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Polang @tkonlinevn (6427) • Vietnam 22 Nov 10

Normally, meetings help solve working problems. But in my company, meeting is a nightmare! After the meeting, every thing is even more confused. I think that because my boss doesn't have enough managing skills to control a...

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suetsee Yes, it does happen to many people. Now that I'm doing freelance work, so there's no meetings...but I used to work in companies where there were more gossips, blaming, digging out issues than finding ways to solve it. Maybe if you could approach your boss,...

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cassije74 @cassije74 (247) • Philippines 23 Nov 10

I try to treat all my friends equally but then it seems i had a hard time and uncomfortable having a lesbian friend... what is your idea if you have them?

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suetsee Well, I do have a lesbian friend. It does not mean I'm one but I do talk to her and treat her as a human being. I don't approve her lifestyle but I still treat her as a friend. But everyone may have different opinion. If you really could not accept it, it is...

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dhyeiii @dhyeiii (23) • Philippines 21 Nov 10

Love is our topic in our small group discussion. We are debating if Love really a decision not a feeling. Well, in my opinion it is a decision because it's your choice if you want to loved and be loved. What do you think?

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suetsee Yes, i agree. It is a decision. Well, feelings are involved when you love someone but it involves decision when times are tough, to be committed to someone you love requires a decision. To work things out requires a decision. I think love includes both...

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skysuccess @skysuccess (8857) • Singapore 18 Nov 10

So, 4 in 10 in America is saying it and nearly one in three American children is living with a parent who is divorced, separated or never-married. With the statistics from studies and statistics bureau revealing that divorces are...

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suetsee Do agree with you, marriage are made to last in God's eyes. However, we live in a fallen world. While God hates divorce, I think we have to show certain understanding and mercy to those who are divorced or separated. I'm sure His heart goes out to them too....

19 Nov 10

cyrri_ako @cyrri_ako (461) • Philippines 25 Oct 10

have you ever cooked with a sad heart? were you crying while you were cooking? how was it? did it taste good? when you are cooking, you should always be happy so that whatever you're cooking will be delicious...

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suetsee Yes, been there when I forced myself to cook for my son and for the sake of famly. Yet I did it with much grudges and sadness as I yearn for my son to eat well with my home cook food and he did not like it. The food doesn't exactly taste nice when I cook in...

26 Oct 10

suetsee @suetsee (26) • Malaysia 26 Oct 10

I'm not intending to be bias or trample down men here. Here, I just want to say we women should be proud for who we are. Many of us wears different hats as a woman. A A mother, daughter, the 'chef' for the family, the constant...

women

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tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 22 Oct 10

what' s on your mind right now? Write it here please. I have no special topic to talk to so I was wondering what are your thinking at this moment. Just feel free to write it here. Anything will do. Happy Mylotting!!!

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suetsee Hi there, Just let yourself feel the sadness and grieve it. But after that, move on with your life. You are considered strong to share it with us here and I think you can go through this period of pain. I had been there in the past when I a boyfriend walked...

22 Oct 10

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 22 Oct 10

what' s on your mind right now? Write it here please. I have no special topic to talk to so I was wondering what are your thinking at this moment. Just feel free to write it here. Anything will do. Happy Mylotting!!!

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suetsee I'm thinking whether I should continue to be a freelance writer. It is my passion to write and share with others..but I wonder it worth the fight anymore. Many have advise me to return to full time job..but I was thinking of being a freelance as I have more...

22 Oct 10

MALlaguneroB @MALlaguneroB (14) • Philippines 20 Oct 10

yes, i believe that Jesus loves us so much. because he sacrifice and because of his love he crucified,

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suetsee Yes, I believe it too. For someone undeserving like me yet receive His grace and mercy....

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torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 19 Oct 10

Despite the fact that we already had computers and cellphone to our convenience, some of us still love to scribble notes for diary, calendar of events, reminders and those sort of things. I keep a small notebook myself where I...

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suetsee Yes, despite having a laptop, it's still feel great to just scribble ideas and thoughts on my notebook. I have a journal to write my thoughts and what I have been through. I have yet another book to write down my thoughts for my son since he was a baby. Am...

