vivianzhouhui

@vivianzhouhui (23)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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What's your favorite Chinese dish?

alphatrak @alphatrak (23) • United States 1 Dec 08

I'd have to say mine is Moo Shu Chicken or Pork. How about you?

pork

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vivianzhouhui Myfavourite chinese food is hot pot.and i like all kinds of spicy food.sichuan style food if u call it...just like the spicy taste.

2 Dec 08

How many of you Cook at Home

dreambark @dreambark (135) • United States 1 Dec 08

I was talking to my sister-in-law and I just realized she never cooks at home. I thin she lives to go out to eat. I know I love to cook at home, I feel its much healthier and you can control what your are eating I really never...

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vivianzhouhui I cook everyday bymyself if I am staying at home.used to go out to eat everyday when I ve got a boyfriend.but now only go out with friends and not that often.I like to cook and like to go grocery shopping and study new recipes from internet.cooking makes me...

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What did you buy for your first salary?

wanris @wanris (141) • Indonesia 1 Dec 08

I have worked at IT company. I received my salary for the first time. And do you want to know what I bought when I received my first salary? I bought a dolls for my girlfriend and asked her walking to our romantic place. We had a...

dolls

first salary

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vivianzhouhui That was sweet...I dont remember what I bought with my first month's salary...maybe I just went grocery shopping and bought some food.

2 Dec 08

being single

balki07prithvi @balki07prithvi (402) • India 1 Dec 08

hi....i'm single and i love living the same way....but there are many advantages and disadvantages of this...so do you prefer being single and why??

single

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vivianzhouhui I am newly single...24 year old.just broke up 1.5 months ago.Since I had my first relationship in high school the longest time of being single was 2 months..and now I havent had a boyfriend for 1.5 months already..really lonely although I got friends...that is...

2 Dec 08

which is your favourite perfume???

balki07prithvi @balki07prithvi (402) • India 2 Dec 08

perfumes are a must nowadays in this heat this heat to keep us away from the bad odour....some perfumes smell really good and some just stink.....which is your favourite perfume you use???

perfume

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vivianzhouhui I like to wear perfume..the one I am using everyday now is Lancome hypnotise(spelling?)It was a gift from my ex and I asked him to choose this one for me.Generally I like all perfume with a scent of coconut or vanilla.And I like very much my men wearing...

2 Dec 08

love yourself first before you get in to a relationship

pinks17 @pinks17 (2192) • Philippines 29 Nov 08

[i]I was told before that I have to love myself first before I get in to a relationship after my annulment.I forgot about myself. How could you love a person if you don't know how to love and take care of yourself?To be in a...

downside

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vivianzhouhui I always love myself and have got confidence in myself even when I was dumped.Being dumped doesnt mean that I am not good enough.It might just be because we are not right for each other.Now I am single and love myself more than ever.Still...

2 Dec 08

Do you really mean it when you say "I love you"?

rosdimy @rosdimy (3926) • Malaysia 28 Nov 08

The sentence or phrase "I love you" is commonly used in most relationships. I did not use it (so far) because I am not sure of my sincerity. Instead I use "I care" and try to show it through my actions. In your case do you...

love

sincere

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vivianzhouhui When i say this i truly mean it.I dont want to just make someone happy and say"I love you".when i say it i mean.and i take it seriously.the last time i said this to someone was after i got drunk(i pretended)cos i really didnt have the courage to say it to...

2 Dec 08

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How do you spend your christmas?

ranjetjoy @ranjetjoy (129) • Philippines 27 Nov 08

Here in the Philippines we have a lot of activities. We start decorating our house from September. We practice christmas song so that we can go for carolling in our neighborhood. We enjoy it and it is also one way to have money...

christmas

family

holiday

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vivianzhouhui We dont celebrate Xmas here usually...But I think I would go out with a bunch of friends this year.Lots of young couples see this as an opportunity to celebrate.Single me...

2 Dec 08

should i be with her anymore?

michaelnbc @michaelnbc (100) • China 27 Nov 08

it bothers me a lot:Being with her always makes me feel happy,but i just don't feel a thing when she was kissing me,and i don't why.Boys and girls help me out

relationship

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vivianzhouhui how do you feel when she hugs/hold you then?If she makes you happy then stay with her.

