Can u hate someone u loved so much?

@manu619 (451)
India
May 14, 2007 6:24am CST
Hey friends..... can u friends hate someone u loved from the bottom of your heart? For me... u can naver hate someone that u loved most i feel itas i also tried to forget her or hate her but i coiul not , means i still love her most.......
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9 responses
• Andorra
15 May 07
I think love and hate are very similar feelings, so i think you can love someone and if that person hurts you can end hating taht perosn, and you can also love and hate a peson at the same time, it is very confusing : )
• Melbourne, Australia
14 May 07
I hate my ex-boyfriend like I could hate no other. He left me right after I told him I was pregnant with his son. I did see him about a month before I had our son, now it has been almost 14 years and I have not seen him, talked to him and he has not ever seen his son. I keep track of where he is just in case my son needs something like medical info from him but even his parents do not want to know their own grandchild. I can hate someone I loved with all that I had. Iwanted to be with him since I was 14, I am now 31 and have been married to a wonderful man for 10 years. At least he treats my son like his own.
• United States
14 May 07
NO!!! i don't believe that you can hate someone you loved from the bottom of your heart. Maybe there is some dislike of that person, but not hate. That is a very strong word. Especially to be towards someone that you loved.
• Philippines
14 May 07
how can you hate someone you loved so much? you may hate the person but the hate you have isnt coming from the heart, it is just from the mind
@thefuture (1751)
• Nigeria
14 May 07
That is not possible, except if it is something else. Thanks
@healer (1783)
• India
14 May 07
I can say that sometimes it happens, when you love someone too much and the person that you really cared and loved betray you than you will feel the hate inside you. I heard a saying like too much of something will lead to too much of that opposite.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
14 May 07
Friend it's all depend on your mind.You can hate nay one and love any one.I agree that it's difficult to hate a person whom you love bottom from the heart.But if he/she had done a thing which really hearts you will defenetly hates them as your mind remembers he/she is the person who break your heart.Then you autoamtically starts hating him.
@abireyes (57)
• Hong Kong
14 May 07
nice question.. for me for all my ex-boyfriend were still friends and we still hang out.. but of course you cannot help yourself sometimes for not hating them specially when the situation is really that bad! the thing is even how much you push yourself hating that person you still forgive them, beacause she/he at least made you happy even how short or how long you guys been dating. for me i have no regrets for falling inlove. :)
@bindishah (2062)
• India
14 May 07
I loved my ex-bf a lot for a long time. But things didnt work out and we broke up (his fault). I tried to hate him for a while but ultimately I just couldnt. I realized no matter whatw e had shared a lot fo wonderful moments together and i could not let all that be a waste by hating him. So he and I r still friends. i strongly believe that we cannot hate anyone we loved so - Infact i believe we are not capable of hating any human being.