her also. But you know, its not her. If its only because she can...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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emeraldisle Since your wife also agrees she's a nasty woman I'd go with your gut and stick to your guns. Don't let her near the child. If you do let her near maybe only on major holidays and well supervised. Talk with your wife and really listen to her side and explain...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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venkyvenky Babies are toolovely and aged people love to be with them .This sort of thing happened in my friends family too. Initially when the baby was to be born, they thought that they would not let the mother in law to see/talk to it. But in reality when the baby was...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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liranlgo I think that you should let your child see his grandmother. but, you should be with the child and see that everything is alright, and you should decide that the visits won't be more then an hour or two hours. Think about it, every parent makes mistakes, but...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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Gemmygirl1 My situation is similar but different, in my case it's MY Grandmother i don't want around my daughter - not coz she's a nasty person but because she plays favourites which is pretty horrible! I had a baby & she seemed to fake an interest in my daughter, then...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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arkaf61 I have an awful mother in law too. My husband's sister moved over 200 Km from here and one of her reasons was " that way I won't be too close to mom" So I know how you feel. However I never did anything to prevent her to see my children... As they...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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sanyah1988 I completely understand where you are coming from. My answer is NO, (follow your guts) you should always do what makes you feel comfortable and your wife should more than understand and If she doesn't than really talk to her try saying " I want you to really...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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Rachelg I know it sounds like you really do not care for your mother in law at all. Here is my suggestion, take it how you will. I would allow her to see the children, since she is thier grandmother, and you don't want them to hold that against you when they get...

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

I have a horrible mother-in-law, and a baby on the way. I do not want my child around her. It's not just bacause the very sight of her literaly makes me sick. She really is a nasty horrible person. Of course my wife thinks its...

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infinity239 If I were you, I would let your children see their grandmother, but keep the visit short and well supervied. It is there grandmother and they should get the oppurtunity to atleast meet her. If she is as bad as you say, I would keep the visit as short as...

10 Apr 07

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sixfeetunder @sixfeetunder (77) • United States 10 Apr 07

Do just read the first sentence and respond or do some of you read what ohter people are writing? I've noiced some of the responses have nothing to do with anything other than the first sentence of a discussion.

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Rachelg Personally, I read the whole discussion post before responding. As far as reading other peoples responses, I usually do after I post my response, that way my response is fresh off my mind after reading the post, and I don't have other people's words stuck in...

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