The former Catholic has a question

United States
May 8, 2007 5:30pm CST
Hi I wonder if you can help me with something. For the life of me with all my research over the years; I don't know why we call priests father. I especially don't understand why we do so when the bible forbids it .... Matthew 23:8-12, “But you are not to be called ‘Rabbi,’ for you have only one Master and you are all brothers. And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. Nor are you to be called ‘teacher,’ for you have one Teacher, the Christ. The greatest among you will be your servant. For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” I am NOT trying to judge or criticize or anything; but rather, I am asking hoping to gain some understanding. I really don't know the answer to either and hope someone can help me.
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@rdurusan (624)
• Philippines
9 May 07
The bible prohibits a person to call another person a father in spiritual matters,of course it is not forbidden for a son to call his biological father a father.If you allow yourself to be called father as a title in spiritual matters you are acting as god.There is only one Father,our father in heaven.You are exalting yourself when you allow others to call you father,so you will be humbled.It is clear and very literal.Let me clear this once and for all,the Vatican claims that Peter is the first pope,how can it be when he has not set foot in Rome,besides he is chosen by Jesus to be the spiritual leader of the Israeli nation and Paul as the spiritual leader for the Gentiles where Rome is included.It should be Paul as the first pope of the Vatican,but then it is not.Why? because the Vatican is a fake Christian institution,and his teachings contradict the bible.He{Vatican} is the wealthiest and most influential christian organization in the whole world because of his wealth and office.Did Jesus or the apostles taught about enriching oneself.By this question alone you can answer for yourself that they are not the religion Jesus or the apostles intend it to be.Wake up,i'm also a former catholic,read your bible and don't let catholic teachings deceive you or cloud your mind.
• United States
9 May 07
Don't worry for even one second. I am a former Catholic and will never go back. I follow the teachings of my heavenly Father in His word. I could never go back to following all the man made rules they have. I don't believe that priests should be called father. They'll get their come-up-ins. I leave that to God. Peter may have been the first appointed leader to the new believers in Christ. Jesus said "on this rock I will build my church" Matthew 16:18. This verse is often used to say that Peter was the first pope. They don't take it to mean that Peter was a rock solid believer that would teach others and spread God's word. As far as the vatican being so rich ... hhmmm Jesus told all his followers to give up their belongings and follow him. "acting as God" - well they do believe that the Pope holds Jesus place on earth so that would make sense. The day of reckoning is coming fast. The Vatican and the church as a whole will be set straight by God in the end. I have no doubt about that. Thanks for replying. As I said I am just looking for information.
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
9 May 07
I've wondered the same thing for most of my life. I was baptized a Catholic...against my will at 6 weeks...lol I no longer associate myself with that religion. I've recently decided that Wicca is more suitable for my beliefs.
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• United States
9 May 07
All babies are baptized as infants in the Catholic church. Sadly it is not scriptural. I studied/practiced wicca for a time too. I am now (and will forever be) a born again Christian.
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@rrargh (96)
• Philippines
10 May 07
"I baptize you with water for repentance..." - Matthew 3:11 And so John came, baptizing in the desert region and preaching a baptism for repentance for the forgiveness of sins. - Mark 1:4 Peter replied, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit." - Acts 2:38 THe act of baptism is a public declaration that you have accepted Jesus into your life. But the act itself is not what will save us from our sin. Before baptism comes repentance. Without repentance, baptism means nothing. How can a weeks-old child repent from sin and accept Jesus as Lord and Savior of his or her life?
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• Philippines
10 May 07
Why Catholics Baptize Infants? Again, I'm quoting from www.knowthetruthjesus.com "'Don't Baptize Children' is also a dogma that the world heard from Anti-Catholics 1500 years after the beginning of Christianity. (they say)It was not demanded by Jesus nor practiced by his apostles in the early church. Baptism is an external sign of an internal grace that we receive by the acceptance of Jesus as our Lord and Savior. The Bible says that it was given to children, adults and old ones alike by the apostles. The children were never denied baptism. ACTS 2:38-39 says: Peter said to them, 'Repent and be baptized, EVERY ONE OF YOU, in the name of Jesus Christ, for the forgiveness of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise is made TO YOU AND TO YOUR CHILDREN and to all those far off, whomever the Lord our God will call." At the time of Jesus, circumcision was the way to be consecrated to God. The Apostles replaced baptism for circumcision. In the New Testament, BAPTISM WAS DMINISTERED TO THE WHOLE FAMILY including CHILDREN and ADULTS. Baptism was never denied to children: Paul baptized the HOUSEHOLD of Stephanas (1 Cor 1:26). Acts 16:30: "Believe in Lord Jesus and your HOUSEHOLD WILL BE SAVED." Acts 18:8: "Crispus, the synagogue official, came to believe in the Lord, along with his entire HOUSEHOLD" Here the usage of "WHOLE HOUSEHOLD" was a normal usage at that time which included children and adults in a house. The use of "WATER" is an external sign of an internal grace of God. At the time of Jesus, ritual washings were practiced. When Jesus accepted this sign, he didn't intend for baptism to be a 'bath in water.' It is because of that misunderstanding that SOME SECTS prepare artificial swimming pools inside their worship centers. Jesus did not use such pools for baptism. On the day of Pentecost, 3000 men were baptized. We don't read the apostles leading them to a river or to a sea to get immersed. A sprinkling of water may be used to baptize them." God bless all of you and your families!
