james7981

@james7981 (7)

China • Age 45

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Boards restricting entries to strangers

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 1 Nov 12

In big towns and cities, people live isolated in flats. So the chances of robbery and theft will be more if strangers are allowed everywhere without any check. Nowadays, the problem of terrorism also makes people wary of...

strangers

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james7981 In my opinion, there are aspects that necessary to be done on this issues. Firstly, We should improve people's awareness of protecting ourselves.Do not trust the strangers easily. and do not let the strangers too easy to enter your building or community....

2 Nov 12

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Every living person has problems

jona777 @jona777 (78) • China 1 Nov 12

what is the secret ingredient of tough people that enables them to succeed? i think the answer is very simple,it's all in how they perceive their problems.yes, every living person has problems. a problem--free life is an...

every living person has problem

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james7981 "problem arising"-"problem solved"-"problem arising",it is like a circle with endless.Life would be no interesting without problems. while the wise man will look into the problems carefully and summarize into theories, and the great man will do preparation...

2 Nov 12

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My Job, My Dream

Mattxu @Mattxu (62) • China 19 Oct 12

I have graduated from the university for one more years. Then I go to work in a company. I should say some people may be envious of my work. Because the work is easy but it's wage is high. You may say,"hey, man, you are lucky"....

job

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james7981 The most successful persons usually do not concern their current salary,they prefer to working for the brilliant future later. You have to make a choice instead of complaint. Wish you happy and successful. BTW, keep on learning English. In China, if you want...

31 Oct 12

How to improve your relationships

seliokas @seliokas (346) • Lithuania 31 Oct 12

Hello guys, My wife and I are happy about our relationships, but still, we are searching any ways to improve it! Could you share the ways you treat your girlfriend, wife, husband or boyfriend, i would really like to surprise...

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2 people

james7981 i am sure your wife is very happy because of your in earnest in your relationship. also, i would like to share some of my opinions: 1. Try to show your best to your spouse, not only in the appearance, but also in your professions and capabilities. People will...

31 Oct 12

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Do you have abusive helpers?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 30 Oct 12

How do you deal with the helpers who are being abusive? To the extent that she is not doing responsibility but focusing on the things that is not her job of course like watching TV and sending text messages with other people all...

abusive

arrogant

lazy

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2 people

james7981 if we can not change one thing, then you just need to be used to it, or you leave it, or let it leave you. nothing else.

31 Oct 12

Need a change about my work attitude

Mattxu @Mattxu (62) • China 31 Oct 12

With time flying, I find that I am being the person gradually who is not trying his best to complete his work. Sometimes I may not be as careful to my work as I started to work more than one year ago. I hate the man who I am...

change

overcomne

work

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james7981 Obviously, you are a person with upward mobility, so that you can find your situation,and worry about it. My opinion is: 1. Do you really like this job? 2. What do you want to do in the future,and what is your career develop plan? == Find out the...

31 Oct 12

I don't like being LATE!

arystine @arystine (1273) • Philippines 30 Oct 12

I'm the type who wants to be early in an appointment. To make it in time, or be there ahead, if possible. I value the time of the person waiting for me. I hate being late. I try to do this by leaving early. I do not want to be...

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james7981 It seems we have the same idea on this issue. I hate being late,too. Usually, i check the place exactly and find out the best route, then estimate the time that i need to get there, and be sure to leave early. Of course, sometimes, it is inevitable to be...

31 Oct 12

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