teejams

@teejams (88)

Philippines • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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should i break up with him?

KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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teejams okey first of all i admire you for choosing not to cheat on him. and it's the right thing to do. another thing you can do for now is to really really assess what you're feeling for both guys. is what your feeling for the new guy real? or maybe you're just...

14 Nov 08

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Does women have been planning their wedding since childhood?

GIRLBITS @GIRLBITS (228) • Philippines 3 Nov 08

I never thought about wedding. When I was a kid, all I ever wanted to be was to be a beautiful princess, or fly like a fairy... just what a child or a little girl always dream t of.

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teejams well since i was a child i too was thinking of becoming a princess and a fairy....wedding didn't even cross my mind. maybe it's because i seldom attended weddings when i was a kid. i was only invited to be a flower girl once and didn't have any nice memory to...

4 Nov 08

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Bridesmaid issue!

xthisisglamourx @xthisisglamourx (45) • United States 15 Oct 08

Ok, so I am gonna go ahead and warn you guys now that for the next year I am going to be coming to all of you for loads of questions! Thanks in advance for helping me figure all of these crazy things out. I asked one of my best...

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teejams ok first of all it's your wedding....her refusal to cover her tattoo is just a little thing to ask from her. the least thing she could do is support you with what you want on your wedding day....ok sorry for getting carried away...well another option would be...

30 Oct 08

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What is the Perfect Venue for your wedding?

PrincessThinker @PrincessThinker (234) • Philippines 28 Oct 08

Is it on a chapel? Will it be a home wedding? Will you choose Garden Wedding? Do you prefer a Cruise Wedding? Will you pick Marriage by the sea? If you have other brilliant ideas, kindly share and why?

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teejams ok before i let my imagination rolling...hehe i'm kinda a wedding planner wannabe. so my dream wedding is actually planned halfway through without my boyfriend knowing...hahha....so aniweis, i'm a sucker for outdoor weddings...or anything that's out of the...

30 Oct 08

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What would you save if your house was burning down......

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 26 Aug 07

..... and you could only take one item? And of course, this pre-supposes that all your family members and pets are already safe and well:-)) And yes I am sure this topic has been done before on myLot, but it's a laxy, sunny Sunday...

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teejams ok just one item? aww man. yeah probably my purse. coz all my cards, ids, and money are kept in it. but then again, it could be my starbucks planner where i keep records of important dates and precious memories of the events....and most of all...it is where i...

25 Oct 07

Best Show ever

Brezoles @Brezoles (65) • Australia 21 Sep 07

I totally love the Show the OC. It was a drama that use to play every Tuesday nights. It has now been axed which is really sad. My favourite character is Rachel Bilson, shes funny and cute! & Mischa Barton as well. She was the...

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teejams oh yeah rachel bilson. i like how they played with her character. from a B@#%h, snobby, popular, rich girl who bullies seth around to a loving, sweet, girlfriend. i had to admit i wasn't able to follow the show after marissa was killed. i wonder what the story...

25 Oct 07

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This week's episode! Heroes Rocks!!!

IssaHam @IssaHam (73) • United States 23 Oct 07

I was so excited to see a new painting!! I think it's awesome how Peter is slowly re-discovering his powers! I like the fairly new character, Mika's cousin, and her power. I am curious to see if there's limits to it or not....

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teejams ooohhhhh i envy each one of you!!!!! i haven't seen any of the episodes in season 2. i was actually debating with myself whether i'm gonna open this discussion or not coz it's gonna be a spoiler....guess i couldn't help myself. :) a little information won't...

25 Oct 07

How many kids do you want to have?

youngkin @youngkin (53) • China 23 Oct 07

Children are always lovable. I have a boy 3 years old, and I love him. However, my wife and I don't want to have another kid any more. It takes so much to bring a kid, and we have not the ability to bring up one more kid. How many...

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teejams i agree! bringing up kids is not easy. it takes a lot of effort, time and money. especially once they start schooling. i want to have two kids. a girl and a boy. just like me and my brother. two because it is important that your kid has somebody to talk to and...

