why?why?why?

I really don't know why and I can understand exactly what you mean.I have some friends like these. By the way you are at my friend list too.You never come and gave to my discussions response.Before you get me wrong..I don't play the good here.I didn't come to all your discussions too but at least I came too some.I haven't much time to spend and I try response at least one if they start more than one or if I don't response to all my friends discussions the next day I go at those I didn't go yesterday.You never came to me. PS:I don't complain just I give answer to your question.You still gonna see me at your post.

Hello,smokegun,as i have read another discussion from you about how to make more friends in mylot,i have to say you should not expect too much from friends. If you request someone to be your friend,you cannot just expect other people will reply to most of your discussions ,they may just accept everyone but not mean they have time to reply to everyone. For me,i will also accept everyone,i will not expect too much from friends,if they find something interersting from my discussions,i am happy to receive their responses. Sometimes,I add someone who get interesting discussions but i may not have enough knowledge to reply to them,i may just read their discussions.

That's a good question. I have a few friends on mine that have never answered any of my disscussions. Some of them have no disscussions under there account. A lot of them havn't been in mylot for over 6 months. I have deleted a few of my friends esspically the ones that don't reply to any of my disscussions and the ones that haven't been here in over 6 or 7 months.

Well some people just want to have pretty girls as friends in their profile. Then other people just want to have alot of friends because it makes them feel special. I always check my friends discussions and try to answer them alot.

Are you talking about me? I was planning to come to your discussions, sure, I liked some I was reading. Just I have been busy. So see you soon :)

I think it is true that we all have friends like these. When I come on Mylot I just basically go to my friend list and start responding from there. I rarely go anywhere else anymore. I do notice that a lot of my friends always respond to my discussions as well and I beging to feel like I know them. It is a great place to be when that happens. :) cheers,

I always look in my friends list to respond to their discussions. But to respond I must have the ability to do so. We can only take part in a discussion withing our scope. I try to look for zero response discussions of my friends, but there is no straight forward way to do it.

sometimes i do invite someone if i have responded to his/her discussion at one time. but some others i've invitd to didn't accept my invitation. so far i never got invited after responding to a discussion, but i'm not complaining. i just don't think it's compulsory to respond to a friend's discussion as i do not expect my friends to respond to mine all the time. you see, we're very selective in responding to a discussion given the fact that there's so many topics here in myLot. to respond to a discussion, is mostly based on what interests you for the moment, or something that you're curious about, or something that amuses you, or something that you're knowledgeable about, or something that is easy to answer to while killing time and earning points(lol)/. really, we have different motivations in responding and we're free to do whatever suits our taste.

Maybe it's because they're busy with work or other commitments? Or it could be simply because the topic of discussions don't caught their fancy or don't hit a note with them. Some people prefers simple discussion on everyday life and some prefer deeper discussion on a variety of topics. Some respond to posts for money while others do it to increase their understanding of people from around the world, perhaps. But does not everyone need friends, be they in real life or online? Well, that's my two-cent worth. Have a good day.