1st one is not always the PERFECT PERSON in your life...?

India
May 8, 2007 6:29am CST
i always think that our first crush,first love, first person in our life is not always perfect companion for life. As the life advances new people come close to us and we suddenly feel that i am more comfortable with him than the first one i met, and i like him more! our interests match, we not only love but also joke together and kick eachtoher! that means we would have been more happy with him! But he wasnt my first love! Do u think how much importance should be given to the first person in your life? Was you first love,first man, first women a perfect one for you ? Im a teenager...confused!!
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@qouniq (1968)
• Malaysia
8 May 07
I think to be a perfect match for us is actually came from our own heart toward that person. For me how you will appreciate and understand your partner and so do him/her towards you will makes both of you a perfect person for each other. It is like how we deal with our life being together actually. That's why for me, there is no such word that 1st or 2nd or 2rd person is perfect for me because I think if the 1st person can understand and appreciate me as I do then that person will be the perfect person for me.
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• India
8 May 07
Exactly, but there are time in life where you simply dnot get enough time to check out various people whether they are more compatible with you or not. I agree that there are differences but there are personalities with we dont gel at all, and there are some with we gel without any effort..feels like we are make for eachother.! isnt it you experience like this one ?
@qouniq (1968)
• Malaysia
8 May 07
My experience tell me that I will find my parter is perfect whenever I feel enjoy with him but not if I don't enjoy my life with him. Anyway as time goes, I find that really I need these two things in my relationship - the understanding and the appreciation of both of me and my partner.
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• India
8 May 07
yes and that is so true with almost everyone. If u enjoy life together there is nothing like that. But it takes a high degree of understanding to adjust with anyone you get despite of some differences. For others it becomes a lot difficult to adjust. Hats off to you!