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techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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rush_nvr_say_die First: You cannot force yourself to fall in love with your frnd coz u think frnds will stay forever.... Second: Forever is a dicy word when it comes to relationships...... There hv been instances when frnds have found out they are no more compatible and...

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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sazeedell before you'll be in this "romantic relationship", you'll start as friends, isn't? and "if" a friend of yours become your gf/bf, how can you be so sure that she/he will still stay with you if ever the relationship wont work? what im just trying to tell here is...

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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nashelsky "lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay" . Nice quote, I think. In my opinion, this is quite true. So my suggestion is only fall in love with your friend, when you are really sure that you two will not break up. But , nobody can guess the future, so...

21 Feb 07

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 20 Feb 07

There is a friend of mine who is having a committed relationship with a girl and he is serious about it. But on the other hand he is not satisfied with having a single committed relationship, hence he got involved with another...

breakup

love

reality

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rush_nvr_say_die Galz dont waste your time and energy on a person who does not have the guts to be fair and straight forward.... Wats the use of crying for a person who is not worth your trust.... Good that you got to know it now, and be happy that you dont have to spend your...

21 Feb 07

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nutcase222 @nutcase222 (676) • India 19 Feb 07

for me it can be anywhere as long as im with the right person...... what about you

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raveena My perfect date idea would be Enjoying the outdoors in true style. Rent or take your own convertible for a drive along the beach. Let the breeze waft while you enjoy the stunning views and each other’s company.

19 Feb 07

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 11 Feb 07

I have a big question for quiet sometime... why we always associate LOVE with heart and not any other parts of body ?? In human beings the heart simply pumps blood and nothing else... it cannot feel or think !! then why ??

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oarnamav I will explain you why the heart comes in to picture when it's about "LOVE". Our body senses five types of feelings, as you know it very well. Sense of touch, sense of smell, sense of vision, sense of listening & sense of taste. We don't mention the art...

12 Feb 07

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 29 Jan 07

The question remained illusive till date... but i couldn't find the proper answer to that and this is true for each and everyone. The question is : "Why we never forget our first love ??" So i am putting forward this same...

first love

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cindyspassions good question for sure. i think that the reason we don't ever forget our first love is simply becuase it is our first love. the first time we felt that way the first time we cared that much. that is like your first car, your first date, your first kiss. any...

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 29 Jan 07

The question remained illusive till date... but i couldn't find the proper answer to that and this is true for each and everyone. The question is : "Why we never forget our first love ??" So i am putting forward this same...

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rush_nvr_say_die I agree to you... There are very few people who are lucky enough to spend their life with the person who is their LOVE..... Most of the other times, its the memories of your love (if u had one in ur life), or the want for the same (if u hv nvr met ur true...

8 Feb 07

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savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 1 Aug 08

For all of you who have sent advise about this I truly thank you. I am so new at this that any thing you can give me is welcome. Thank you

working

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kesfylstra For all of you who have sent advise about this I truly thank you. I am so new at this that any thing you can give me is welcome. Thank you

2 Feb 07

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berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 31 Jan 07

Here most of our mylot users iv seen responding to questions like do you wake up early?do you eat breakfast?should dogs bark?and it is very funny that people put up such questions and others are ready to answer.I always make sure...

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berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 31 Jan 07

Here most of our mylot users iv seen responding to questions like do you wake up early?do you eat breakfast?should dogs bark?and it is very funny that people put up such questions and others are ready to answer.I always make sure...

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beaniefanatic13 I completely agree with you. I have been going to the discussion section that doesn't have any answers looking for topics from people that are seeking help or advise. It makes me feel good that I might be helping someone. Especially if it is something that...

2 Feb 07

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CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 2 Feb 07

As most of you know I posted a discussion in regards to my mother and her abuse of me during childhood and throuhg adult hood. She has used me, accused me of horrible things and if you would like to view the discussion to get the...

mother

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jennybeans I understand why you feel g uilty. It sounds like your mom did a good job making you feel bad for all she's done to you. Everything I have ever learned about bad relationships will tell you straight up that it is healthy to rid yourself of psychologically...

2 Feb 07

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 27 Jan 07

Very lucky few get a chance to live a life with someone you loved the most in life !! but for most of us at one point of time we need to part off from the one whom we loved the most and dreamed of staying together for whole life...

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rush_nvr_say_die I sincerely hope, no one should go through this ever....... Yet since you have given the situation and most of the times we see this happening (I dont kno why does life do this....) I would say that if at all you have to part from your loved one, make sure you...

2 Feb 07

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 30 Jan 07

The question is very simple. Let me give you a scenario. There is this boy/girl you know for quite soemtime now, and you really like him/her. But, you are not sure whether to term this as love or infatuation? So how will you...

relationships

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kuntal41101 The understanding is simple if you take it in a simple way !! when you want someone to be just beside you whenever you turn around is the one. You neither attracted by the physical need not by that girl/by look !! I mean to say... although these two are...

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 30 Jan 07

The question is very simple. Let me give you a scenario. There is this boy/girl you know for quite soemtime now, and you really like him/her. But, you are not sure whether to term this as love or infatuation? So how will you...

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oarnamav Whenever this situation is to be faced, A clear cut approach and open talk would resolve the issue. As such you have rightly raised the topic which happens with so many young love birds. This cofusion or in other words a cowardness or excess shyness...

2 Feb 07

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rush_nvr_say_die @rush_nvr_say_die (45) • India 1 Feb 07

Since I have been working in HR for a long time now, and thruout my career with IT organizations, I have discussed this n number of times, that "is working beyond office hours regularly justifialble?" Are IT people in India are...

proffessional

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melody1011 I feel, that people in IT these days are youngesters that have nothing to do outside their work life. So they tend to prolong their stay in the office where they get free coffee, cool rooms, and access to the internet. I dont know if these companies pay...

1 Feb 07

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mani_bhushan @mani_bhushan (9) • India 9 Jul 08

what u take early from your bed...

drink

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rush_nvr_say_die what u take early from your bed...

1 Feb 07

rush_nvr_say_die @rush_nvr_say_die (45) • India 1 Feb 07

Extra Marital Affairs, all of us might have heard about it lot of times. Not that its a new phenomenon, its been existing from the ancient ages, but is the most discussed topic in the modern age... Specially with IT culture,...

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 29 Jan 07

Got engaged with a very nice girl but couldn't stop loving the girl i loved the most from my school days. What should i Do?? Note: not me but someone who don't wanna come forward as his life partner is also in the mylot!!

been in love

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ako_me are you sure that you still love the girl from school days? when was the last time you see her? she may be a "dead star". dead star is actually a short story about a guy who's about to marry but met someone before the wedding. he actually falls for the new...

1 Feb 07

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