Why does Love sometimes doesnt have a happy ending?

Philippines
May 25, 2007 4:49am CST
I am just wondering why do we need to love someone and hurt in the end sometimes? Do you think the one you love is really not meant for you?
11 responses
• United States
5 Jun 07
Well for me this thing is somewhat a hurtful reality that everyone must accept.Not all relationship will end to a happy one for there are lot of reasons of why sometimes relationship failed but in the end you both are the only person responsible to decide whether to continue it or not.There's no such thing as perfect and there's no things that last forever.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Very well said, It seems that you have experienced a lot about love huh.. just kidding! Thanks for the response.. keep going!
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
26 May 07
i agree, that sometimes love has no happy ending..that sometimes we can hurt someone and we will be hurt too..love is not perfect, but it could become perfect to a couple who are meant for each other..maybe, we need to be hurt sometimes, because we need to become tough and strong for the coming another hurt and when it will come we can say that i'm already strong and i can face another hurt and until you can find the perfect love..
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing.. d=)
@subha12 (18441)
• India
2 Dec 07
May be the person you loved is not worth of you. Or may be the love you have given that person was more than enough to that person. he is not worth of it. Or your love is not understood by that person.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
2 Dec 07
The problem with Love is When we all think we're in love, most of the time its cause our heart wants that person and we listen to that. Problem is with that the heart lies. We should actually listen to our brain. Cause it warns us if we listen. The more we don't listen to it the more it tunes into are feelings and it will stop warning us. Then Love blinds us and if it ain't real love from the other person then failure will happen. I should know this happened to me. I was in love with this guy in high school and then we appart for several years. He wasn't involved in my life all those years. then one day he's single and I am single and moves to the town I live in and that was very exciting for me. I kept thinking this is awesome my high school sweetheart is coming back here to be with me. So already I listened to my heart. but my mind kept telling get to know him before falling in love and think before reacting. Well months went by then we got married. then 3 yrs later he left me and my son out of the blue. then I get a divorce from him causes of his finance problems. So see Never listen to your heart. I will never again do that. I met a another guy I will be friends with him and Think before i react. I will use my brain and follow it not my heart.
@Jane_07 (11)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Love is not just for happiness alone for you cannot appreciate the true meaning of love if you don't let yourself to be hurt. If it is not a happy ending, it only means that it's not for you.
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Nice one, Yes I agree with you that love is not just happiness alone. keep this up.. Thanks for your response!
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
2 Dec 07
yeh i agree that not all love stories have a happy endings its a non sense thing according to me. But we have no choice as whats written on our fate ca not be helped by any one.And we have to face that. But i feel that if we actaully give the best of our efforts things can really happen and should work well.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
2 Dec 07
The problem with Love is When we all think we're in love, most of the time its cause our heart wants that person and we listen to that. Problem is with that the heart lies. We should actually listen to our brain. Cause it warns us if we listen. The more we don't listen to it the more it tunes into are feelings and it will stop warning us. Then Love blinds us and if it ain't real love from the other person then failure will happen. I should know this happened to me. I was in love with this guy in high school and then we appart for several years. He wasn't involved in my life all those years. then one day he's single and I am single and moves to the town I live in and that was very exciting for me. I kept thinking this is awesome my high school sweetheart is coming back here to be with me. So already I listened to my heart. but my mind kept telling get to know him before falling in love and think before reacting. Well months went by then we got married. then 3 yrs later he left me and my son out of the blue. then I get a divorce from him causes of his finance problems. So see Never listen to your heart. I will never again do that. I met a another guy I will be friends with him and Think before i react. I will use my brain and follow it not my heart.
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
21 Aug 07
i realy don't know the answer.i just can agree with this that love doesn't have always an happy end.love is so sweet but sometimes may poison your soul,may hurt you so much.there can't be love without a little drop of pain.i found love but i lost it and that hurts me.i am sure many people being hurt when loving.i didn't get an answer yet for all my pain that i got because of love in special during the teenage
@mwalidji (200)
• Philippines
21 Aug 07
i think because love sometimes is felt to the wrong person... it is as if that person love someone else... sometimes because of the things that happened in the society... a lot of people let go of their love because they believe they were not meant for each other... some believe that they would not be happy with that person... there are a lot of things that could affect our decision and it is us who can change anything and everything...
@prily9 (568)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 07
sometimes we made mistakes. that's what I learn thru my relationship. sometimes I didn't meant to hurt him then when I made a mistake. I realized that I already hurt him so much.
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
21 Aug 07
Because it is really something like that! We love and be love, we give love but we received pain, we give pain but we received love. It is a natural way of life. Love is not all means of happiness but it is also sacrifices, pain and tears. Freedom to let go and to give up. Give up to be free, let go to give freedom and hold on to fight! :-)