tseavellanosa

@tseavellanosa (52)

Philippines • Age 47

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Kids say the funniest things

seabeauty @seabeauty (1480) • United States 3 Jul 07

My daughter has 7 of her friends over and I don't know how they got on the subject of old people but one of the girls said "old people don't die unless they get shooted at" hahahaha! I don't know what made her say that but it...

mother

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tseavellanosa My baby boy is only 14 months when he first start kissing girls! we always tease him to kiss, whether it is a girl or a boy, but he still prefers to kiss girls only! and I don't know why!And he knows how to call girl's attention!

4 Jul 07

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Supporting your husband

lizbeckwith @lizbeckwith (28) • United States 28 Jun 07

My husband has a lot of emotional and psychological problems. He struggles with severe depression and an eating disorder, and he gets in trouble with the law. I love him, but the toll that his issues take on our relationship is...

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tseavellanosa Being a wife is so hard, you have to put all the consequences before acting in a major problem. And before we put ourself in loosing a hubby, we still think first about our son, and that's really hard, because we always sacrifice our happiness for our son's...

4 Jul 07

Were you ever at a point of giving up on life---but didn't? What happened?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 3 Jul 07

This may seem like a heavy topic...and in some ways it is. But I am like most people I love happy endings and that is why I decided to post this discussion. The idea began for me last night just before I signed off. I checked...

creating happy endings

reaching out to those in need

students and teachers in the sharing circle of lif

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tseavellanosa Right now, I am feeling that way too....i want to give up. I feel hopeless, my mom is having trouble right now and there's nothing I can do for her. I want to help her in everything I can but I feel so worthless. I am reaching out to you, specially to those...

3 Jul 07

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Do you make your bed every morning?

mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 19 May 07

Yes, I do. That is one habit I have gotten into no matter what. I used to think why make it when we are going to get back in and mess it up again that night. LOL That is true but it makes my bedroom look so much neater. I just...

homemaker

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tseavellanosa I always do that, because I like my bed properly arranged, but my husband and my son, always hangs out in our bedroom, so all in all, i do it 5x a day! I don't want to lay in a crumpled bed sheet. And I see to it to change it every week.

29 Jun 07

What is your favorite room in your house and why?

Aliciay @Aliciay (72) • United States 13 Jun 07

Is is a room you decorated to your dreams, or is it the room you kids love to be in the most, is it the kitchen cause you like to cook? My favorite room would probably be my kitchen. First because I do love cooking and baking,...

homemaker

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tseavellanosa My favorite part of my house is our kitchen, i really love cooking, I can stay there for hours and hours just to prepare a meal that my husband would really love...and my kid too. Its funny that when I am in the kitchen my 16month old baby also loves to hang...

29 Jun 07

If a king?

jinuxnet @jinuxnet (675) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

If a king is not a real men and marries another guy what is the guy to the royal family?

crazy thoughts

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tseavellanosa king's man! LOL

27 Jun 07

Does your In-Law live with you?

hjalj1221 @hjalj1221 (46) • United States 31 May 07

My Father-In-Law lives with us for about 8 months out of the year, and we do not get along at all. He puts me down for the way I cook, clean, raise my kids, and interfears constantly with our relationship. Do you have an In-Law...

family

relationship

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tseavellanosa Although we don't get along with my mother-in -law, but still I am much willing to let them stay in our house, and even my father-in-law too.My husband's came from a well respected family, and they are not willing to stoop down, but what else can I do if time...

27 Jun 07

How do you deal with in-laws?

jessmtiu @jessmtiu (251) • Philippines 21 Jan 07

I am fortunate enough to have really nice in-laws. My mother-in-law is very nice to me and we talk whenever she's in town. My father-in-law is the silent type. I rarely talk to him but whenever we interact, it's very congenial....

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tseavellanosa I am glad that I have only parents-in-law....my husband is now an only son because his brother passed away. My MIL, irks! she dislikes me very much, because she wants his son, my husband, back! And they are not living together with my father-in-law and she...

27 Jun 07

OMG this poor child!!!

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 26 Jun 07

I truly truly hope that this little one isnt TOO traumatized from his recent experience....I cant even begin to think what it was like for him to be in the apt with his dead mum....he must have been so scared with nothing to eat...

death

living with a corpse

traumatized child

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tseavellanosa The minute I finished reading the story, I shouldn't help but feel depressed. I pity for the boy, good thing nothing bad happened to him...i suddenly miss my baby boy.

27 Jun 07

How many children do you want in a family?

jcvernz @jcvernz (477) • Philippines 26 Jun 07

Do you prefer to have dozens of kids (heard some in the olden times, usually family during those times are big since family planning is not fully introduced) in the family or just 1,2,3...?Me, personally id like to have at least...

children

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tseavellanosa I want to have 3. My husband is the only son now because he lost his brother, that's why I am having a hard time relating to my mother in law because she doesn't want my husband to go with us and I think having 1 child is very hard especially if time comes...

