Would you prefer to be single for the rest of your life or marry someone you..

Philippines
May 18, 2007 1:45am CST
I know a lot of people are over 30 years old already and still they have no boyfriends.Some of them even resort to match-making but they just cant find someone who they think they can spend the rest of their life with. While some would choose to marry someone they dont really love because they are afraid of being alone in life. If you are in this situation, would you prefer to be single for the rest of your life or would you marry someone you dont like just so you wont be spending your remaining years in life alone?
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@wonderful1 (2076)
• China
20 May 07
I will marry my bf this year, and I feel very happy to find a true love. and i know there are more problems that we have to face, but I still feel happy. Do you have a bf? Do you love him very much? I think if you love him, you will want to marry him as soon as possible. My friend has no gf now. He is 29. He thinks that he will be single for the rest of his life if he can't find his lover. I introduce several girls to him, but he doesn't like the way, so now he is still single.
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@nill_07 (1104)
• Bangladesh
19 May 07
I would prefer marry someone.. In my first life I thought.. I will mary someone in my choice but it is so difficult for me... I think my parent may be able to handle this problem. Because they are my best friend.
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• United States
19 May 07
As much as I WOULDN'T wanna spend the rest of my life ALONE, marrying someone I DON'T like is WORSE, in MY eyes! I may not like being alone ALL THE TIME, but at least, in THAT situation, I'd ONLY have 2 deal with my OWN "issues", and NOT those of the OTHER person! Dealing with ANOTHER person's "issues" is TOUGH enough (which IS what happens when u're in a relationship with someone)! So, why make it UNBEARABLE by dealing with the "issues" of a person u DON'T even LIKE! And, 4 LIFE????? Oh NO!!!!! Like the old saying goes, "It's better 2 BE ALONE, than 2 WISH u WERE"!
@easyzheng (666)
• China
19 May 07
Easy. If I'm sure that the guy can give me his love and take good care of me, and the most important, though I don't love him, but I don't feel him disgusting, the possibility of marry him is quite high. lol.
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@mycharm88 (2292)
• Philippines
18 May 07
I firmly agree with biznizman01... Marrying someone for the sake of companionship is not the answer to loneliness. There are so many things that we do to find happiness like what Biznizman had said and its true serving God's people brings great joy to our heart...I'm 27, single but happy and contented, i think it's God's grace that we find happiness in many things. I'm not really sure yet of my future but i know my Lord will lead me to what He has planned for me and whatever it is, i'm sure it's the best for me. Good luck to you and God bless.
• Philippines
18 May 07
i don't think marrying someone you don't love is the answer for loneliness. many people marry for love and yet they separate what more for someone you don't love. i don't know the answer to loneliness. maybe except devote your life to helping others or open your home to someone who is in need. or maybe adopt a child so life will have more meaning.
@fengbo (731)
• China
18 May 07
I think i can find a girl to marry,not only i am will alone in life,but also we can find so much happy max in your wife.