bamakelly responded to a discussion called Big Boys Dont Cry. in life.
2 hours ago
I don't think that it is something shameful or a sign of weakness at all for a man to cry. I am a woman and my opinion is that it seems to make a man more courageous when he can show his true feelings. I understand that boys are raised a lot of the time to not show too many emotions. I think that men like to feel like the stronger sex. There is nothing really wrong with that in some instance...

bamakelly responded to a discussion called Do you think spanking a child is wrong? in had children.
4 hours ago
It is sometimes hard to say about what is the right practice to take. I have a son who is almost five. I don't like to use spanking at all but I will if it calls for it. I don't like to tell people how to handle their children. I do think that punishment is okay but hitting that goes too far is not a good idea. Child abuse is something that goes on and people get into trouble for it. The har...

bamakelly responded to a discussion called What are you craving right now? in eating.
2 hours ago
This has happened to me and I don't know what I want I just know that I am hungry and can't decide. I always liked Chinese food. I could eat certain types of it on a regular basis. I haven't had Chinese in quite a while. It is hard to figure out what to eat when you don't have something specific in mind. [em]confused[/em]

bamakelly responded to a discussion called What is your opinion about Marriage? in people.
3 hours ago
I do understand that you are from a different culture. In the United States we are a pretty free country. It has its ups and downs but it is still a great country. It is hard to understand the ways of other countries such as your own. I have heard that there are requirements in different countries when it comes to marriage. Sometimes arranged marriages can work from what I have heard. Maybe ...

bamakelly responded to a discussion called whats best thing in recievin best response in mylot.com.
4 hours ago
I really do enjoy earning a best response. I haven't quite counted how many I have received over the last few months but I know that it is hovering somewhere around fifty or sixty. I feel appreciative and very happy when someone awards me with a best response. They take the time to look at other comments and choose the one they like.[em]happy[/em]

bamakelly responded to a discussion called Do you get mad,get even or just let it go? in questions & answers.
3 hours ago
I like to think of myself as someone who likes to just let things go if I can. Getting mad is one thing but some people might take it too far and want to get even. I think that it consumes a lot of time to dream up ideas for revenge. In the long run you are only hurting yourself by letting hate or anger get the best of you.[em]angry[/em]

bamakelly responded to a discussion called At what point do you share your problems? in friend.
3 hours ago
As a rule I think that it is not a good practice to hold things in for too long especially if you are feeling emotional and alone. I understand that it may seem awkward to bring up something to somebody. I usually bring up things to my husband because he is the closest friend that I have and I like it that way. He is a good shoulder to cry on. Very dependable and loyal.[em]thumbup[/em]

bamakelly responded to a discussion called Do you ever feel unappreciated? in life.
3 hours ago
Firstly, I would like to say that I am sorry for the loss of your husband. That probably makes things harder for you. I do understand where you are coming from feeling unappreciated. Sometimes other people may not understand or feel appreciative of your worth. Sometimes it is hard for us to tell people how we feel. It is okay to vent. I am listening and hopefully you will have some more resp...

bamakelly responded to a discussion called do you think positive when ur going to face any interviews? in listener.
2 hours ago
I would say that I have a good feeling when I come out of most interviews. Now I really haven't been to a job interview or worked in quite a while. See, I am a stay at home mother and wife. I would like to get back into the job market at some point in the future or even return to school. I think that it is very good to keep a positive attitude when attending an interview. It will give you a ...

bamakelly added a new interest under Roles that I play in life.
2 hours ago
bamakelly plays the role of listener.