What is the most important quality in a bf, gf, partner or spouse?

United States
June 8, 2007 6:23pm CST
Just wondered. I've definitely had my share of loser exes. Just wondered what others find most important? Looks? Brains? A sense of humor? Money? A great car? Honesty? Being faithful? Friendship first? Please share! :)
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• United States
11 Jun 07
The most important quality is honestly. If you don't have trust then you don't have a foundation. I think that a great basic friendship relationship is also important. They should be your best friend. Looks, humor, personality, and faithfulness are all important too but they come after the other two.
@coffeechat (1961)
• New Zealand
9 Jun 07
All of the above, and more. It is not just one attribute but a combination of them that makes an individual unique. What I am blessed with is that I have a person who cares - enough to make me Number 1 in his life, rejoices in my joys, is supportive when I hurt. We share aspirations, ideals, joys and try to not bite each others head off when things go wrong as they inevitably will. I think the most important thing is that he ore she cares!
• United States
9 Jun 07
well with me it has to be trust and someone who tells the truth. if you dont have that then whats the whole point of begin in it together. and then everything else comes next..looks,sense of humor..stuff like that
@tamskie (388)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
For me, what's more important is that he should be a God - fearing person, next is he should me a trustworthy and respectful person. And he should also be lovable. Looks doesn't count on me.