Have you ever met the following people. Honesty is the name of the game!

@Anniedup (3651)
Richards Bay, South Africa
May 1, 2007 12:10pm CST
The saying it always happens to someone else. I wonder how true it is. Have you ever met the following people, not necessarily your friends, but have you actually met them. For instance at a party, your next door neighbor, work colleague, school, college or university. Murderer Thief Spouse Cheater Con artist Someone in jail A spy (FBI, MI5) that would be telling Rapist Bank robber A Famous person, moviestar,singer,writer.... Murderer; My husband and I met a couple years ago, when we went sailing, a long story for another discussion. Two years after we have met them and shared 28 days with them, he murdered his wife, and then hanged himself. Thief; A neighbor of ours, worked in the bank, and stole lots of money out of peoples accounts. Spouse cheater; One of my best friends, husband (that was an easy one) Con artist; nope Someone in jail; nope A spy; nope Rapist; Yes a man that had a Tobacco shop, my husband bought his tobacco there for years, and always use to chat to the slime ball. Bank robber; The closest I got to a bank robber, I was in the bank when it got robbed. A Famous person; The President of South-Africa 1994, in the Apartheids era. He was my lawyer. Now your turn. Honesty is the name of the game.
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
1 May 07
Well interesting discussion. Murderer.....nope; Thief; yes, my ex-husband's ex-wife, she imbezzaled a realll good amount; Spouse cheater.....yep, several, I'll just leave it at that, and mostly husbands, and no thankfully not mine! lol; Con-artist..nope; Someone in jail.....yes. Never met a spy, that I knew of anyway, lol. Rapist...no; Bank robber.....no; Famous people, and I met them and got to talk to them in person.......Dr Joyce Brothers; Barbara Jordan;
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
1 May 07
You are the first one to respond, and I can't wait for some more, this is going to be very interesting! I smiled when I saw this one "Thief; yes, my ex-husband's ex-wife, she imbezzaled a realll good amount" Wow and Barbara Jordan! Thank you for sharing your famous and not so famous acquaintance's:)
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• Saudi Arabia
6 May 07
Hi there i have two categories here... SPOUSE CHEATER: Yes. I had a female friend who had some affair while she is married, I also know a married male friend who had a relationship like that 2 but they both have their own circumstances and reasons for it, and ( I ain't saying they are right or wrong here but merely answering your question). FAMOUS PERSON: 1) Muhammed Ali, when i was still in first or second grade i think Muhammed Ali (the boxer) visited our school, i guess i saw him from a distance. 2) Bruno Kreisky, in the 70's and the early 80's he was a Chancellor of Austria, i saw him accidently in the Vienna's downtown, there is a huge street there called Kartner Strasse, he was a just a few meters away from me. Since your hubby is dutch, he must have heard the name before. 3) Rafsanjani, former iranian president, before i joined this place where i'm working now, i used 2 work in a lacal manufacturing facility during the 90's ( NOT nuclear for sure :D ) he visited our country and he passed by where i work, he was accompanied by our chairman and VIP's and took a quick tour through the facility, we shook hands. 4) Anniedup, I met her online, she is the Nr.1 and the very best myLot participant of all times :D Thank you for the interesting disucssion
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• Saudi Arabia
6 May 07
I have just seen your notes and i am so glad seeing your words there, i left you a few words in your comments' box. Thank you Annie x
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• United States
1 May 07
Okay, let's see... Murderer- Yes, my college roomate's best friend's boyfriend. He was attending the same college as us and we had him over to our house a few times. Over Thanksgiving break his sophmore year (our senior year) he stabbed his sister at their house and then set the house on fire to cover it up (his mom and grandmother were still in the house sleeping, but got out). It took a year for the police to build a case against him, since he lied his butt off about what happened, but he was eventually arrested and confessed at the trial. Thief- Several of my friends went through a shop-lifting phase in high school, does that count? Spouse Cheater- Yes, I've worked with a few in the past. Con artist- not that I know of, but maybe they were just really good at covering it. Someone in jail- Other than the murder from the first question, I have a couple of friends who have been arrested for DUI and spent the night in jail, but no one else sentenced to jail. spy- no (not that I know of, but that's their job, right?) I've known people who worked for the FBI and CIA, because I grew up near DC, but they weren't really spys. Rapist- no Bank robber-no Famous Person- I literally ran into Clint Black (country singer) when I was working backstage at a Jimmy Buffet concert. He was running to the stage because he was late for a duet and came around the corner and bumped into me. He did apologize over his shoulder as he continued to run to the stage.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
1 May 07
Good grief! Wow, you now some really interesting people. Thank heavens the guy who stabbed his sister is behind bars. Even knowing someone just remotely connected to spy world is exciting for me:) Thank you for a very interesting read!
