aharter

@aharter (16)

United States • Age 45

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aharter liked this • 15 Jul 09

How do I trust him again

aharter @aharter (16) • United States 10 Jul 09

My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years. And for a good majority of those years he has cheated on me. His last affair (that I know of) was about 4 years ago. But, the girl(if you can call her that) he had the affair...

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ariesflame You don't trust someone, they earn your trust in most cases. There isn't a reason to trust him, and therefore you have a choice..each time there is a situation where he "might be lying", and you can't tell for sure, believe him. Simply say it out loud..and try...

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aharter liked this • 15 Jul 09

How do I trust him again

aharter @aharter (16) • United States 10 Jul 09

My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years. And for a good majority of those years he has cheated on me. His last affair (that I know of) was about 4 years ago. But, the girl(if you can call her that) he had the affair...

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jgbe4245 Other than leaving him you could feed him salt peter and he couldn't be with anyone else... :-) It is hard when someone cheats on you and you fight so hard to keep it together and they don't seem to do the same. If I were in your shoes I would probably...

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