what do girls really expect from us?

India
May 8, 2007 5:33am CST
Hi i am in a genuine trouble and i really dont understand what a girl expects out of a man. Yes it is true and i agree that a girl faces the same problems too, but then what do we really expect? Why cant we get the person we really want? Why do we stick to people whom we dont get, or who we want but they they dont want us? Please help genuinely.
3 responses
• China
8 May 07
what a girl expects out of a man?in my opinion,the two partners who are in love,the first important thing is they love each other very much ,they know how to love his/her partner,they should know how to devote.For a girl,what she wants is to feel safe and happy when she stay with her boyfriend,she also feel that her boyfriend is responsible for her,i think these are the basic important things.for most of the girls,they want her boyfriend is an enterprising man,a kind man,a considerate person,an enthusiastic man,i think those are ok.but girls are different,what she wants are different,maybe,some girls are realist,they want cars,houses,money ect.from their boyfriends to enjoy the life.but some girls are very kind,they want to share the happpiness and the sadness with their boyfriends,they are sensible,they are willing to devote their effort to manage the love with their boyfriends.so different girls have the different expects from their boyfriends.
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• India
8 May 07
Thankls jennifer. well the truth is we r not in love but I want to be in love and dont seemto get anybody. I feel depressed and dont know what to do.
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• China
12 May 07
Hi, hollowheart.Being a girl, I guess what girls expect from men is the feeling of safety. We like to spend time with him, share the experieces with him, and so on for rest part of life. That could be easier life to live. The feeling of safety make us settle down to enjoy every minutes of live, don't have to worry about anything.
• India
14 May 07
ut do asll girls really think or treat mene the same way as u?
• Indonesia
8 May 07
Hello Hollowheart! This kind of problem are happen in a relationship between man and woman. I dont understand man too and I never know how could they be so ignorance with what we want. Girls just want to be listened. Please pay your attention when girls are telling their stories even when you dont really interested. The point is dont ask a girl to understand you if you dont really care about her..
• India
8 May 07
Hi Afternoontea, I agree to what u said but if the girl is not able to understand me or us how can we go agead and be together. I like a girl but cant tell her, because she loves someone else too deeply. I offcourse would not like to hurt her just because of my happiness, but i dont want to suffer also. I really dont know what to do.