vivienhsing

@vivienhsing (31)

China • Age 40

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How do you take care of your hurting friends?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 17 Oct 09

When a person you care about is hurting, you hurt, too. When that person is grieving, we want to take some steps to ease their journey as they go through it. Sometimes, I do not know how to comfort. Words are poor comforter for...

comfort

grieving

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vivienhsing It is good if you have more technic in comforting your friends.However,if you don't know what to say with him or her but you still stay with him or her,I think it is also helpful to your friends.Most of the time I do the same thing as you when my friends get...

18 Oct 09

How do you keep yourself motivated.

deserve40 @deserve40 (1656) • India 16 Oct 09

We all face tough times in our lives at sometimes. However, at all the times, it is important to keep oneself motivated and not the tempo fall. It is important that you believe in yourself and you feel that you are going to get...

motivate yourself

tough conditions

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vivienhsing Yep,it is very important to keep ourselves motivated when we have troubles,or we will get lost in life.We might give up our pursuit.Reading and communicating with friends are good ways of keeping ourselves motivated,as we can get some advice from the author or...

17 Oct 09

Do you like twitter?

moorange @moorange (319) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

I love twitter and I love tweeting things and information around the web... It's my second (now maybe the first) haven for information sharing.

tweets

twitter

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vivienhsing Aha,you are a noisy guy.I don't like twitter myself,but i don' t mind if others tweeting information around me. I usually think others may not care about what you said, so I will fell embarrassed.

17 Oct 09

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Were you ever in a high school clique?

sender621 @sender621 (14889) • United States 15 Oct 09

We send our children to school to get a food education. Sometimes I think children think of school as more of a gathering place to socialize with their friends. When they reach high school, there seem to be a lot of different...

education

high school

social

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vivienhsing I am daddy's little girl when I was in high school.Although I have many friends (no boy friends)I never join in any clique.I always do as what my parents and teachers ask me to do,so I always got high score in examinations.Some people admired me while some...

17 Oct 09

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Are smart people dumb when it comes to love?

shadow41 @shadow41 (2351) • Philippines 16 Oct 09

I do hear that phrase a lot. Smart people are dumb when it comes to love. Do you actually believe in it? I don't consider myself as a really smart guy but I'm sure I'm not dumb. And when it comes to love I do think and weigh...

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vivienhsing I think it's true for some people and for me. When they fall in love,some people get to lose their own opinions.They think they love their lovers so they must sacrifice some of their own will even though the idea is wonderful.

17 Oct 09

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What do you remember?

paula27661 @paula27661 (15811) • Australia 15 Oct 09

I remember when bread used to be delivered to our house every day along with milk. I used to love getting the glass bottles and being the first one to open one so I could get to the cream on top. These days where I live they don’t...

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vivienhsing I remember I used to act the roles in the soap opera. I remeber there is a cute black dog in my house.It died because i gave it a bath in a river where the water is very cold.I am so stupid. I remeber I used to collet snow in a bow and thought i could play...

17 Oct 09

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Why do so many people still follow organized religion?

angiemac4444 @angemac23 (2003) • Canada 16 Oct 09

I myself have beliefs but I do not follow an organized religion. I think religion is evil in that it starts many wars and hurts many people and has been for thousands of years. Not to mention, the church is notoriously known for...

church

organized

religion

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vivienhsing I donot approve your opinion althought i am not a theist. Religion is like a computer and a government.Every coin has two sides.Religion plays an important role sometimes in purifing human's soul.People who control the organization deside the way of...

16 Oct 09

Picking on people

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 16 Oct 09

I hate to see people taking the micky or picking on disabled people.I get soo angry that i have to say something and i do not care who they are when they are being so nasty.I got angry one night when i was out at a pub when...

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vivienhsing People who pick on disabled persons are really disgusting. I seldom get involved in others bussiness,but if i see somebody bully disabled people i will definitely criticize such behaviou. And in my country most people will do this like me.We should feel...

16 Oct 09

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Any idea when you hear?"I love to cry in the rain, so that nobody see me crying"

vjg_06 @vjg_06 (64) 16 Oct 09

For me this simply means that the person being referred to is really hurting. He cant just tell it to anybody. He is shy to show what he really feels. He is afraid to show it to everyone thus he feels secure when it rains for it...

crying

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vivienhsing Probably the mam who would like to cry in the rain is an introverted and sentimental person.He or she likes staying in their own world.Even when he or she feels sad,he or she is willing to suffer by themselves.Those people live a overloaded life at my part.Why...

