Do MEN find these things attractive???

United States
May 16, 2007 10:20pm CST
Supposedly many men prefer certain assets over others....many men will say that looks aren't everything and personality means more, okay but as far as physical beauty goes men what do you think??? Women can answer too with any input on the matter..... 1. Men prefer blondes....true? 2. Men like bigger chests...true? 3. Men prefer bigger ASSets...true? 4. Men like thinner women...true? 5. Men like women younger than themselves, sometimes quite a bit younger...true? 6. Men like women with longer hair....true? 7. Men prefer women to wear less make up and look more natural....true? 8. Men like women with nice abs...true? 9. Men like women with small feet....true? 10. Men like women with longer legs...true? Okay, so what do you think? which ones are true for you? These are some of the main ones I have heard, if you think of anymore throw them in! Thanks for your responses! :) I cant wait to see your answers to this!
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
17 May 07
Honey, all I can say if you have a good head on your shoulders, have some brains, can think for yourself and you inspire me then let's say to forget that list. Sorry, you don't have to be the "typical" model that they show, so you have some curves, so you don't wear make-up, etc. You aren't going to always get the model type of woman or man. It is just not possible all the time. Moreover, generally these "model-type" people are players and don't want to commit to a relationship. So: I would say: a) Beautiful woman (inside and/or outside) b) Can think for herself c) Good head on her shoulders d) Intelligent e) Doesn't have to be "fake" to impress me f) Can be herself and I am still amazed. g) She knows that when I say "you're beautiful", I mean it. h) A list of "what men" won't work because everyone is different, if you can be yourself, then that's the best. Remember: "You're beautiful beyond compare...but you don't see who you are, what you mean (everything). I wish you could see yourself through my eyes, Try, cos I don't lie. Beautiful you..." "Beautiful You" Carly Hennessy. Cheers, Pablo PS: Since you are asking this question, I think you can impress a man and they will see you are beautiful beyond compare and they can only stare :D
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• United States
17 May 07
good answer thanks for your response
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@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
17 May 07
1. Not so true 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Sometimes 5. Sometimes, for me, I love womens that is older than me 6. True 7. Very true 8. True 9. No 10. Not so true That is my answer. All people want to have a perfect girl, but, not all the time you are so lucky to have the perfect girl. Am I right? So, I don't see girl physically. If they are kind, honest, loves me with all of her heart that is just perfect for me. :)
• United States
17 May 07
thanks for your response
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@uath13 (8192)
• United States
17 May 07
Well here's my answers. Some I list as moderate because I prefer an In between state. 1. False 2. true 3. moderate 4. moderate 5. true 6. moderate 7. true 8. true 9. moderate 10. true
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• United States
17 May 07
1. not true. i like any natural hair color. it gets wierd if its green or purple bu i get used to it after a while anyway. 2. true. i like big chests 3. true, but wouldnt bither me a lot if there was no butt 4. true, but you gotta have the meat to get the heat lol I dont always prefer the skinny ones. 5. true, but not too younger. 6. true. love the long hair 7. true true true! plus if they didnt wear so much makeup it wouldnt take them 45 minutes toget ready. 8. true/not true. i like abs, but i like little tummies lol 9. true. love small feet. faster foot massage lol 10. not true, i dont mind long or short legs.
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• Canada
17 May 07
Amswer to yer questions 1 False Gentelemen prefer blonds 2 False more than a handful is is a waste 3 False all assets are Great 4 false Too thin no fun 5 False need to be compatable 6 False alwasy layign on it and beign told you are on my hair. 7 True 8 False Ab are good too mauc or too little are problems 9 False Stop looking around the hips 10 False they must have legs
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• United States
17 May 07
lol, im glad you see it like that. I guess I would be disappointing then on 2 and 6 :P thanks for your response
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• Canada
17 May 07
well did i mention i have big hands!!! LMAO
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• United States
17 May 07
I think it all depends on the man. My hubby doesn't like girls who are too thin, he prefers to have them with a little meat on their bones. The way he puts it, is he likes the ones who used to be athletic but let themselves go a little bit. Some men like big chest others say more than a mouth full is a waste. Short men prefer short women that way their gf/wife isn't taller than them. I wouldn't say one way or another on each answer cause honestly it all depends on the man. Just my opinion.
