Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
20 minutes ago
kenchiprincess yes we have to have trust between us or love soon evaporates into nothingness. trust and love and loyalty are the keys to staying in a happy relationship.[em]happy[/em][em]happy[/em][em]thumbup[/em]

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
18 minutes ago
hi damien yes you have to be able to trust each other and to show that you do, you do not go around spying on each other if you really trust one other. no trust, a marriage falls apart really quickly. with trust and love and loyalty you can weather and survive a lot of ups and downs and still stay true to each other.

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
16 minutes ago
hi rogue yes trust has to be there and for both people.otherwise most marriages just fall apart,one or the other will start spying even though it is not necessary and the spied upon person will soon rebel.so trust plus love and loyalty can build a great marriage.

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
14 minutes ago
bluepatch you need that engagement period to learn to know each other and to see that you both trust each other, and to call if all off if you have trust doubts. for its better to break an en[em]happy[/em]gagement than divorce later.[em]sad[/em][em]lol[/em]

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
10 minutes ago
hi pillusch oh I could not be that forgiving once trust is broken for me it would be awfully hard for me to just forgive and forget.if my husband had an affair, fine, there is the door,we are through goodbye, and do not let it hit you when you leave. do not bother calling me.you had your chance and you blew it. trust works both ways.why should I have total trust and be the one he cou ld trust ...

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
6 minutes ago
hi lemayan I do know how hard that is as I was faced once with it but I told,myself in the six weeks period of our engagement we had both been most faithful to each other, and too we both had a christian background where we did believe so we both tried to live according to certain rules and we also pledged to each other to be faithful. and we were so I did let him go and that was that. He was ...

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
3 minutes ago
razcal hi yes indeed she must let him go as she has to have perfect trust in him as he must have perfect trust in her also. she may go to a womens batchelor type and maybe there are male dancers but he must let her go. That way she knows that he trusts her perfectly.

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
24 minutes ago
hi lamb yes indeed where there is no trust how can love'survive as we have to live with each other and need to believe both of us are true, we did have that me and my husband, and some people said why do you let him go to such and such alone, and I said because I trust him, he loves me and he trusts me and I trust him and he has never let me down. thats why we stayed married for 43 years, most...

Hatley commented in a discussion called How important is trust in getting married? in life.
22 minutes ago
hi you must have trust in each other, without that love corrodes and soon you will start fighting, so build trust and do not[em]happy[/em]let your partner down either, trusts works both ways of course.[em]lol[/em][em]thumbup[/em]

Hatley commented in a discussion called y do u text when u should use plain English words? in mylot.com.
31 minutes ago
hi zed__k4 yesits much nicer to read and English is what we are supposed to write our discussions in anyhow. If we want to make any money at all we need to follow all the rules 'and do not use text speak as that is lazy and also breaks mylot rules.[em]cry[/em][em]angry[/em][em]thumbdown[/em]