Undesired company

Yes, absolutely!!! As the saying goes, you cannot choose your family but you can your friends - Like you I don;t like loud people or those who gossip about others, especially at work. I feel if you have to say something to someone say it to their face so he/she can defend himself/herself. I avoid being with people that don't have manners, especially if I go out for a meal; I must tell you that hearing/seeing someone eat with his/her mouth open or making certain sounds at the table can outright cut my appetite. I am not judgemental, as they can do whatever they want but, I choose not to be in their company.

The one person I most want to avoid beiong with, in the same rooom, or even on the same site, is my husaband's ex. She is nasty, manipulative trouble maker. She tells lies all the time, is sneaky, abuses people including her own children with very bad swear words. She is emotionally abusive to other people and has a viloent tendancy!

Yeah, noisy people and loud people do that to me too. I am a quiet person and prefer to have some peace an quiet all the time.