Your first love

United States
June 13, 2007 1:59am CST
Ok so here's my question, how many of you still remember your first love? Do you still keep in contact with him/her? I ask this because today was the first time in 15 years that I've spoken to mine. I haven't seen or talked to him since I was 13 and poof there he was on myspace lol. Its amazing the things people remember about you even after all this time. So for those who aren't still with theirs do you remember your first love?
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• United States
13 Jun 07
My first love lives 54 miles away and yes I run into him sometimes. He happens to work in my town. We have mutual friends, he has been married and divorced twice. At our 10 year high school reunion I told him if he would not have broken up with me would we would still be together. He dumped me without a reason why. To this day I do not know why. Now I do not care. I have been with my man for over 30 years in September we will celebrate our 30th wedding aniversey. Live and learn. It use to make me nervous to see him now it does not I consider him a friend and it does not bather me.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
oh yeah. my 1st love was when i was a sophie highschool student. we broke up after 2 years because of the mother problem. after like 4 years of not talking, we caught up with each other. we're still friends. i also tend to remind her, that she should look for a better guy than me. romance has fizzled, but our friendship still remains.
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@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
13 Jun 07
WEll, i did keep in contact with my first love and we are still friends now... Meaning to say we do talk on the phone occassionally which is like rarely and we do text each other and chat most often via msn... I mean its the technology that keeps us connected... i used to hate him for his unfaithfulness... but all is in the past... so who cares... =) but i guess it isnt tt bad to stay as friends... one more friends then one more foe... isnt it? =P
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@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
13 Jun 07
ONG! Of course I remember my first love we met in our first year of high school, we were best friends and eventually we started going out..we were really close and we dated for awhile (in teen years) but I didnt want a serious boyfriend cuz I was young so we ended things..that was the biggest mistake! Through the years I have always thought about him and I had heard he moved to another state BUT thanks to myspace he found my sister and he was asking her about me so I got in contact with me and we had soo many memories to share about the past..it was like we never left each others life..so we have been in contact since then :) You will always remember your first love!
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• United States
13 Jun 07
LOL I meant to write OMG!
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• United States
13 Jun 07
LOL yea myspace is a funny thing isn't it as I type this response I am actually chatting with my friend on myspace IM. It is stange how even after all these years we still have found memories of our first loves.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
Never 4get your 1st Love - First love saying
Yea it is strange but they say you never really ever get over your first love..Hmmmmm...I think that might be true! Its gonna be almost 10 years since me and him first met and we still remember every detail of the past :)
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@LadyK2 (71)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I met my first love when I was a sophomore and he was a senior - we dated and then he broke up with me for another girl. I was devastated. 2 years later, we got together again. This time we tried, but things just kept getting in the way - again we split. We have remained very good friends that keep in contact often. He's married with children as am I and we are both happy with how our lives have turned out.
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• United States
14 Jun 07
Wow, yea I guess sometimes love just doesn't always work out the way we want it to. Its good that you've remained friends though, and have found happiness in your lives.
@Galena (9123)
13 Jun 07
I'm still with him. but right now he's in hospital and I'm not allowed to visit because I'm not a relative. we've been together seven years.
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• United States
13 Jun 07
wow sorry to hear about your bf I hope he feels better soon. Good luck to you both.
@ryanphil01 (4186)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
how could one forget her first love! she was my first girlfriend in college and took good care of me when i got sick one time and inspired me a lot in my studies. but things had changed when i graduated from college and never saw her again. lately i learned from a friend that she now lives in the u.s.a and married to a foreigner doctor. i never had the chance to keep in touch with her anymore.
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@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 07
Yes, of course I still remember her. I know her from secondary school. Now, I still contact her. She is happy with her boyfriends and so do I, happy with my girlfriends.
• China
14 Jun 07
I still keep with her, because she has been my wife, we meet each other in college, she is a beauty gril and very open, then we became friends with something, and now we have a cute daughter, we love each other.
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@dheng30 (88)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
I do still remember my first love... even it is a bitter sweet memory.. he's my schoolmate at first and then we became classmate... they were teasing me of liking him that time but its not...i like someone else... i dont know what happened...we were like the M.U. thing... how i started liking him and even.... loving him... Honestly, im still kindda puzzled how did it happened... Our situation was like on and off... He's a guy that would tell lots of good things about you when he's with his close male and female friends... But then,you will hear sort of bad things bout you when he was with his female friends... I dont know...if he's real or not.. Even his uncle used to tagged me as 'the nephew's girlfriend'... Funny if im thinking bout that nowadays,but its still a bitter sweet moments for me...
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@Marie2473 (8523)
• Sweden
13 Jun 07
No, I dont and I think that it is sad since we started out as great friends. The reason we do not speak is because of his girlfriend that he has today. She is the most jealous person i have ever met and she has forbidden him to have any contact at all with me so I keep out of the way and it is not hard since we live in different parts of the world. His brother however is a close friend of mine so I am still in contact with him, and the rest of the family so I still get updates =) The first love is really speacial and I will keep him with me forever. I am in a happy relationship right now, and he also has a first love that he still talks to at times - and I really do not mind since I know that I am the one for him =)
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@navtech (1776)
• India
13 Jun 07
Hi, devilsangel, Nobody can forget the first love because it is such a pleasant memories. In my school days I had a girl friend, at that time, I am not aware I loved her but it gave me happiness wheneve I talked to her. Subsequently I realised I was in love with her. Due to fear of the society I could not convey my feelings to her. Subsequently she moved to another place. There ended our relationship but memories of first love still fresh in my heart.
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@shemah (841)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 07
i remember him very well. After all it wasn't that long ago, for me. But no i am not in touch with him. i know how he's doing through mutual friends, not that i asked!, mind you. But that type of news is just inevitable. It's still too early.. maybe i need to wait 20 more years and then answer this question. Maybe i will/wont remember him after all! hahaha..
@jenna_ (1)
• Japan
13 Jun 07
yeah I have done this.
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@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
I still remember him but had no contact at all. I'm happy with my life now and I know he does too.
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@yaoyao918 (262)
• China
17 Jun 07
I am having my first love now!
@sanell (2114)
• United States
14 Jun 07
yes I do and I always will but wanting to still have some sort of relationship with him will NEVER HAPPEN. Long story maybe I will tell it sometime
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
I do! I still remember my first love. Its not really like yours that is 15 years ago. Mine was 4 years ago. The feeling or your feelings towards that particular someone really lasts longer than you expected. I mean, I got hurt so bad with my first love. Actually, we never even came close to dating.. but almost. lol. We were best of friends, but when I discovered that I had that "feeling" so strong and true towards her.. Our friendship totally fell apart. A few days ago when I saw her inside their car, Its still something.. Theres still something.
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
yes, i still remember my first love. but we haven't kept in touch anymore although we see each other once in a while during our gettogether party with friends. we don't talk anymore, we just say our hi's and talk to other friends. i remember we were so inlove then...but he has changed so much now that i think i barely know him anymore. people do change. that's life.
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
definitely! it was one of the most significant part of my life....very tumultous, nonetheless, extremely memorable and a great learning experience....a lot of tears were shed but the education i got was all worth it!