27 Jun 07

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hate it

mamakatsarj @mamakatsarj (143) • Philippines 24 Jun 07

I was asking for help regarding my sons condition when some guy replied and told my son was ugly! like im not saying his the cutest in baby world but hey he is my son! and i was offeneded. this just goes to show that still theres...

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tseavellanosa Don't mind them..If they don't like your baby, its their problem, and not yours.

25 Jun 07

MOMs help

mamakatsarj @mamakatsarj (143) • Philippines 24 Jun 07

My baby is 8 month old and he always vomits, as in everything he ate! thats the reason why he is thin, so everyday I dave to change his clothes, sponge bath him and feed him again.... I just wish some mom out there can help me......

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tseavellanosa I think after you feed your baby you have to make him burp. And don't over fed. I can't believe that at 8 months he still can't retain his food? Is it normal? Have you tried asking for 2nd opinion? Try asking for some help, I think its not normal.

25 Jun 07

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New baby....New things?

daycarepal @daycarepal (1998) • United States 24 Jun 07

When you had your first child, did you have to go out and buy the crib, changing table and everything else that you needed? Or did someone help you purchase some of those big ticket items? When I had my 1st child 20 years ago,...

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tseavellanosa My first baby excites us, even my relatives, the minute they heard that I was expecting a baby boy,they offer baby stuffs for us. I know we can't buy that things too so I was very thankful that they gave me a lot.....My husband's grandmother gave us an...

25 Jun 07

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how would you feel if your baby isn't in ur hand or far away from u?

xianthinne @xianthinne (85) • Philippines 22 Jun 07

....have baby,now shes at my mother in law..i felt so empty and can't sleep well,is this a natural feeling being a mom?

far away from you

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tseavellanosa Letting my baby boy sleeps in other's house makes me sick! Even in my own mother, I don't allow him. I feel jealous every time somebody will fall him to sleep. I think as a mother, I should do all the wake up and bed time routines for him. And needless to say,...

23 Jun 07

What do you do after a hard day's work?

Fulton @Fulton (219) • South Africa 19 Jun 07

It's almost hometime for me. Today was a busy day as always, and it is great to know I'll be home soon. I usually collect my daughter at daycare first. Then when we get home, it's time for showers, homework, feeding the cats and...

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tseavellanosa After office work, 7pm.Then I'll drive home, cook dinner, go to shower with my son, then we'll eat by 9 pm, after that we'll play together and watch tv.Then go to sleep. As a mother, I feel like my office work doesn't stop by 7pm only, it's a continuous job...

19 Jun 07

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Do you like help around the house or do you...

mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 18 Jun 07

want to do it all by yourself? Sometimes I want to do it by myself but when my grandchildren want to help me, I let them because they need to learn how to do these things. They enjoy getting to help. I appreciate any help I get...

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tseavellanosa I'd rather clean the house myself because I can clean even the corner of it. I get irritated when somebody is helping me because it only ruin my adrenalin. I clean only our house once a month because I have a helper, so to burn my excess fat, i choose to clean...

19 Jun 07

My mom is my best friend. What about your mom?

sodapop @sodapop (977) • United States 17 Jun 07

How do you feel about your mom. I am very lucky to have a great mom! She has been there for me every inch of my life. She is my best friend, and I am her's. We call each other everyday, and complain, laugh, sometimes cry with each...

friend

life

mom

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tseavellanosa My mom is the best! though I never tell this to her, but I am so very grateful to have a mom like her. She take cares of me, until now, and she even takes care of my husband. She give everything that we needed, and I always see to it to update my mom about...

19 Jun 07

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I want my bed back!!!!

zuri25 @zuri25 (2125) • United States 18 Jun 07

Okay so I admit to breaking one of the first rules of parenting...don't let your child sleep in your bed with you. I caved in long ago and let Emilia share my bed with me. I was desperate to get a few more hours of sleep. Now...

parenting

sleep

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tseavellanosa I can't say anything regarding this mother because we have different opinion.My husband and I never mind if my son will sleep with us until he wants to get his own room. He is our only child, and I would still prefer being beside my son instead of my...

19 Jun 07

Are You a Better Mother Personally Staying Home, or Working Outside the Home?

momsunited @momsunited (61) • United States 18 Jun 07

We have all seen this debate countless times in what I call the "Mommy Wars". Personally I think that some women are better mothers when they choose to stay home, and others who are better mothers who choose to work outside the...

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tseavellanosa I thing I would be a great mom if I stay at home instead of staying 8 hours in the office. For me I think I could look after my son better, I can watch him as he grow older and also I can be the one to be beside him every time he needs me and not his...

19 Jun 07