@rx4life (1930)
• United States
1 May 07
Interesting discussion...so here goes.. 1. Murderer: The Green River Killer ( Gary Ridgeway) was a customer of the pharmacy I used to work at. I had conversations with him. He killed over 30 women. He offered me a ride home when my car wouldn't start. I was shocked when they arrested him and to this day it sickens me. 2. Thief: A co worker that stole money and merchandise and told us all she had cancer. We cooked meals for her and paid her bills because we believed she was in treatment. It was all a lie. She was prosecuted. 3. Spouse cheater: Best friend's husband with other good friend...bad story 4. Con Artist: Friend's sister used her children and would prey upon the elderly pretending to have a sick child and needing money..when they would let her in their homes she would steal jewelry and other things...sick woman, She was prosecuted. 5. I visited a jail for a volunteer project and met a few inmates in the women's section. 6. Spy: Nope 7. Rapist: Aside from the Green River Killer mentioned above I knew a man that I found our later had raped his neighbor's wife. He was prosecuted. 8. Bank Robber: Internal one...my mom worked in the bank and her co worker that we knew very well embezzled...does that count? 9. Famous person: I got to spend several days on the set of Superman Returns in Australia..I got to meet Brandon Routh ( Superman) and he hugged me in his full outfit and autographed a photo. Also met Brian Singer the director. Billy Crystal opened a door for me in Manhattan and told me he liked me hat. Dale Chihuly ( glass creator) had a long conversation with me about how he picked the colors for certain pieces he creates while we shared a dinner at private event.
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
1 May 07
What are you telling us, I won't be able to sleep tonight! 30 women! MG. I believe you when you say, till this day it sickens you, and how's that co-worker, she was sick alright, sick in the head! Look at you glitter list, wow I just love Billy Crystal his got such boyish charm. Thank you for a very descriptive and highly interesting response!
• India
2 May 07
Murderer : Yes but i did not meet him after he mudered his neighbor. But before the murder yes because he was my uncle's neighbor and we met him several times whenever we went to my uncles and then suddenly we learnt he murdered one of the neighbors because he suspected his wife and the man were having an affair. Theif : i have not met anyone though once a young boy walked into our compound and asked for water and when i went to get the water he removed the clothes from our clothesline but i saw him leaving with the clothes and raised a alaram and we caught him! Spouse cheater...seems like lot of men cheat on thier wife but the one i know personally never cheated on her b'cos we never had physical relations we just loved eachother.... Con artist - Nope. Somone in jail- no either. Rapist : again no. Someone famous yes i met a few movie stars from india but i dont think you will know them even if you have heard about Bollywood b'cos these stars are from down south :)
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
It must have been quite a shock to realize you have been be so close to a murderer!
• New Zealand
1 May 07
Yes I have met a few of that list. Thief, you think you know your friends till one day you come hoem and all of your belongings are gone, believe it took sometime before I could trust ANYONE AGAIN. I was quite devasted being as the thief was a friend. Child molester, A neighbor who lived about 4 houses up from me, no one ever knew, very sad story and no I won't go into details here. Spouse Cheater, Unfortunately many, too many to tell here. Famous People, I have met quite a few local celebrities especially when such things as LOTR was beign filmed here as well as Xena Warrior Princess.
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
It is alarming how many child molesters are out there. Isn't it so sad that almost everyone's encounter with thief's are 90 percent someone close to you. Your rub with fame is a interesting one!