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• United States
17 May 07
I agree with you, it all depends on the man. I just think with most men's standards it seems to be like this. thanks for your response
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@livewyre (2450)
17 May 07
Everybody likes different things otherwise there would be an awful lot of us 'on the shelf'...this is the same surely for men and women?? My answers then: 1. no I like all hair colours.. 2. up to a point... 3. up to a point... 4. no way, I'm not keen on 'fat' but most women seem to think 'fat' is the next stage on from anorexic... I really don't like skinny - I like 'just right' and can tolerate some extra... Don't give me skinny - the only people that seem to like that look are women in the fashion game! 5. everyone is attracted to youth (unless your young and the 'older' woman is about 35!! maybe). 6. depends - I really don't like that look on an older woman. Loads of older women seem to think it makes them look younger - it doesn't - it just looks like you desperately want people to think you're a teenager. Someone tell Cher please!! 7. yeah I reckon... 8. I don't wanna see your abs really...someone tell that to all the girls that think their abs should be on show... 9. I can't say I've ever been bothered, but if she has bigger feet than me, I might be worried...! 10. Long legs are nice, but shapely is more to the point...Too long could be toooo tall... perhaps you mean shorter skirts = longer legs...now you're talking... ha ha ha Interesting discussion...hopefully women will realise that most men have quite reasonable requirements and are frankly scared by being confronted with physical perfection... Attraction is largely due to the way you carry yourself and obvious self-esteem. Everyone is attracted towards a confident individual.
@livewyre (2450)
19 May 07
It's been said earlier, but I think it IS largely cultural, unfortunately someone decided girls look good at size zero, and I am quite sure it wasn't a man! (if it was, then it is not a man who is interested in feminine curves...). Sadly loads of women have bought into this believing it to be a desirable look.
• United States
17 May 07
thank you for this response, it is good to see that most men dont have such high expectations as a lot of us girls may think. I beleive confidence does play a strong role in how good somebody looks too.
@rosie_123 (6113)
17 May 07
OK - well obviously as a woman I cannot answer this, but in the name of research I asked my partner to answer - and these were his answers...... at least as applicable to his own tastes. 1. Men prefer blondes....TRUE 2. Men like bigger chests...TRUE 3. Men prefer bigger ASSets...FALSE 4. Men like thinner women...FALSE 5. Men like women younger than themselves, sometimes quite a bit younger...FALSE 6. Men like women with longer hair....TRUE 7. Men prefer women to wear less make up and look more natural....FALSE 8. Men like women with nice abs...FALSE 9. Men like women with small feet....FALSE 10. Men like women with longer legs...TRUE He also added that men like women who laugh at their jokes, and also do all the driving when you go out in the evening, so they can have a drink!!!
• United States
17 May 07
lol, its nice to see so many different answers on all these responses! thank you :)
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
19 May 07
Hello, I thought I might answer some of these 1. Men prefer blondes....False, Actualy I prefer brunets 2. Men like bigger chests...true to a certain point. I dont like them enormous 3. Men prefer bigger ASSets...false 4. Men like thinner women...false, They need a little meat on their bones 5. Men like women younger than themselves, sometimes quite a bit younger...I dont know about this. My wife is 10 years older than I am and I couldnt be happier. 6. Men like women with longer hair....very true 7. Men prefer women to wear less make up and look more natural....false, I dont mind a little make-up. I enjoy being with someone that tries to make themselves look good. 8. Men like women with nice abs...no real preferance 9. Men like women with small feet....no real preferance 10. Men like women with longer legs...true, Longer legs are sexxy Take care, Terry
• India
18 May 07
Your points 4. 5. 6. 9. are not so true for me. By the way its a nice discussion I got to know my choices. Thanks... lol
• United States
19 May 07
i am glad you liked the discussion, thank you for responding :)
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
17 May 07
My Celebrity Crush... Michelle Branch! - My celebrity crush...
