tommytan_88

@tommytan_88 (72)

Malaysia • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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who am i?????

Jaustin489 @Jaustin489 (10) • United States 19 Jan 10

have you ever wondered that? wondered what's your place in the world and what your destined to become? how are we to tell if just by the very thought of that changes are future....

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tommytan_88 I have never wondering about it because I am happy with who I am. Although I am not wealthy but at least I am healthy and I can do things that I like. About my future and what I am destined to become, I believe that I not destined to become anything but we...

19 Jan 10

how to save water?

rosey19 @rosey19 (951) • Philippines 26 Nov 09

As we all know that water is one of the basic necessity of human being. Is is indispensable. Saving water everyday not only save our monthly bills but we help in the protection of our environment. So it is very important that we...

water saving tips

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tommytan_88 I don't think I have any good tips to save water because I myself seldom save water because I like water. However, I do have a tip to save water. You can reuse the water that has been use for other purpose. For example, You can use the water from the...

26 Nov 09

Hi, what is your motivation to join in the website of mylot?

gongchhua @gongchhua (272) • China 21 Nov 09

I am very interested in the field of goup dynamics. Also, I focus on group learning and collaboration in the online environment. In common, people like to join in the team or group in the online communities. Such as facebook,...

motivation

online collaboration

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tommytan_88 The informal learning activities usually are more attractive because it is done by the personal interest. The students can discuss in various topics in the informal discussion. However they can only discuss on the certain topics during the formal discussion in...

21 Nov 09

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Do you always complain even if there were no a problem ??

Novelist_117 @Novelist_117 (566) • Qatar 21 Nov 09

Hi all in our daily life we have good and bad things always happen !! that is something obvious !! sometimes people have no problems at all and every thing goes ok with them but...

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tommytan_88 Never, why would I complain when there is no problem? Even when I'm facing problems, I will never complain because complain won't help a bit. I would rather use the time and energy for complaining to do something to solve my problems.

21 Nov 09

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Are friendly members of myLot really friendly in person?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 20 Nov 09

I just noticed it, majority (if not all) of members here in mylot are too friendly. In response to discussions, giving insights, giving suggestions and the like. Are we really that friendly in real life or just simply doing what's...

mylot members

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tommytan_88 I don't think so. Not everyone in Mylot are friendly in real life. For exmple me, myself, I don't really friendly in my real life. I do have many friends but I am an intrapersonal person, I don't really like to talk much but I like to give out my opinion. So,...

20 Nov 09

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family

binacheri14 @binacheri14 (299) • United States 20 Nov 09

Life may change us, but we start and end with family. What do you think of when you read this simple sentence?

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tommytan_88 I don't really understand the sentence "life may change us". As I know something like friends, obstacles and our envieonment may change our life but I never heard that life may change us. our life supposed to be the way we are. If one says that he is happy...

20 Nov 09

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commit suicide cause her boyfriend now is with somebody else-does it worth it?

MsSasa87 @MsSasa87 (28) • Malaysia 16 Nov 09

for me, the human relationship is so freak... if we think rationally, it just a stupid action for killing ourselves just because failed in love. i just don't understand why should it happen. when i met my friends last time when...

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tommytan_88 Hi! You are a Malaysian too, right? You are the first Malaysian that I've ever met in Mylot? In my opinion, we cannot tell whether it is worth to do such a thing or not because it is all about how your friend feels. To us, of course it is not worth because...

16 Nov 09

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What exactly is a friend?

thett3 @thett3 (19) • United States 15 Nov 09

I've been thinking about this, is there a big line between friend and just someone you know. What do you think?

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tommytan_88 No, someone we know is our friends. when we meet them, we will still greet them. However, it is a different story when it comes to best friends, and true friends.

15 Nov 09

What was the most spiritual experience you've ever had??

thett3 @thett3 (19) • United States 15 Nov 09

Just wondering

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tommytan_88 I have seen somebody possessed by ghost. He acted like a wild beast and attacked other people and he even tried to hurt himself by bitting his tongue.

15 Nov 09

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Are women emotionally strong than men?

happy2512 @happy2512 (1266) • Philippines 15 Nov 09

Basing upon my experiences & observation. I can say that women are emotionally strong than men because we may get depress for a while but as soon as we have recovered were back on our usual routine plus we become more stronger...

relationship

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tommytan_88 I had made an observation about emotion before for my social study project. from my observation, i can conclude that women are more emotional than men. They got angry, sad, despress etc more often than men.