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@weemam (13372)
14 May 07
No my friend I have never met any of these kind of people , Maybe I have led a sheltered life , or maybe I have just been realy lucky , I think it me just being lucky , good discussion though By your stories I think you have met some really interesting people so you should be able to write some brilliant discussions about them then lol xx
@weemam (13372)
15 May 07
and thank you for taking the time to read it pal xx
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
15 May 07
I must admit this is one of my favorite discussions. I sometimes come back here just read about everybody's experience, thanks for showing up here my friend. xx
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@Kylalynn (1771)
• South Africa
3 May 07
Anniedup, how did you think this one up? Well, here goes, Murderer - Yes, at a friends house. Her husband was the murderers advocate. I stuck around for curiosity! Thief - Yes - we were at a party and 'Raffles' daughter was there. Her father was the famous jewel thief. Spouse Cheater - yes, where I used to work, some of them were really into it. It makes me sick! Con artist - Yes - My daughter was married to one. note the "WAS" SOMEONE IN JAIL - Yes a SPY -no Rapist-no bank robber - no a famous person - Yes, a couple
@Kylalynn (1771)
• South Africa
3 May 07
Don't know why I left the names out! Amy Kleynhans, (She is very nice) Lorna Potgieter,(She is ok) The dr from Isidingo (sorry, can't recall her name) Eddie Eckstein, Will Smiths wife (don't know her name either) Barry Hilton, Gary Bailey (through my brother) Do you remember the little dwarf clown, from the circus'? He was the friendliest of them all.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
4 May 07
I met Eddie Eckstein when I was 14 and he was still singing in his band The Bats. He is so darn funny! I met Gary Bailey and Barry Hilton, talk about funny!!! when I worked for Avis car rental. I met quite a few well known people when I worked for Avis. Now I only know my husband!!!!lol
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
3 May 07
I was watching the news, and with all the murders and thief's, then I thought, we always think it happens to someone else, except in our country! then I said to my husband let's play a game and see if we really know at close range horrible people and we were amazed, I through the famous in for a little positiveness. Why don't you share some glitter people!
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
2 May 07
Ok lets see what I can do here with this list and how good my memory is: Murderer: not to my knowledge Thief: a man I work with stole from another business Spouse Cheater: my one friend's spouse Con artist: my ex-brother in law Someone in jail: my ex-brother in law A spy (FBI, MI5) that would be telling: hehe only in my dreams Rapist: not to my knowledge Bank robber: not to my knowledge A Famous person, moviestar,singer,writer....: Johnny Cash and June Carter Cash, met him in an airport I must live a boring life compared to many.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
2 May 07
I know I noticed that the cheater was very common. Now if you count a shoplifter as a theif I've met a few of those, including my ex-brother-in-law, yeah he wasn't the greatest person to add to the family. Meeting Johnny Cash was incredible. He was one of a kind. I did get to meet Charlie Pride after a concert, wasn't sure if you'd know who he was. I also got to meet Maureen McGovern, another most might not know, after her concert at EPOC of all places.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
This is so interesting to see that every single one who responded here, knew of a spouse cheater. emeraldisle, if I look at some stories here then you should be glad that you have lived a life so calm. Johnny Cash now there is a blast from the past! I still want to watch the movie they made about his life. Thank you for responding and enjoy reading this "crime novel" ha! ha! he! he!
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
4 May 07
I know who Charlie Pride is, you really had your run in with the glitter people!!
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
1 May 07
Let me see: Murderer: No Theif: my ex fiance Spouse cheater: Me, but I had justfiable reasons Con Artist: No Someone in jail: Me A spy: No Rapist: No Bank Robber: No A famouse person: No
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
1 May 07
I'm sorry to hear the thief in your life was so close to you, that must have been quite a shock! Thank you for your response.
@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
2 May 07
Hey this is like a life's experience tick sheet. How interesting has your life been sort of quiz, good one. So to answer: Murderer - No, not that I was aware of! Thief - Most likely but not a convicted thief. Spouse Cheater - Yes, that's pretty common. Con artist - Is that the same as a manipulator, in which case I'd say yes. Someone in Jail - yes, but it was a remand center, does that count? Was the brother of an ex-boyfriend. A spy - No, but that would be a twisted encounter. You'd be speaking to someone who was not telling the truth! A rapist - no thank goodness. A bank robber - No, and I used to work in one. I was on a trauma team and was called out to another branch to help the staff who were involved in a robbery. That would be kind of defacto, but not the same. A famous person - a few up there politicians, some almost stars, mainly TV shows, but no-one at the top of the pyramid.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
Ahoy! my dearest Tetchie! You are right, come to think of it. I am enjoying this discussion tremendously, like I'm sure we all do! Ahhh Please come back later with some glitter names!
@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
3 May 07
Ohh yeah, I just remembered. Someone famous and infamous. The original lead singer of AC/DC Bon Scott. Back in the late 70's when I was in high school and they were just a new band touring the country. It was a Friday, after school I went to a local cafe where we would get chips (french fries) and hang out. AC/DC were to play in our town that night. They turned up at the Cafe and sat with us. They were so young and gregarious, and I was so young and ???? AC/DC were a bit before their time, radical louts, and quite frankly I didn't like them much. At the time they were the equivalent of punk rockers were when they first started - totally too far out there. Anyway Bon Scott asked me if I'd like to kiss him! HAHA, I'm laughing heaps at the moment, imagine that. With an attitude like that Bon Scott knew his band was going places. I think I gave him that 'you've got to be kidding' look and of course declined. But I met him and Angus and I believe we shared chips. The question is should I have kissed Bon Scott? NAAAA! LOL.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
4 May 07
YES! YES! you should have kissed him! I hear what you are saying, we use to call it in those days "underground music" My Lord compared to bands today, they will be classified as a Sunday school band! They kind of grew, on me, over the years!
