Dating Younger ladies, Right or wrong?
By Lord_Xtheth
@Lord_Xtheth (52)
Canada
May 7, 2007 12:33pm CST
Ok, Heres this situation. I've known this one girl from way back. I mean WAY back. I'm 24 now I met her when I was 14 and she was 8. Time has passed, and I seen her again resently and asked her on a date. She said yes.
However, somthings bothering me. Is this right. Somthing deep inside me still thinks of her as the 8 year old girl she was when we were neighbours, and not the beautiful 18 year old woman she's become. I'm still 6 years her senior as well. I feel like i'm in an internal conflict with myself over whether or not to pursue this relationship or not.
Any thoughts or help will be apreciated.
2 responses
@sad_angel (49)
• Philippines
8 May 07
age doesn't matter as what they say.. if you really love the person and if she means everything to you, you wouldn't take the age as the hindrance.. if you are serious about her then go! don't let anyone or anything get into your way..
my exboyfriend was like 5 years older than i do..
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@Lord_Xtheth (52)
• Canada
9 May 07
I've actually been talking to one of my friends on an MMORPG I play, and She's 18 years older than her husband. That kind of put things into perspective for me.
It's still somthing that I need to think about though. But it doesn't bother me that much any more.
@casinocat (284)
• United States
7 May 07
Here are my thoughts...
All of the history you share is as children. As you continue getting to know her as an adult, you will add to that history by having new experiences and creating new memories, and thus no longer see her as a child.
Best of luck!
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@Lord_Xtheth (52)
• Canada
8 May 07
Thank you, that helps a little. I do hope that the memories of her as a child don't interfere with any part of our future relationship.
