Is it right to violate guidelines first and then complain as many are doing ?

@skbadhan (879)
India
May 28, 2007 2:08am CST
hi friend its very usual to see more and more discussions peoples complaing about mylot.But i think they are still violating mylot guidelines by starting such discussion as it is clearly written in guidlines Don't Discuss about private issues with mylot. Should be respond to such discusions. and if anyhow such discussions got deleted then who should be blame the person who has started the discussion which is violating guidelines or the person who has responded i thing both are going to suffer. What did to think should be start such discussions which are spreading negativity about mylot ? I think all of us loves mylot verymuch.... please share your views to make mylot a postive space to discuss posative, informative and relevent discussions.
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6 responses
• India
28 May 07
It is true that My lot deleting some discussions agaist their rule. But what I could see is the lack of politeness in the language used by some member's response. Mylot has to check this aspect also
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@skbadhan (879)
• India
28 May 07
ya i too have noticed this. some people resondes in very rude way it doesn't look nice as we are here for sharing information/knowlege with each others we are not the part of the race where one is going to be winner and all other lossers.
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@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
28 May 07
I really hate all the people here who do nothing but complain, why do they waste their time in doing so? There's no point in going to a discussion just to complain (LOL I know I'm actually dogin the same right now).
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
29 May 07
I think sometimes when we pm mylot and they do not respond it is the only way we can get answers. The ones that violate the rules have no reason to complain, but lately many discussion here are being deleted for no reason, they neither violate the guidelines, nor are the off color or in any way offensive.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 May 07
Yes I agree with you. Ignorance excuses no man. A guideline is there to help us in our discussion, violating it means our discussion being deleted.
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• United States
28 May 07
I don't know how mylot determines negitivity, but there is a lot of discussions about personaal issues. I sometimes don't know whether to answer them or not, but I usually do, since I have never seen any get deleted.
@Manoj_s (939)
• India
28 May 07
commiting mistakes knowingly and then saying sorry is not agood thing whether you are in mylot or in life.(i am not saying i am foloowing this in my life).One thing is that they know in each discussion board or anywher there will be some rules and guidelines and we have to adhere to it ,but people doesnt care about reading this.and after deleating the discussion making complaint is not a good thing.
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