chinuzzi

@chinuzzi (4)

Philippines • Age 30

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Should adolescents do everything even if it's bad for the sake of belongingness?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 23 Mar 10

A young adolescent ones told me about her problem on peer acceptance. She said all that she wanted is to be accepted by her friends. She does not want to be different from them. Her question is that, should she do everything even...

peer acceptance

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chinuzzi For me, one would be more admirable if she/he will sacrifice not to do bad things just for the sake of belongingness. It's not important if he cant be "IN" with the group, what matters is he knows how to choose and do right things. One should not pretend to do...

30 Mar 10

Sibbling rivalry, a childhood issue or a lifelong issue?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

I have cousins who only had 2 children in their respective families. In most cases, the sibblings behave like cats and dogs. Obviously, there is a big problem regarding sibbling rivalry. It's similar to the biblical story of Cain...

sibbling rivalry

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chinuzzi It depends. But mostly it's a lifelong issue, especially if the parents brought them up not in a good way. It also depends how the children manage this issue as they grow older.

27 Mar 10

How to get rid of persistent suitor?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

If you have a very persistent suitor whom you've turned down several times since your early adolescence and yet won't give up on you, what is the best thing to do in order to get rid of him?

persistent suitor

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chinuzzi I'm not a frank type person. I prefer to keep quite than to tell what i feel. But in this situation, the only thing i could do is to tell him frankly that he always ruin my day whenever he's with me. Maybe it would hurt him, but its just good for him.

26 Mar 10

Is arranged marriage fair?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

Is it fair if our parents will be the ones to choose the person whom we should marry?

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chinuzzi I believe that arranged marriages offer protection and security to women..But theres a great amount of pressure. For me, its not fair if my parents will be the one to choose the guy whom i should marry especially if i really dont feel any "vibration" towards...

26 Mar 10