• United States
1 May 07
Annie, I love this discussion! Murderer- Yes, he murdered his wife and a priest. He went nine days without food and drank only. He had a lot built up anger towards his wife. They had two toddlers and she neglected the children. She would leave them in the middle of the street to get hoping they would be run over. I do not know, but she may have been suffering from depression after pregnancy. There is a special name for that. I don't know because he never mentioned that. One day he came home and found his wife and their priest was visiting. He shot them both. Doubleday offered to write his book for him and he refused.
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
1 May 07
Dear God Ye.... what a story and what a women, the name is postpartum depression. But I don't know so much normally they go into postpartum depression, shortly after giving birth. Poor man, how long is his sentence and where are the children now?
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• United States
1 May 07
I have not talked to him in quite a few years. I believe he had to life sentences. The last time I talked to him the two children were teenagers, but growing up too fast. If you know what I mean. The children would be adults by now. After this happened his uncle offered him money to flee to Italy to escape going to prison but he refused it and said he had to pay for what he did. I am not sure how much time he has left. He may be out by now. I lost touch with him.
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• United States
1 May 07
Oops this came before it was time. See below!
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• United States
1 May 07
Annie, I love this discussion! Murderer- Yes, he murdered his wife and a priest. He went nine days without food and drank only. He had a lot built up anger towards his wife. They had two toddlers and she neglected the children. She would leave them in the middle of the street to get hoping they would be run over. I do not know, but she may have been suffering from depression after pregnancy. There is a special name for that. I don't know because he never mentioned that. One day he came home and found his wife and their priest was visiting. He shot them both. Doubleday offered to write his book for him and he refused. Thief- Yes, I knew a thief. He went to prison and later returned to society and led a normal life. Spouse Cheater- Yes, I met a man who was a spouse cheater. He cheated on his wife who was gay. They had two children and afterward they divorced and she moved in with her gay lover and her two children. He ended up friends with his ex-wife. Con Artist- Yes, and everything he told me seemed to be lies. Someone in jail- Yes, and in spite of everything he was a very intelligent man. I learned a lot from him. Spy- I never met a spy but the woman who was married to the bank robber divorced him and married a spy. Rapist- Yes and he thought there was nothing wrong with it. He thought it was normal. Bank Robber- I came in contact with a bank robber. We spoke on the phone. He wore a wig and made himself look like a woman to rob banks. He really did not seem sorry for what he did. He was very intelligent so I could never understand why he would resort to that. He loved his daughter very much. That was the only bright light I could see in him...his love for his daughter. A famous person- I met Larry King at the Borgata Hotel in Atlantic City, New Jersey. I was standing in the lobby with my mom and I walked past him while my mom was standing about 3 feet away from him. When I walked by I thought to myself that can't be Larry King. I came back and there he was and it really was him. I went over to my mom and I said that is Larry King. She said I thought so. I went over and stood never to him and my mom came over. His wife, and I guess...body guard came and my mom asked them if she could take a picture and they said yes. I never thought to ask for an autograph.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
You must have a look at it, is globally on CNN. It is a repeat of all his old interviews, here is a link of his website to all the interview, transcripts, before MyLot I used to visit this site quite often. http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0603/06/lkl.01.html
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
Oh my dear friend, this looks like a novel! I feel so sorry for that poor man, and he showed alot of character to refuse an offer like, what you responded on the other one. You should try and see what happened to him. How ironic that the bank robber's wife ended up with marrying a spy! lol lol This is sooo funny Alot of men believe a women's NO means YES and therefore don't acknowledge the fact that when they force them on women that it is rape. We don't live in the stone and cave period anymore, where they can just hit us over the head and drag us off to their cave. I love Larry King to bits, did you see they are having such a nice commemorating week, to celebrate his 50 years as the host of "Larry King Live" on CNN. 50 Years can you believe! How nice of him, to let your mom take a picture, now I've got even more respect for him. Almost all the responses here are interesting but yours is helluva interesting! Thanks my friend!