16 Oct 09

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Have you ever done House cleaning?

vinslounge @vinslounge (1295) • India 16 Oct 09

House cleaning is one of the important things inorder to maintain a clean home. I love house cleaning and I take of house cleaning purpose. I always prefer a neat and clean room and I would like to share some of the house cleaning...

house cleaning

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vivienhsing Aha,I like this question. I am a house cleaner usually but not a house-tidiness keeper.When i see the house is a mess i cannot help to cleaning it right away even in the middle night.However,i have a bad habbit that i would like to throw things at...

16 Oct 09

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Do you talk with yourself?

mynestegg @mynestegg (519) • Philippines 16 Oct 09

When I'm worried or scared, I find that I talk to myself (out loud, mind you) as a means of calming myself. I also do this when I'm faced with a particularly difficult task, saying things like, "So how do we do this?" or something...

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vivienhsing I just do this when there is only me nearby.Whenever i feel depressed i would talk to myself.I think it's a good outlet for your bad feelings.Sometimes talking to ourselves play a role of psychological hint.You just say out what you think.Nevertheless,we...

16 Oct 09

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O.M.G.!! Is that an anchor?

paula27661 @paula27661 (15811) • Australia 15 Oct 09

I have a hand bag, it is a rather large one and in it I have...Stuff...A lot of stuff! It amuses my husband who says that if you look hard enough you may find an anchor in there or a kitchen sink perhaps. He has admitted that he...

bag

hand bag

stuff

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vivienhsing women are sometimes too careful to make themselves tired. There are also many things in my handbag.Actually we seldom use some of them or they are not necessary.It's not worth to carry them for use only once during the whole day.At last, i hate my man delve...

16 Oct 09

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jealousy without a cause?

sharlionse @sharlionse (739) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

I don't know if I should get jealous of this girl who I think is flirting with my boyfriend. Though my boyfriend assures me that there would be nothing to worry about, I still get irritated with that girl's presence. I trust my...

jealousy

love

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vivienhsing I think you should first believe in your boyfriend and believe in your own feeling. Actually,women are sensitive on the such things.You are the girl your boyfriend love,what else do you care? Perhaps that girl love your boyfriend.That is a good proof thay you...

15 Oct 09

Poem from heart...!

chandramoulee @chandramoulee (67) • India 15 Oct 09

Hey I still remenber the poetries that I have studies in my KG classes. I never for get poems like Jhoney jhoney yes papa... Humpty Dumpty... Twinkle twinkle little star...! and many more...! Do you still remember your...

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vivienhsing very few of them i rememberd,but they indeed brought pleasure for us in our childhood. Pay my respect to all the poets in the world.

15 Oct 09

Is commitment, men's dreaded word?

ween04 @ween04 (10) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

Others said that commitment are only two types for both men and women... the player and the keeper keepers are those who consider commitment as ordinary. They don't fear to commit because they consider it to stabilize the...

commitment

dreaded word

men

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vivienhsing It is possible thay men and women hold different view over commitment.Women would like to say commitment shows whether the men love them from the bottom of heart.If the men really love them, it is not hard for the men to play commitment.Nontheless,men are more...

15 Oct 09

Where do you usually hang out??

marctiu @marctiu (829) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

I think that hanging out with friends is very essential in building up friendship. If you don't hang out I think that the essence of your friendship is equal to nothing. I usually hang out with my friends in the mall. I heard...

friends

hang out

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vivienhsing I'd like to wander on the grassland.Gentle breeze,fresh smell of the air,green grass and blue sky with some clouds. Nobody bother me.Isn't it enjoyable?Besides, windowshopping for me is also a good choice.

15 Oct 09

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Do you set alaram to get up in the morning.

neelimaravi @neelimaravi (1793) • India 14 Oct 09

hi friends, goodmorning, from monday to friday, i use to set alaram in my mobile at 5'oclock in the morning to get up to make breakfast and as well as lunch for my kid. from 5'o clock to 8'oclock,you know i will be like running,...

setting time

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vivienhsing Only when i have to work or something important to do,i set alarm,as i am afraid i will forget them.other time, of course,have a sweeeet sleep,lol

15 Oct 09