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• United States
9 May 07
I have often wondered about that too. As I am responding this from my emails I have not seen if you got and answer from some one else. I hope so.
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• United States
9 May 07
Thanks for replying. Hopefully I will get some good answers.
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• United States
9 May 07
Here is what I found: The term "father" when used to address a priest is not merely an assertion of his "higher" status in the community of believers; rather, it is a term of endearment, of intimacy and love, as the apostle Paul uses it in 1 Corinthians and 1 Thessalonians, already mentioned above. In Greek, a priest in his village is addressed as "Papa" and in Russian as "Batiushka" - both being terms of endearment and intimacy. The spiritual fatherhood of the priest is intended to be a sign of the depth of intimacy and relationship which those in the life of the Church have with their leaders, a relationship based on the priest's role in our second birth, our birth in the Gospel - our baptism. Just as our biological father has an important role in our birth and continuing nurture, so the priest - as the one who baptizes us - has an important role in our second birth, our birth "from above…of water and the Spirit" (John 3:3-5). Finally: This kind of attempt to interpret the Scriptures literally and then apply a passage taken out of context in a polemical way, usually towards Roman Catholics - but by extension often towards us as Orthodox Christians as well - is, unfortunately, all too typical of much "non-denominational" Christianity. At best, it is a misreading and misunderstanding of the Scriptures; at worst, it can be an expression of religious bigotry. Nonetheless, it remains a simple fact that the overwhelming majority of Christians in the world today (Orthodox, Roman Catholics, Anglicans, etc.) - and across the 20 centuries of Church history - have addressed and continue to address their clergy as 'Father." http://www.stpaulsirvine.org/html/father.htm
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@urbandekay (18278)
9 May 07
Well, whiteheather, firstly Anglicans call their clergy Vicar or Rector not father. Secondly, I think your answer highlights the problem people have with the Orthodox church and its off shoot the Catholics. You are very critical of people taking a naturalistic interpretation of this scripture because it contradicts your own interpretation, even claiming there interpretation is a misreading (Which it clearly is not) or a misunderstanding (Which it may be but which you don't show)Yet you offer no cogent argument why your own interpretation is better. This presumably is because you relying on apostolic succession and thus claiming to speak from authority, yet surely if any doctrine has been discredited it is this. Peter, from whom such authority is supposed to derive is referred to as the rock not the leader of the church and both Peter and Paul ceded authority to James the Just. all the best urban
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• United States
9 May 07
OH no Urban whiteheather did not speak her own words. You will note the link at the end of her comment. The comment was copied straight from the article. It is not her view but rather that of the Greek Orthodox church member that wrote the article.
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• United States
9 May 07
Interesting text. I think it presents the answer quite well from a Greek Orthodox view. I am sure it can't be too far off from what Roman Catholics believe. The whole thing about our spiritual rebirth .. please (not directed at you) some priest dripping water on my head does not equate to my spiritual rebirth. That happened when I - not a priest - asked the Lord into my heart. Water baptism is an outward sign of our acceptance of the Lord. It is useless without the belief. I love the fact that the article says that the rest of the chapter says that Jesus was blasting the pharisees and for their hipocracy. For all my years as a Catholic and continuing into the present; I have seen plenty of hipocracy in the RC church. That is a topic for a different discussion. It would be nice to see this information presented by a non-Catholic. Obviously the writer is Greek Orthodox CATHOLIC. I just love the way they always say that the bible is not to be taken literally. As I said to someone else I guess the 10 Commandments can be taken to mean whatever we want too.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
9 May 07
Right up front, I don't know the answer to this question and had never really thought about it until now but I would be very interested to find the answer to it.