2 Dec 08

Writtings in public toilets!

srganesh @srganesh (6339) • India 1 Dec 08

During travels,we have to use public toilets.One can find more scribblings inside a public toilet.Some are with telephone numbers and addresses and some are cheap drawings of genetic organs.Generally ladies feel awkward about...

drawings

scribblings

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vivianzhouhui If you come to China you could see such writtings in public toilets almost everywhere.Well I have only been to ladies' restrooms and most times I will see somebody has written things like"I really like you xxx","I love you","I miss you""Why do you leave...

2 Dec 08

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Are You Suppose To Be Doing Something Else Right Now?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 1 Dec 08

Why do I always jump on the computer when I know I have a ton of things to do? Right now as I'm typing this discussion, I'm suppose to be washing dishes. The question is "why am I on Mylot when I have dirty dishes in the sink...

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vivianzhouhui I guess you must be a housewife,right?Well I am single and live alone.I've also got dishes for me to wash.But right now what I need to do is to reply to my students emails asking about the assignments.I teach Accounting in a university.I am also supposed to...

2 Dec 08

men are tricky!

misscarin1983 @misscarin1983 (81) • Canada 27 Nov 08

In the begining of a relationship they open car doors for you,insist on paying for everything,then you move in together and the romance is there for a while,then it gets taken out with the trash!

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vivianzhouhui women are tricky too...(I am a woman myself)this is just human nature.You cant expect a person to be always sweet...People get tired sometimes.

1 Dec 08

How you met lover first time?

meow1978 @meow1978 (190) • Malaysia 29 Nov 08

Where do you met your lover first time? Perhaps today he is your husband or she is your wife. Anyway, I am gonna tell you a short story how I met my girlfriend and hopefully next year I could tie a knot. It was back in the old...

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vivianzhouhui What a lovely story!!I just broke up last month so now I dont have a lover.But when I recall the past...I met all of my ex bfs from work/school.4 of them in classroom and 1 of them in work place.

1 Dec 08

Love at First Sight

eynjel05 @eynjel05 (444) • Philippines 28 Nov 08

Sometimes when I am browsing the internet, listening to the radio or reading newspapers, I encoutered several stories about love. SOme are testimonials about love at first sight. Do you believe on such? I believe in one thing: You...

first sight

love

newspapers

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vivianzhouhui well maybe you cant say "love"at first sight....but "like" or "interest"from first sight.sometimes you do meet people that you have feelings for the first you meet them...most of my ex bfs told me they liked me since the first time they met me.And none of my...

1 Dec 08

In your opinion would you go for a long distance relationships?

ranjetjoy @ranjetjoy (129) • Philippines 28 Nov 08

yes, i do believe that long distance relationship will work coz it depends on how deep and open your communication with one another. As long as you love each other and most important in a relationship is TRUST. For you my friend...

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vivianzhouhui I had a LD relationship before and it lasted 3 years before I ended it.cos I was with someone else.But it didnt mean that LD relaship cant work out.I didnt like this guy very much since the very begining.90% of the reason I was with him was that he is tooo...

1 Dec 08

girlfriend doesnt wana talk to me

anujs007 @anujs007 (98) • India 1 Dec 08

hi friends, heres what happened...had been in a long time relationship with this girl and we became quite close day by day.Then some time back had a argument..she saying tht she feels,it wont work out...we being far and with...

long distance

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vivianzhouhui So sorry about my previous post.That was for someone else actually. I am really sorry about what is happening to you..But I hope you understand..you may have to forget about her now...I did the samething to my long term boyfriend for a 2 months.Ignored his...

1 Dec 08

How many girlfriend or boyfriend you had before your marriage?

nimnim74 @nimnim74 (250) • Philippines 30 Nov 08

I am just a little curious if what's the average number of girlfriend or boyfriend (as sort of survey) you had before you got married and can you say you loved them all? I am just wandering because I've heard stories that they...

relationship

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vivianzhouhui I am 24 and I am single now.Had 5 bfs before.Broke up with the last one in October.Have to start dating again!Gosh I hate date!Hate being single.I think I will have 1/2 more relationships before I get married.

1 Dec 08