how do I find a good man?
@sexy_blonde_vamp (21)
United States
April 27, 2007 11:26pm CST
I dont know why but iam a magnet for men but only the losers! My fist serious boyfriend gave me to kids and cheated on me so I left him then my second serious boyfriend gave me two more kids and i married him and ofcource he cheated on me. Since then ive been in two serious relation ships the others wherent that serios and didnt work out but the other two didnt either when i left my husband it was for a guy who had two kids out of the house already and he was sweet sometime and others he was a total a** plus he never really wanted my kids around and i love spending all my time and money on them so we didnt really see eye to eye on a lot of things. then my next boy friend was a total a** hole we barley ever got along and when we did it wasnt for long I never got to see my kids with him and he makes a lot of money and barely ever spent any on me I even had to pay rent and if i didnt have any money and needed something really bad like tampons he wasnt even nice enough to barrow me money. the only time hes really sweet to me is if i leave him cuz he tries to get me back and he makes me think hes changed and he hasnt. he never will. I only ever meet and date a** holes. I wish I could meet some one good for me and my family for a change and still be able to be me i love to party every once in a while and i love moter cycle (harleys) im just a layed back biker chick lookin for a man but all the guys that seem like my type are scum and i dont like on line dating. so help what should i do??????????
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@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I'm sorry that you've had such problems with men, some of us are just jerks I guess. I guess my first question for you would be, where are you meeting these guys? Maybe it would be better if you started looking for guys who share your interests and are you friends first. Find somebody you like being with and then take it to the next level, so hopefully you won't end up with guys who don't care about anyone but themselves. Welcome to mylot by the way.
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@sexy_blonde_vamp (21)
• United States
28 Apr 07
thanks for your advice but all the guys i have meet were my friend first really good ones but when i date them they show me a whole other side of them. The sucky thing is, is that I dont think ill ever find a good man with my same intrest who likes me. Even my daughter gives me advice and tells me a head of time if they are good or bad for me and i never listen and look where its got me. i feel i will never find a good man and that im running out of time im not yung any more and it gets harder and harder every time!
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@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I really do know how you feel. I'm single also and not as young as I used to be. I have found however that if I stop activily looking for girlfriend, someone pretty decent usually finds me and it all works itself out. If I am however "out there" trying to find someone, rarely ever do I meet a quality person, or find a serious relationship.
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
I am very sorry about what had happened to you. The fact that you meet these men who may be motorcyclists or in the party proves that the crowd where you find your men are most usually of the same caliber. You might try other means of meeting people other than what you have been used to. I have see couples who met through the internet. You might want to try this. In the internet, you get to know something about the person first before you have physical contact. You might be in love at once even if you actually have not met yet. When you get to meet that is the verdict whether you like him in person also. I hope you find the right person for you who will love you and take care of you and your children. Good luck to you and have a nice day!