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• United States
2 May 07
Thank you very much. If I had told you more intimate details someone on here would be calling the police. lol I cannot contact the man because my husband would have a fit. I don't even have casual conversations with men on the phone. He is from North Africa and they are very strict. As for Larry, no I did not hear about that, but I really do like him.
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• United States
2 May 07
My list would include: Murderer--a distant cousin Spouse Cheater--my ex Someone in jail-my neighbor(former)
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@GardenGerty (157663)
• United States
2 May 07
Right now what I can think of for sure is that I lived next door to a man who ended up murdering his wife. Shudder, they used to babysit my little boy. I have known several people who cheated on their spouses, including my former sister in law.Thief, another neighbor, rented the house of the murderer. He would break into abandoned farm houses and steal antiques and antique fixtures. He was scary, he also did not like the repairs someone did on his truck, so he torched their truck.Spy, no, rapist, no, childmolester, yes, a relative(I added that one). I sang on stage with Miss Jackie, a children's songwriter/educator, I was at a National Association for Educators of Young Children, and was chosen to participate in a song. My claim to fame.
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
Wow my friend, you must still have nightmares, about the fact that such an evil person looked after your son, but that just shows you someone "else" watched over your little boy. I know you are very intelligent, and I know you care about children in such a fantastic way. The red cloth comes to mind in one of your discussions, but I didn't know that you could sing! A women with many facets. Thank you for sharing with us, and maybe you should put up a picture of the event if you have one.
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@suscan (1955)
• United States
15 May 07
Murderer Unfortunately yes, he married a distant cousin, and he killed a girl at the airport. Thief Yes he embezzled money from a bank Spouse Cheater Actually a couple Con artist Nope Someone in jail No A spy (FBI, MI5) that would be telling No Rapist No Bank robber No A Famous person, moviestar,singer,writer....Franco Harris,Sha NA, NA,Mike Webster,
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
15 May 07
Sha NA, NA, now that is truly a blast from the past! We only got Television in 1975, in South-Africa and only one channel and that was one of the musicals, we just LOVED it! This gives me inspiration to start a discussion on. Watch this space! lol
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@sacrg793 (429)
• China
2 May 07
that's a good topic, but unfortunately, i've never met any of them!
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• United States
1 May 07
Murderer: not yet Thief: my cousin, who stole over 100 creditcard numbers over the internet, and who also hacked into an FBI's website at the age of 17. he's the reason you hear people say don't give your name adress ,bank account number or anything over email. Spouse Cheater: My uncle's wife, one of my cousin's best friend's husband Con Artist: dont know Someone in Jail: my cousin who stole the creditcards, and one of my other cousins who go caught with pot while on probation. and Cousin's ex husband for robbing a bank lol A spy: dont know Rapist: dont know Bank Robber: cousin's ex husband Famous person: A few Minnesoda Twins players, some radio DJ's i from my hometown Wichita, KS(famous to me) Thats all i got.
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
My Oh My Oh my I am speechless! lol Wow and you say That's all you got! I laughed so much my tummy aches! Thank you so much for your honesty and for putting me in a good mood!
@us2owls (1681)
• United States
2 May 07
Wow what an assortment - but here goes Murderer - No and hope I never do. Thief - yep the one who robbed me in my own home at 2 in the afternoon - and a friends son - he would steal anything - a neighbor in the USA who stole loads of farm machinery. Spouse Cheater - Good grief - met plenty of those - both male and female. Con Artisit - Not that I know of. Someone in jail - Don't visit jails. Spy - Yes - a couple of FBI that neede to ask me some questions about a place where I used to work. Rapist - Not that I know of - but a man I knew years ago is serving 45 years for molesting kids - he'll never get out. Bank Robber - No - hope I never do. Famous person - Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson and June Carter Cash - ( Now that was nice)
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
2 May 07
45 years for molesting kids! That is the best news I've seen! I'm sure it was nice to have met Willie Nelson, and June & Johnny Cash they are legends!
@windhair (498)
• Germany
2 May 07
Interesting topic/ Murderer, yes, I do know that guy for a year, and I heard hime crime years later, but no so much detail. Theif, several, the first time I met a theif is about 25 years ago, the thief try to stolen my father;s wallet, some others cathed the thief, we all went to the polic office as the witness. That is the first and only time I have been to the police station. Spouse cheater, No Con artist, no Someone in jail, yes, a thief, once been my classmate in elementary school. Spy? No Rapist, yes. He is a bad one even in the middle school. Bank robber. No Famouse, several, the biggest is the primnistor of the country.
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