23 Oct 07

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is virginity of a girl important in marriage?

celle_08 @celle_08 (4) • Philippines 21 Oct 07

does virginity a big factor in getting marriage.....Do woman have the right to get married if she's not virgin anymore...

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teejams the right to getting married is definitely not dependent on whether a woman is a virgin or not. it is every woman's right to get married but there is a question whether she is emotionally and mentally ready...even financially...but that is another issue...now,...

23 Oct 07

Do YOU ever feel like such a DUMMY??

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 19 Sep 07

I am having one of those days ... ever feel like you do things in your job or in your life and something goes wrong and it was because you didn't do the right to begin with?? Sometimes I walk around and think what a dummy I am,...

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teejams oh hell yeah. for five years i have been working in the showbusiness. being the newbie five years ago i was hungry for training. i wanted to be promoted coz i know i am good at it. then there comes this person whom i trusted and offered to train me as an...

20 Sep 07

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Who's the first person you see when you wake up in the morning?

zuri25 @zuri25 (2125) • United States 1 Nov 06

For me, it is my daughter.

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teejams when i sleep at my apartment it's usually my boyfriend who i see when i wake up which is, to my delight. he gives me so much things to thanks for. for one, is he being with me and next, for another brand new day. on the other hand, when i sleep at my cousin's...

19 Aug 07

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heart over mind? or mind over heart?

15felicity @15felicity (79) • Philippines 11 Aug 07

when you love you don't have to think and use your mind for love doesn't come from the brains but from the heart,, but never use your heart when you're hurt instead use your brain to think, to love again.

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teejams definitely mind over heart. mind gives the heart the rationality of things. enables them to do what is right. the heart may find it hard to believe but the mind will let the heart see what it means and eventually work together in progress in order to heal and...

18 Aug 07

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Which types of people you really hate and why?

Akhilesh @yourgoogly (1671) • India 15 Aug 07

Can you tell me which types of people you really hate and why?

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teejams that is a very good question. i have a list of what i hate. for starters, i hate people who pretends to be somebody they are not. i hate people who cheat and gives you crappy excuses. in relation to that, i hate people who think you are that stupid not to know...

18 Aug 07

What is your last thought before you sleep?

Malyck @Malyck (3425) • Australia 17 Aug 07

Tell me: if you remember, what is your last conscious thought before you go to sleep. every night, I feel thankful that I am in the arms of my loving boyfriend, and i feel contentment, but lately I have also been thinking about...

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teejams you bet my lot is pretty addicting. especially when you know that you are starting to earn more. haha. on the other hand, i share the same thought with you about feeling thankful that you are with a very loving boyfriend. i guess you would feel how right it is...

18 Aug 07

What are you feelings on interracial marriage?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 8 Aug 07

Just to make it clearer I'm not talking about religions but races. What are your thoughts when you see a caucasian woman with an african american man or a caucasian man with an asian woman or any other interracial couple?My...

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teejams it is good that you have been brought up and have brought up your own children not to be a racist. i agree that there is nothing wrong in interracial marriage for as long as they are truly in love and can live in harmony. colors mean nothing as compared to...

9 Aug 07

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Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows... who's done reading it?

irongsaag @irongsaag (34) • Philippines 7 Aug 07

I finished reading the book more than a week ago and, surprisingly, it was the best...well, that is for me of course. It's the only one in the series who has the most killings in the first five chapters. Believe it or not, your...

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teejams i was actually having second thoughts if i'm going to read your discussion on the final book of harry potter coz i haven't read the book yet. hehe i'll try to download it on limewire. thanks for the suggestion. hhmmm. reading through your reactions i'm...

8 Aug 07

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Isn't it amazing what mylot has done.

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 7 Aug 07

As I sit here tonight, visiting with my friends that I have acquired from many different countries, I am amazed what mylot has done. It has brought together people from many nations who discuss important issues, become friends and...

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teejams TRUE!!! it's funny how we just say what we want to say and start a conversation through mylot. we may not get the reply right away as compared to a normal conversing group of people but it is how we respond to each other despite the language barrier (who are...

8 Aug 07

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