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• United States
9 May 07
I was also interested so I did some checking . I posted in my response what I found
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• United States
9 May 07
The answers are interesting to say the least. Whiteheather I have read your second post and will reply there.
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@lquiambao (109)
• Philippines
9 May 07
Taking the above words from the Bible in LITERAL point of view, the "sects" always accuse the Old Catholic tradition of calling their priests "Father." The way they interpret this part of the gospel, the pupil can never call his instructor in school "teacher," and a child can never call his birth father "Dad." It also prohibits universities from issuing a "Master of Arts" or Master's Degree. Surely, Jesus did not intend this funny meaning when he said it. He was instructing his disciples that nobody should be considered in this earth greater than God. If that was observed LITERALLY among the disciples, why did Paul call himself "father?" (1 Corinth 4:14-16: 'I am writing this not to shame you, but to instructyou as my beloved children. Even if you have countless guides to Christ, you do not have many fathers, for I BECAME YOUR FATHER IN CHRIST JESUS THROUGH THE GOSPEL.' It is in the same meaning tht the Catholics call their priests "Father" and the successor of Peter, 'Pope' (meaning 'father') to express their RESPECT and OBEDIENCE. St. Paul makes it very clear in 1 Tessalonians 2:11-12 - 'As you know, we treated each one of you as a father treats his children, exhorting and encouraging you and insisting that you conduct yourselves as worthy of God who calls you into his kingdom and glory.' St. Paul calls Timothy 'my son' (Tim 1:2). Was he violating a command of Jesus by considering himself as the father of Timothy? He calls Titus 'a genuine child.' Paul addressed himself "father of Philemon" (Philemon 1:10). They were not the children of Paul, but he became their SPIRITUAL FATHER in Christ. BUT NOBODY CAN PROVE FROM ANY SOURCE that early Christians called the apostles 'Brother Paul' or 'Minister Peter' or "Pastor John" as anti-Catholics always do.
• United States
9 May 07
Going a bit backwards with your comments.... I have never heard ANYONE say that the apostles called each other Minister, pastor etc. I do think that they might have called each other brother but not brother Paul etc. Brother in the sense that they lived as brothers and that Jesus called them his brothers. Now let me get this straight. You can take the bible to mean what you want but I can't take the bible to mean what it says? Hhhmmm I wonder what God would think if we decided that the 10 Commandments weren't to be taken the way they were written. Are you trying to tell me that God only wants us to take the 10 Commandments at face value and not the rest of the bible? Please! A person calling themselves a father is MUCH different than insisting that someone else do so. Treating others as your children is far different as well. I pray that your eyes be opened.
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• United States
9 May 07
Thanks wertzburg!
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• United States
9 May 07
I agree with maildumpster on this one. I've also left a comment below if you're interested.
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@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
10 May 07
It is something I have often wondered how Catholics can reconcile this scripture with their churches view on Priests and the Pope. I can never understand their view on Peter either as he was clearly married as he had a mother in law.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
They think that when Jesus said Upon this rock I will build my church; that he meant Peter. Hence he would be the first pope. They can't reconcile the bible and their teachings (in most instances) because their religion WAS based on the bible and over the years has shifted to what the popes and bishops want it to be. Ever notice that most Catholics have no knowledge of the bible? They were told for years NOT to read the bible as they would not understand it. I think it was more like don't read the bible cause you'll figure out that we aren't following it. Martin Luther figured that out and said "hang on a second here" and so started the reformation.
@blondbat (503)
• United States
9 May 07
This is only one of the many things I do not understand about Catholicism. I was raised in the Protestant religion so there is alot I do not understand - they are quite different, even though both religions are based on the same Holy Scriptures. I think the thing I understand least about Catholicism is confession and absolution. Why do you go to another person to confess your sins and do what he tells you to atone for them? The way I was raised, and what I read in the Bible for 8 years in daily classes, was that you prayed to God for forgiveness and he forgave you. If there was "penance" that was given to you by God, you would be judged by God. Not another human being. If you are a Catholic, could you please explain to me where the concept of confession and absolution by the priest comes from? I am not mocking or judging - I am merely curious and would be very interested in knowing this.
