wht do u feel when u go for extramaritial affair

Hi dear, i know how it feels to be married and in love with someone else, but i think having extra marital affair is not the right thing to do. I understand your hubby may not be doing things right so u've bn left with no other option but to do this, but firslty i want to ask you, is your boyfriend worth this?, will he marry you if your husband finds out & calls off the marriage?, is he in love with you too? pls in as much as you rightly said that life is too short for one not to enjoy her life, it is still not right doing the wrong thing to enjoy your life!!! pls reconsider your stand and if you feel you love your boyfriend more than you love your husband, then get a divorce, i dont like cheating.

If you feel you have a good reason to have an extra marital affair, then I would sugest you leave you husband. You are not being fair to him, yourself, or your lover. and I can promice you this it will end very badly and sadly no matter what you do. You will pay the price for your infidelity, your broken trust and foolishness. I send you my pity now as soon there will be no room for anything in your heart and soul but sorrow.

i don't know what to say,but i think family is the most important.you should think it over before you make any decision.