15 Nov 09

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Is snow there?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 15 Nov 09

I remembered those beautiful snow flakes falled down from sky, wow, it's amazing. When the snow stacked heavy, we can stacked the snow man. I can't felt the cold because I love the natual snow. It is a little cold now, I hope it...

life

snow

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tommytan_88 I also like snow but I never see the real snow because I live in Malaysia. There will never have snow here. I wish I could see the real snow someday.

15 Nov 09

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What your life like,a pig,snake,or...

florence0425 @florence0425 (49) • China 13 Nov 09

My life look like a pig,I sleep and sleep,eat and eat,nothing else.I wonder what your life like,nicer than me?

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tommytan_88 I would decribe my life as a bird. I feel so free and happy. I do things I like to do everyday. I feel very happy and satisfy with my life.

13 Nov 09

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Education

rimarima @rimarima (80) • Philippines 13 Nov 09

When is the ideal age for a child to start schooling? Many parents enroll their kids to school even before they are 4 years old. Is it really necessary to start early or should they start later.

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tommytan_88 Children shouldn't start their schooling so early. If they start to go to school too early, they would miss out their wonderful childhood. Many parents send their children for tuition class, drama class dan so on because they think that children should learn...

13 Nov 09

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How do you reduce your anger?

itzmee1009 @itzmee1009 (362) • Australia 13 Nov 09

Hi friends Everyone in this world used to get anger ,in one or other situations,How do you reduce it, by shouting out ,or go out for a walk,or have glass of water,or keep silent or share your anger with your friends or...

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tommytan_88 I have a way of reducing anger that I always use but I don't know if it can help you or not. When I am angry, I would look into the sky and ask myself, "do you know the god always watching you?". The God is looking at us all the time and he doesn't like to us...

13 Nov 09

What motivates you to work hard and to be a better person!

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 12 Nov 09

My family motivates me to be a better person and as much as possible do bad things even if we are having a hard time on the present economic situation. My family and my goals in life motivates me to work hard in order for me to be...

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tommytan_88 Many things motivates me to become a better person. The first one would be the God. His words always motivate me to do good things and help other people. The second is my girlfriend who always advice me whenever I did anything wrong. She would never miss to...

13 Nov 09

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are you in a relation?

LisaGuo @LisaGuo (241) • China 13 Nov 09

are you in a relation?Are you serious about it? I find many young people in this society,go into a relation fast and get out fast as well.I can't really understand it.What's your opinion?

opinion

relation

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tommytan_88 I agree that many young people don't serious about their relation. They change their partner so easily. They can find a new one right after they breaking-up with their girlfriend or boyfriend. I really can't understand either. Don't they have at least a little...

13 Nov 09

how to earn money here?

maryelangel @maryelangel (1) • Philippines 12 Nov 09

how to earn money here in my lot? help me pls.

help me pls

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tommytan_88 It's very easy to earn money here. What you need to do is just response to other people's discussion. You will earn some money when you does. Another way is to start a discussion, when somebody responsed to your discussion, you'll earn money too. You will earn...

12 Nov 09

Do You Still Buy and Use Cookbooks?

GoGirl149 @GoGirl149 (152) • Canada 12 Nov 09

I haven't opened a cookbook in years. In fact, I'm thinking of giving away all my old cookbooks as they're just gathering dust and taking up valuable shelf space. Whenever I need a recipe I just look it up online. The internet...

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tommytan_88 I never buy a cookbook because sometimes I don't even know what're the ingredients. Yes, all the ingredients needed are written in the book but the problem is that I never heard or know the ingredients.

12 Nov 09

good friends,how many do you have?

LisaGuo @LisaGuo (241) • China 12 Nov 09

Is it upset that when something trouble comes to me I'm so unwilling to contact any friend?We have many friends,but how many good friends we have?So-called real friends. Friends,good friends,close friends,real friends,what's...

friend

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tommytan_88 This is my own definition Real friends are friends who stand up when you need them. They cry for you when you are sad and they laugh with you when you are happy. They happy to see you happy. Close friends are friends who are close to you who you will...

12 Nov 09

What is love?

msanwal009 @msanwal009 (1) • Pakistan 7 Nov 09

i think love is life

life is a gift

love is life

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tommytan_88 That is your opinion and I respect your opinion. In my opinion, love may be life to someone when they enjoy their relationship with their lover and family. However, to people borned without love, their life still have go on.

12 Nov 09