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Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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Melinda Vanko I am so sorry! That's how it felt with the boys too, we were just finally getting back to normal after the first and then the next one.

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che EkZey @cheche28 (220) • Naga City, Philippines 16 May 18

For me, the hardest part is that when your kid gets sick. And I don't know what I am going to do about it.

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Melinda Vanko Not being able to fix everything for them, my oldest is going to be 14 next month and my middle daughter is 10. My middle daughter is a little overweight and goes thru a hard time sometimes in school and I just wish I could fix it for her immediately but it...

24 May 18

Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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Melinda Vanko That is a beautiful poem thank you for sharing. And yes life does go on, in 2011 when it all happened i didn't live my life the way I should have but then my dad said to " live my life for them" and I've been making the most of everyday since then but they...

24 May 18

Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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Melinda Vanko Exactly how I feel! Holidays seem to be the hardest times. It's also the little things that one person you could rely on being gone. I'm so sorry about your loss too.

24 May 18

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Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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Melinda Vanko Thanks for the tip. And yeah it was years ago, but some days it feels like it just happens. When it first happened I couldn't mention it but now I can openly talk about it. I talk to my parents but my dad has a harder time with it then anyone. He feels he...

24 May 18

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Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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Melinda Vanko I've done that also, the letter. That did help I think it's just the way they passed. I'm not sure. They had a hard life with their parents and now that they're gone it's like their parents don't care. I go to their grave and they still just have the their...

24 May 18

Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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Melinda Vanko Thank you! Yes it's very hard I guess this situation for me is hard because this year I passed their age when I was always years younger then both. I'm very lucky to have family left. I'm not too sure of things to post but thought I could connect this way with...

23 May 18

Melinda Vanko @melinda201 (8) 23 May 18

Back in 2011 I lost 2 cousins, one of them was more like a brother because he lived with my family for many years. My aunt and uncle divorced when their older sons were teenagers and their youngest was around 5 or 6. My two...

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