Michelle Branch!
She has the characteristics I want for a girl.
1.) False! I prefer brunette. 2.) True! I'm attracted to girls with big boobs but not really big. Maybe a little bit of big and a little bit of small. Medium-sized for short... Heehee! 3.) False! 4.) True! But not really thin! 5.) True! All of my crushes were younger than me. I even had a crush on a girl before that was 6 years younger than me. Age doesn't matter anyway. 6.) True! Long and straight! 7.) True! Natural look is always the best because when you wear make-up, it's like you're hiding something. 8.) True! But I don't want it to look like a men's abs. I want to see the curves. LOL! 9.) It depends! The size of her feet must go with her size too. It's really awkward to see small girls with huge feet or tall girls with small feet. 10.) I don't really care! But it must be flawless! Whoever this girl that inherit these characteristics, please let me know! Coz I will love you for the rest of my life! HAHA! LOL! :) Nice topic by the way! - Ron Reyes www.ronreyes.co.nr
• United States
17 May 07
thanks for your response! :)
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• United States
17 May 07
2,3,4,6,7,10 are unfortunately but honestly true in my case. What can I say, I guess I am quite superficial. This post makes me feel bad about myself but it was an eye opener for me. Thanks for the post.
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@shinjiao (1457)
• China
18 May 07
Hi,babygurl50406! Well,I think your question is hard to give an answer.Because different men have different standards to the attractive women. My male friends believe that an attractive woman or girl should have gentle gesture and a slim physical figure.But I think these standards are proper for most Asian girls and women. For me,I don't think physical appereance is the most important item for an attractive women.Although physical appearance is the first part seen by men,I prefer the intelligence than the physical appearance.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
18 May 07
I think above all is true... Yesh, they can say its only the outer beauty, its the inner beauty that counts, but... Who dosnt loves pretty thing... Even though they said so, they wouldnt stop staring at their boobs, their cute and pretty face, their sexy long legs...
• Philippines
18 May 07
1. false 2. true - human nature 3. true - for gripping 4. true - yeah heavy girls are minus 5. false - age doesnt matter 6. true - it adds climax 7. true - nature of a guy 8. true - just like my girlfriend 9. true - it just the way it is 10. exactly true - for driving.... you know what i mean!
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
17 May 07
I am a women but having been with my husband for so many years I can answer this one. 1: false 2: false 3: true 4: false 5: false 6: true 7: true 8: false 9: true 10: false Now mind you this is only my husbands feelings. I think that it is really all a personal preference for each man.
@anup12 (4177)
• India
17 May 07
I think most of the true.But I am surprised to know that as a woman you know so many things about wome,Quite amazing I must say.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
18 May 07
Heh, at one Bulgarian forum i just read a discussion about the personality of the ideal woman if we listen the men...a very funny grotesque with some top hits:-) Most of the men really cant overcome the traditional stereotypes:)
@RookRocks (381)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Well it always depend on a lot of things. Age, culture, class, religion, etc. etc. You can't generalize all men with a standard yardstick. But I suppose men will generally go for women whom their culture dictates as beautiful and desirable.
@bharni (15)
17 May 07
well dear let me tell u the truth it depends frm person to person...some people look for better understanding too...so u shuld not determine a person based on these things
@Eudiso (30)
• United States
17 May 07
1. false, I actually prefer dark hair. 2. false, not flat chested nor overly x10 D, just in the middle. 3. false, doesn't matter too much, middle as well. 4. false, too thin isn't good. middle. 5. somewhat true 6. don't know, i do. 7. somewhat true, makeups good, but applying it for say grocery shopping is a bit excessive... 8. being fit is a plus, but if she had better abs than me that wouldn't be good lol... 9. don't know 10. somewhat true