19 Oct 10

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Gorillafootprints925 @Gorillafootprints925 (3586) • United States 13 Oct 10

Is eating your body can be considered cannibalism because my body eats my flesh? Does that count? Or is it eating someone of your own kind that is cannibalism? If that is the case then eating yourself would not be cannibalism,...

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suetsee Now that's an interesting question....as far as I understand, cannibalism is eating human flesh. If eating yourself...that's called suicide? Just exploring together with you....Waiting for others to respond too ;)

13 Oct 10

florisatan78 @florisatan78 (23) • Philippines 12 Oct 10

What do you do when the person you once loved resorted to blackmailing you about your past and telling people about it because,he wants to keep the relationship? i am a victim of such abuse... every time we have problems he...

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suetsee Just leave him....if he wants to expose, let him be. You are not in a healthy relationship. You said it yourself..I can't stay like this for long......why not leave while you can? You love him but does he love you? It takes two sides to make things work. You...

13 Oct 10

blessing2u @blessing2u (496) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Two years ago as I was sitting down in my beloved chair just outside my house, somebody, a good looking man came and talked to me about the Bible. When I told him that I have a religion, he smiled and told me with a soft voice,...

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suetsee Yes, to trust and accept Jesus Christ as our Saviour is a relationship, not purely religion. No doubt God wants us to obey His word in the Bible, but He wants us to be sincerely loving Him to obey those commandements. If not, it just going through the motion...

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vrosado845 @vrosado845 (82) • United States 22 Sep 10

Hey guys. I was just thinking about a girl I know who's boyfriend hits her whenever they have arguments. I really disagree with her being with this guy but she swears she loves him still. Ladies, if you were in love with someone...

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suetsee Hi there, advise your friend to leave before any more hurts done. I'm speaking from own experience as I had been in an abusive relationship before. Not just he pretended to be good, he also slowly asked for money and hit me whenever I didn't give him what he...

5 Oct 10

Drew Lazaro @mine2008 (107) • Philippines 19 May 10

did anyone use freelancer.com as they online job ? i know its legit but did anyone use it ? can you give some tips how to get project i am newbie their and its really get my attention.

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suetsee Hi there, I did get 1 job from freelancer.com after many bids on many projects. My advice will be that you should continue to find and bid. But before you bid, it is better to read all that the person wrote as requirements or payments and things like that....

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suetsee @suetsee (26) • Malaysia 5 Oct 10

I have just started to work as a freelance writer in April. These few months it is hard to balance up time with family and my work. Added that the projects I have is not conssitent and I'm not sure it is worth to work this way...

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starlight_starbright @starlight_starbright (810) • Philippines 30 Sep 10

Earlier in the afternoon, I was surprised to see my Ex-boyfriend outside the office. He asked for a minute. He wants us to have dinner together on Saturday. Shall I go? Why do you think does he want to go out with me?...

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suetsee Hi there, Just go and see what he has to say and observe how he treats you. But beware of your feelings going all over that it obscures your judgment. Go and be a friend who listens. If you had been with him quite long in the past, you should be able to...

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suetsee @suetsee (26) • Malaysia 29 Sep 10

I'm a single unwed mother. I have a 4 year old son. I had met back a friend last year whom I knew since college times 10 years ago. We started dating and we are serious in planning to marry one another next year. My fiance...

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suetsee Well, my son never saw his biological father. I was young and a fool to ended up with a man who turns out to be a drug addict. He deceived me well by pretending to be good. Slowly ,he turn to abuse me. When I was pregnant, the initial decision was to marry him...

30 Sep 10

suetsee @suetsee (26) • Malaysia 29 Sep 10

I'm a single unwed mother. I have a 4 year old son. I had met back a friend last year whom I knew since college times 10 years ago. We started dating and we are serious in planning to marry one another next year. My fiance...

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suetsee Yes, my son still quite attach to me. Sometimes i do let him sleep alone and slowly separate..but he still wants to be close to me.

30 Sep 10

suetsee @suetsee (26) • Malaysia 29 Sep 10

I'm a single unwed mother. I have a 4 year old son. I had met back a friend last year whom I knew since college times 10 years ago. We started dating and we are serious in planning to marry one another next year. My fiance...

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suetsee Just like the rest said, I guess it is good I find a right time to talk with my son about all these. Thanks for dropping some advises. Yes, why I worry so much, He will see us through....

29 Sep 10

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