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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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Scott Your son and his guests must be respectful of your house rules. You can discuss with him and his guets the rules of the house. I think your rules are okay and that your son should follow them. Have a nice day. Pablo

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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clod0327 I think you did the right thing in pointing it out to him. Teenagers nowadays are aggressive and sometimes they need a little reminder to keep them on the right track. You’re his parents so you have every right to remind him if you see he’s doing something...

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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ladymoonstone143 You did the right thing, it is your house and you can set the rules. Even if they are not planning to do anything, your son had to ask permission from you first if they can go to his room and see what your response will be. I guess he just assume that it is...

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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sadmonkey you are right. Your son is still living with you and as his mother he should follow the rules. If he wouldn't, advice him that he can do whatever he wants if he is living on his own, but for know, follow mama. :))

2 May 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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applsofgld You did the right thing. I don't care if they are 18 or 25, if they are in my house and they are not married, the will not be allowed to go into a bedroom, any bedroom together. If his tv or playstation or whatever is in there and they are not secluded and the...

2 May 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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purposedriven I think that you are being a very responsible parent who is concerned about her child. There is nothing wrong about the way you dealt (are dealing) with the situation. Have that talk! Your son should definitely know better than that. The world needs more...

2 May 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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krissyw3973 Your house your rules! It's all about respect! Stick to your guns and don't back down!

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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songbirdnaimh I applaud you.....many parents have a laissez faire attitude with their teens. I'm glad to see you setting boundaries. My biggest concern would be the fact that she is underage AND you don't know how her parents feel about them being alone behind a closed...

2 May 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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mouse27 well i'm 27 years old so i still kinda remember what it was like at 18 and at that age i didn't want to sit in the family room with everyone else cause i figured what i had to say to my boyfriend or any of my other friends was none of my families bussiness my...

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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thinkingoutloud We have an established "house rule" that there is to be no entertaining friends in the bedrooms. The girls are welcome to show their rooms to their friends and, certainly, they can be in there with the door open if there's nowhere else that's available (rather...

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 19 Feb 07

My family and I went to Didneyland with the Make A Wish foundation and it was fantastic. I have never seen 2 kids smile so much in my life as I seen with my 2 kids.Even though one of them was very sick. I know that the Make A...

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Bev1986 We got a letter yesterday that my daughter will definitely be getting her wish! She's so excited! You mentioned that your son got to take something with him? Do they let all the kids do that? It would be me, my husband, dd and our other dd... She's...

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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lozzie01 I agree i think you should leave the dor open but if they want some privacy reserve the right to walk in at any time and let him no you will but knick first just to help you learn to trust each otherxxx

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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azsari As parents both of you have the rights to told them what they should do and don't.Besides both of them are still young and they still have a long journey in their live.Courage them to concentrate on their future by hit the best in their study.

16 Mar 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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Bev1986 I agree with you.... sorry, call me old fashioned, but no girls and boys in the bedrooms together.... Maybe if the door was open and it was visible from wherever adults are present, but never with the door closed. No way. Too much temptation.....

16 Mar 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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hikarushidou Well your son is out of line there. There are kids who can somehow do that because parents dont really care but if the kid grew up with alot of responsibilities taught to him he should have acted that way.

16 Mar 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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mdarma What you did was correct. Talk to him and let him know where is the boundery. But keep your cool. Cheers

16 Mar 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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djbtol I think the family room is a great idea. It gives them enough privacy, without the danger of truly being all alone behind a closed door. Sounds like trouble.

16 Mar 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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vicky1 You was right in doing this.He will get over it. But not only would I talk ti him I would also let his girlfriend know that she is only to be in the family room and no bedrooms.

16 Mar 07

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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meljessxena well my parents were bit weiry of that to, but i learnt to communicate with them and talk to my mum and said like not going to do anything etc and well she just said have the door open etc. and she was glad i came to her. maybe you need to sit down with your...

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susieq16 @susieq16 (68) • United States 11 Mar 07

My son is 18 and a senior in High School. His girlfriend is 17.She came here after he got off work yesterday and they went straight to his room.I asked him what he was thinking and he said we are not doing anything.Well his Dad...

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serialmommy I also think that he was out of line. First off, she is a minor, and he is not and in my state (Michigan) he could suffer serious repercussions if she (or her parents) ever decided to try to prosecute for statuatory rape. Secondly, it is your home and he...

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