@blondbat (503)
• United States
9 May 07
Okay, it's all coming back to me know. Somehow I always regarded that as kind of an AA-meeting thing - Hi, my name is, and I have done, please pray with me - etc. Not crawling in a little cabinet to talk to someone you can't/aren't supposed to see, tell him what you did and have HIM forgive you and punish you. Never did see God in those details. But I guess that's because I am not Catholic. DH used to be, was an altar boy and all, but got away from that asap and for more than a few reasons - he doesn't say much and won't answer questions about any of it. MIL is still a practicing Catholic, but I am not about to ask her anything about how it works. There seems to be too many people and too much ceremony btwn God and man in Catholicism - too many layers. Seems to be quite contrary to what I was brought up reading and seeing in my own churches. Like Catholics were deliberately keeping their flocks away from God. I do know that it is only fairly recently that Mass is performed in anything but Latin, and Bible reading doesn't seem to be a high priority, at least from what I have seen. Is it true you are supposed to pray to saints and the Virgin Mary - in addition to or instead of God? Told you I was ignorant about Catholic ways!
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
10 May 07
I do believe that the Catholic church discouraged the reading of the bible because if the people were kept in ignorance the church would keep it's power. That is one of the reasons for the dark ages. This is what I get from reading some history.
• United States
9 May 07
The Catholic church teaches that Catholics are to pray to Mary and the saints. It isn't biblical and they don't see it as a form of worship (which it is). You are right. For years they told catholics not to read the bible cause they wouldn't understand it. My take on that is that they feared the people would see how far the church had strayed from the word of God! You don't see bibles in the pews in Catholic church but you will see them in Protestant churches. Have you ever been to a mass? If so did you notice that there isn't a teaching? The priest doesn't sit there 'disecting' the bible to help people understand it. All we can do dear sister is pray that the scales fall from their eyes. You know I went thru the trouble of ordering tracts in Italian for my parents. My mother read it and said; the truth is in there. At no time in the years that have followed has she ever said she accepted the Lord as her savior. I remember getting baptized as a believer and later asking my father if he was mad that I left the RC church. He looked at me and said "as long as you believe in Jesus I am happy". Sweeter words he could not have said to me!
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@blondbat (503)
• United States
9 May 07
There are usually 2 subjects I avoid starting conversations about: Politics and Religion. Both of these subjects can get pretty hairy because they stem from closely held beliefs on the way people believe. If you ever want to start an arguement these 2 subjects are the quickest ways to do it!LOL That being said, I am eternally curious about different religions, because it is a way to understand a different culture or belief set and other people. I would never judge anyone based on any belief set they have - religious, political or otherwise. I am sure some of my questions or comments could be considered ignorant or accusing but they are meant to be.
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• United States
10 May 07
Well you need not worry I started the discussion LOL!! I don't see anything wrong with asking questions about religions. It is good as surely someone will learn something! As far as ignorant - those that are ignorant are those afraid to ask the questions. It is in asking questions that you gain knowledge. I don't judge people by what they believe. I might not agree. I might point out things that are factual (as opposed to my opinion) but I do not judge them. I believe all people are accountable to one and only one and that one is not me.
• United States
11 May 07
I very much agree. We are not meant to judge. But we are told to correct and that is what we must do. People may refuse to accept the truth, but at least you tried. It is good to start discussions on relegions. Whenever I get in a debate I like to ask the other several questions. It gets them thinking. In the end, they're either going to hate me or change their mind about their beliefs. Even though most of the time the responses are angry, I like to think, it's not me they're rejecting, but God. And He knows how to handle rejection a lot better than me.
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@blondbat (503)
• United States
10 May 07
In response to worshiping Mary and the saints/apostles - I am NOT Catholic so I am going off my memory of what I see in my house - my MIL is a practicing Catholic. I do know there is a calendar in one of the kitchen cabinets, and I am pretty sure I have seen references to some prayers addressed to Mary and/or saints. I also believe I have seen other ceremonies and whatnot on saints days. It seems that God has to share with Mary and saints. I have nothing against Catholicism, or any religion for that matter. What I do have problems with is alot of ceremony and "stuff" getting between me and God. I have great faith in God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit - but I do not have religion or a church or a congregation. I like my religion plain and simple. I don't need anybody else to tell me what the Bible "means". I don't need anybody else to interpret for me how I should live my life as a person of faith. This is my walk with God in my life - shouldn't I be getting this straight from God thru His writings? (Yes, I know, God didn't actually "write" the Bible - but that is a subject for another discussion) It would be much simpler if every person of every faith was able to just read their scriptures (Bible, Koran, etc.) and follow the words in front of their faces - without interpretation on what this means by others who did not write them. All the evils committed in this world by persons of "faith" in God's name (insert your deity's name here) is one of the biggest reasons I do not follow a "religion" - I follow a God. I will now get off my soapbox - please do not throw anything too big at me - LOL
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• United States
13 Jun 07
Honey I won't be throwing anything at you!