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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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Whisp1976 I think that it is normal to feel resentment towards those we share our living space with if/when they do not do their share of the household chores ( or other shared responsibilities). I am lucky in that my husband is very good about that type of thing. He is...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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toplen I think you have to let him know how hard it is for you to pull two jobs (that is being a wife and mom, and an amployee). Tell him that your current set up isn't a normal thing and you need a partner. You need his help asap coz you are tired and depressed...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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palonghorn Have you tried to discuss any of these concerns with him? It may help more than you think it would. The only thing you are accomplishing at the moment (besides being the only one working) is stressing yourself out more. As for him not helping around the house,...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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wonderful1 Yes,i love and hate my husband . I can bear most of his faults,but i cant bear he smoke in the bedroom. He can wash dishes and clothes after work. Sometimes i feel i have a considerate husband,but refer to giving up smoke,he is no longer that considerate...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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Denmarkguy I am rather familiar with the dynamic you describe... as I was married in that sort of situation for many years, and-- wouldn't you know it!-- went right out an got involved with someone who repeated it. With my ex, I had a fairly good job, but it required...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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KURIAN Wife is well placed then they blame husbands and vice versa, this happens in all household,who is to be blamed and no one is perfect.Shall we humble ourselves and work for the betterment of the entire household

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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highflyingxangel For one, I'd definitely call him out on the fact that he's doing nothing except sitting home and playing video games. He needs to find something to do, even if it's something rather small and only part time to occupy his time rather than sitting home and doing...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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kaygelbhen i'm happy to say that that i'm very much lucky to have the kind of husband i have. he knows every household work(except cooking :) and very sensitive to know that i need his help.

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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dixie1 communication is the key...have a serious talk with him.

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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bruxedo Perhaps your husband is with a depression. And he can't do anything while he doesn't feel better. Perhaps it would be a good idea convince him to go to see a doctor. When I am depressed I only want to game (easy flash games) or stay watching tv and even when I...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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RosieS57 Hi! Yes, the list sounds like a good idea. Another one is to unplug the video game console and take it to your work and store it there. Hubby gets it back when he's gainfully employed. Many of the government connected agencies give free classes in...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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RosieS57 Lay down the law. Either he registers at an employment agency (often there are free ones run by your state) and goes to get the work or you go on strike. You can't be expected to do it all. Also warn the kids. Every time the kids want/need something, tell...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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gbsingh I will simply call a spade a spade and give him a warning then and there. I won't get angry but I won't compromise out of love either. When my wife, who was then my girl-friend, proposed to me for marriage, I said - "Sure, but I won't feed you. Are you...

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dawnrm69 @dawnrm69 (1174) • United States 29 Apr 07

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