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betlynfrnds @betlynfrnds (4069) • United States 26 Apr 13

I'm not a spring chicken nor am I a senior citizen. I have no problem, at all, with weight. I'm probably at an ideal weight. I've never had a broken bone, cavity, gum disease, heart disease or anything at all. I take, what I...

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sunsham68 Yeah, I guess it can be nasty when people throw advice at you that way :)

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

breaking off

ending relationship

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sunsham68 Thing is there is no mutual misery all the time in most relationships, right there are ups and downs and you wonder if given a few different scenarios if there would be more ups than downs and if you should wait it out..

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 That is well said. Great advice. Seems like you got me right :) Thanks!

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 You're welcome :) You have a very valid point, its better not to be the one dumped, and I guess I have learned that in my professional work, I see a job that is not working out and don't have any worries about quitting straight off. Yes starting off an old...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 I don't ever get that clear picture that this is it and its the end. Maybe its my upbringing of not giving up on something maybe its change I am afraid of facing by my own doing..I don't know..maybe I second guess my actions too much too!

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Oh gosh it seems i was mostly misunderstood in this discussion. I dont want to give false hope, just wanna be sure its over from both sides and that I am not throwing away something just because I cannot see the potential..I really have to get better with...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Yes, that is the confusion that keeps me waiting for a change around the next corner, but only if the person with me is of the same mindset. If they think its not going to work and we are too different to gel and made a mistake starting a friendship then only...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

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sunsham68 Hey no. I do not let myself be dumped. I understand I should respect myself but I am worried about impetuous decisions that may be one sided while the other person desperately wants to work it out. If I can be sure they dont see a future for the relationship...

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sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

My ex says he always regretted that we drifted apart and claims he named his daughter after me. That is one crazy way to carry someone's torch isn't it?

ex

love

old flame

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sunsham68 Yes Nikka. Thanks. Great advice. I don't hang out with him, we just bumped into each other on the public transport. But I know what you mean about not communicating. I came across a pen friend who I had to stop keeping in touch cos he got too serious he found...

26 Apr 13

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

My ex says he always regretted that we drifted apart and claims he named his daughter after me. That is one crazy way to carry someone's torch isn't it?

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sunsham68 Hell yeah. If I ever had my husband do that to me I would so hate it! I too would not socialise or hang out with an ex. Its just not right. I mean, what can we talk about - how we used to laugh or what we liked, or what?? No way.

26 Apr 13

cynthiann @cynthiann (18612) • Jamaica 22 Apr 13

I mentioned before that I am going through boxes of personal papers and letters and hundreds of photos. I am making a collage of family photos to frame. So I picked out one and took it to my son to show him. Look at this I...

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sunsham68 Wow Ramya, Carefree school days for sure. You got that right! Too bad we thought they were the worst days of our lives when we should have been ravishing every moment. Or am I one of the few who had it wrong?!

23 Apr 13

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 27 Mar 13

If you got the ability to fly, what would be on your list of things to do? Keep it as fun as possible, there can't possibly be a very serious answer, of if you can think of one, let's hear it :) I would fly above the city and...

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sunsham68 Wow. Feel like you are flying just being atop a mountain? You have a great imagination!

23 Apr 13

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 27 Mar 13

If you got the ability to fly, what would be on your list of things to do? Keep it as fun as possible, there can't possibly be a very serious answer, of if you can think of one, let's hear it :) I would fly above the city and...

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sunsham68 :) my thoughts exactly, to be home whenever I want and spend time with my folks. Being across oceans make simple meetings way too complicated!

23 Apr 13

kemak28 @kemak28 (724) • United States 22 Apr 13

I am so addicted to Pinterest lately. I'm on there all the time getting new recipes, ideas for my daughter's birthday party, ideas for activities for my daughter and I to do, make your own cleaning products.... the list goes on...

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sunsham68 as well ?? :)

23 Apr 13

Hugsy25 @Hugsy25 (274) • Canada 2 Apr 13

I must of blinked or something... It seems like only yesterday I had just graduated high school and I was working full time and living at my boyfriends house with his parents. Well 2 years after graduating I met the man that I...

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sunsham68 Aw hugsy, I was just kidding, I remember this was all about being lost for time and only find time to post this much cos I goof off inbetween reports from working online which is my lucky job :)

9 Apr 13

anujkumarkumar1 @anujkumarkumar1 (721) 5 Apr 13

Hello friends! I am working with a multinational company in india, Everything is o.k. here.Environment is really Good, no work pressure i have and the compay has a good reputation in international market but still i am not...

are you satisfied

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sunsham68 Don't wait too much. If you want to start a biz, get it started small and move up in small steps.I know a lady who used to run an internet center with over 15 comps and rake in almost 15k a day when the internet boom was just new. And she started out of a...

9 Apr 13

gloryacam @gloryacam (5540) • Philippines 1 Mar 11

In my quest to lessen my expenses, I've started doing things myself, like cooking me meals (Used to eat out. Everyday.), fixing broken things around the house myself, and just this morning, I altered my own pants! And...

frugality

fun

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sunsham68 Hey, you don't sound like you are making excuses. I am busy too and have an awfully erratic schedule what with two boys under 5 running riot most of the time :) If I had the luxury of time, I would love to sew, create stuff, build up stuff, get real down and...

9 Apr 13

Hugsy25 @Hugsy25 (274) • Canada 2 Apr 13

I must of blinked or something... It seems like only yesterday I had just graduated high school and I was working full time and living at my boyfriends house with his parents. Well 2 years after graduating I met the man that I...

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sunsham68 Ha ha, time is flying and we have not got a comment on our responses :)

9 Apr 13

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 3 Apr 13

Is there anywhere a certain degree of flirting allowed? Are there categories such as innocent/ spiteful flirting or is "flirting" just plain flirting and its just plain wrong?

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sunsham68 You are right and that is simply awful.

9 Apr 13

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 2 Apr 13

I have the same features since I was in school. Honest, my friend from 1st grade even recognised me after having not seen me for over 15 years. And yet, I always felt so left out when other girls got hit on, got more dates or guys...

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sunsham68 Ha ha. Maybe :)

7 Apr 13

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