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Always smiling @allknowing (153835) • India 22 Mar 13

I am peeved with quite a few in my life but just cannot 'wipe the slate clean' and move on. How can anyone do it without settling scores? What has been your life's experience in this sphere? How easily can you move on without even...

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wiping the slate clean

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violann Then you need to get in touch with the folks that have angered you and talk to them and let them know how you feel, what you think and what is going on in your life. find out what is going on in their lives also. If this is something that can't be let go...

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robspeakman @robspeakman (1700) 13 Mar 13

As we stumble through the 21st Century and we all pretend to strive for equality... WHAT!! We tend to have an overload of Idioms and sayings to help us adjust to everything... "Don’t judge a man until you have walked a...

gay for a day

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violann I'm not really sure what you mean by that "I had my tongue in my cheek" or "As response to the nonsense that is use to sound empathic". What is the world are you talking about???? Evidently I've been living under a rock all my 50+ yrs on this planet,...

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usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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violann I don't know how old your son is, however if he's under a year your wife may be suffering from post mortum stress. If this is the case then she really needs to see a doctor as this can cause a lot of haveck in your life's. Which it seems to be causing right...

13 Mar 13

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 13 Mar 13

Kathryn came home from school today with a very important flier that was informing us that she had a piece of art that is being featured in the District Art Show this year. This is something where only a hand full of pieces are...

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violann just read the other post, it seems no one else has anything to share about their children, what a shame that they didn't read your question: anyone else want to share about their children's accomplishments.

13 Mar 13

sheillaG0623 @sheillaG0623 (171) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

i read a post that a man is deciding to leave his wife and his son... this is so heartbreaking... because I went through same situation before but by God's love our marriage was saved from total destruction. I hope this man...

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violann thanks for sharing the link. I read it and responded to it as best I knew how, however I didn't see his response to you before I responded. I think maybe his wife is going thru post mortum. I could be wrong on that because I don't know how old the child is....

13 Mar 13

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33117) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

Hello Lotters, I still can't believed that i had to sleep late again regarding this matter because my mom had been watching this and she couldn't afford to stay up late. right now, i am senselessly waiting for the cardinal...

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violann The man in charge is God. Hopefully the new Pope will recognize that and follow what God has to say.

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fannitia @fannitia (2167) • Bulgaria 13 Mar 13

Congratulations to the Catholic world! The Vatican's conclave has just elected a new Pope. I'm watching live on BBC the gathering of people at St Peter Square. Everyone is eager to learn the name!

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violann yep, clean up the Catholic Church. What a shame.

13 Mar 13

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21428) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 22 Feb 13

I want Church-leaders to consider this, because there seems to be no agreed-upon prayer-method. You know The Our Father, the prayer Jesus in response to His disciples' request that He 'teach them to pray like John (the Baptist)...

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violann I agree with you it is more important the way you pray. God hears sincere prayer. I don't think God wants you to just repeat something over and over again because it was a prayer you were taught. Also I think the Lord's prayer is an example of how we should...

22 Feb 13

kourdapya @kourdapya (923) • Philippines 12 Feb 13

Because most of them don't get to experience what we had as a child specially kids who live in the city. Life was so simple during our time. We play the old traditional games while kids today play with the computers and gadgets a...

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violann That is so true and we had to be home when the street lights came on. In our teenage years we had a curfew.

22 Feb 13

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 20 Feb 13

A couple visiting San Francisco's Golden Gate Bridge on Valentine's Day discovered an unattended camera bag in a nearby parking lot. Inside the bag: credit cards, some papers and (wait for it) over $11,000. Read the article on...

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violann I read further down and saw that the owner did give a reward. That's awesome.

22 Feb 13

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 20 Feb 13

A couple visiting San Francisco's Golden Gate Bridge on Valentine's Day discovered an unattended camera bag in a nearby parking lot. Inside the bag: credit cards, some papers and (wait for it) over $11,000. Read the article on...

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violann I hope the owner gave the founder a reward for turning it in. That would be the decent thing to do. After all they really didn't have to turn it in

22 Feb 13

teotimoponcerosacena @teotimoponcerosacena (1550) • Philippines 20 Feb 13

Do you have any regrets in your life ? that you want to share with us my lotters it might be of help to us in the future, that is if you don't mine

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violann It really is shameful that people will think bad of others because of something that happened in the past. It ought not be that way, for others do not know what is going on or went on in someone else's life. I don't think it shameful or regrettable that any...

22 Feb 13

violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

job

search

work

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violann I don't know what your beliefs are, however I will pray for you not only for a job, also for the MS. You will get a job, I believe that, I just don't know what it is. Just consider this if you see a job out there that you are not qualified for and believe you...

21 Feb 13

kenshin2143 @kenshin2143 (1880) • Philippines 17 Feb 13

Most people nowadays tend to be very attached and greatly influenced by their surroundings and people around them resulting to a self that is more of the others that your true self. Most of us get to be depressed with the...

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violann Be true to yourself.

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violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

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violann Don't give up hope. I was out of work for over a year. I also was being to think that my age was a factor in not finding employment, of course no one will tell you that. I'm 58 yrs although I don't feel it. I like to think I'm still in my 30's...

15 Feb 13

violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

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violann I'll will pray that you get a job also. It's out there somewhere for sure. I know at times we just feel like giving up but we don't so keep on looking you will find one.

15 Feb 13

violann @violann (436) • United States 11 Feb 13

Well today was my first day at work. It's great to be working again. The office that I work in is not big, although the company is larger than I thought. Anyway the people I work with are great and very helpful. What I like best...

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violann I call people and set appointments for our counselors for pre arrangement services. I know this doesn't sound like an ideal job for most, however it's something all of us are going to have to do some day like it or not. We just try to make it a bit easier.

11 Feb 13

violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

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violann Thanks. Maybe if I had used the newspaper in FL. I wouldn't have to deal with this freezing cold here in PA. :)

10 Feb 13

violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

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violann It sure does take the stress off. It'll be nice to have an income again.

10 Feb 13

violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

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violann Thank you I'm looking forward to getting back to work.

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