How can you show everyone that you're a true girl at heart, physically, etc...?
By kharen
@kharen (1488)
Philippines
May 20, 2007 11:45pm CST
Well,of course..it's not easy to show everyone that i'm a real girl... especially that lately, I've had a relationship with a lesbian(??) and now my brother calls me lesbi whenever we fight, and i'm not hurt because of how he insults or calls me that way..i feel hurt because i can remember my ex who i really loved yet she just played with me for revenge... i can't tell my brother how i feel because they'll just call me stupid again and everything...i don't know how to tell them because i don't even want them to know, that i'm still moving on and trying to forget about how i feel... they won't understand. No one just understands how i feel..
oh,well..too bad for me, soo, bout you? how do you show everyone that ur a true girl in any means? ^^,
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4 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 May 07
Sometimes when a girl experienced a failed relationship she will come out to be a dfferent person in her. I don't blame you but you have to portray the feminine in you and get out of that lesbian relationship you have. If you stay on you will receive negative remarks from others.
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@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
21 May 07
well, your story is realy interesting. anyway, i can suggest that if you really want to prove to everybody that you're a girl, try ot dress and look like a girl. be very feminine. start with your hygiene, try to use shampoos and body washes which smells a lot like a garden or an orchard or a tropical forest. then maybe, try to wear a lot of skirts, dresses, frilly tops, tops with laces, sandals, etc. :) wear make up and wear your hair in a very girly way, like with clips or with barettes. also wear a perfume or cologne which smells so girly, like victorias secret. :) wear more pinks rather than dark tones. :)
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@fawcey (926)
• Australia
23 May 07
I don't think it matters what other people think as you know in your own heart who you are. I think it is sad that someone you loved treated you so badly. We can not choose who we love, it just happens and you should not feel like you have to love a certain person or type of person. I think if you be yourself, and feel proud of who you are, then people will start to see you are happy being who you are, and all those that truly love and appreciate you will understand you and not hurt you or make you feel stupid. I don't think you should forget how you feel, move on yes, but why should you forget. You are never stupid for following your heart. I wish you all the luck and if that is you in the photo I do not see how people could not think of you as a true girl.
@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
21 May 07
I don't think you should try to prove yourself to anyone. You are who you are, and you should just be yourself. When you're young, you're still trying to figure that out, so you are still in development. Go with your heart, and you can't be wrong. You're brother shouldn't insult you like that, but brothers and sisters do fight sometimes, it's natural. You don't have to go around explaining how you're feeling, because you really can't help that. Best of luck to you.
