hold on or let go?

Ok thats really a hard one. I think that i hold on for the things until its really hard to hold on and then let it go. At least i dont have any pain of letting it go because i tried my best to hold it on. Sometimes i give up very easily as i dont see any point of holding it on.but yes it does pain sometime to see things you want going out of your reach. But its a gamble of life that we all have to do. You get something and you lose something. But i have noticed one thing that if you have a friend or someone with you to just help you morally then holding on is not that painful and many times you find success in achieving your aims.

It depends. I'll hold on if there's still love that I'm fighting for but I'll let go if I'm only fighting alone. If my partner doesn't love me anymore, I'll try to let go though its really hard but I don't want to be loving alone and hold on to something that he's not happy to stay with me anymore. Love is sometimes about letting go. I'd rather go than let my heart abuse. :)

I would rather feel the pain of letting go. With letting go healing can set in. I would not want to feel never ending pain while holding on. Pain in letting can make you feel stronger in the end rather than pain in holding on where your energy is depleted and can cause you your health.

I choose letting go. If you stay in a relationship that constantly hurts you, you are doing an injustice to yourself. When you let go, you get hurt and then you grieve, and then you move on. You pick yourself up, you rise above it and start over. And then you don't hurt anymore.

I guess its the situation that u r in, which will let u feel the extreme and let u decide what u really wanna do? For me, i have been in both situations and definitely both situations are awful.... It hurts so much, tears wouldnt stop flowing... I dun even wanna recall the pain...

I'll hold on as long as I think it's what I really want and it's not completely impossible no matter in the aspect of career, feeling and life ~anyhow, I may be regretful one day for abandoning a dream just because of some temporary difficulty. Hold on ,and the despairing situation will be turned into hopeful~life in in the control of yourself

hmmm.. That depends on the situation. If you are feeling the pain because you are holding on into something worth it then by all means I am willing to feel that pain because I know in the end I could say that I didn't let go. But if you mean someone you deeply love who has someone else then I would say, i will go for feeling the pain because i am letting go because it's hard to hold unto something that's not really for you, or into someone who has moved on with his life. I would rather feel the pain of letting go because I know that's the only way to move on.

Sometimes it helps if you ignore the pain and pretend that you are not in pain, the pain will gradually subside. Keep on saying I am not in pain and it sort of relieve you of the pain.

its much better to just let go when you feel that the person you love is no longer holding on.indulge yourself with activities with family and friends which will make you feel your importance.