do you easily fall out of love??

@austere (2814)
Philippines
June 15, 2007 12:01pm CST
i know this may sound stupid since they say love is the real thing and i should be asking if it wanes..but i dont know, there are just times when you like somebody so much you could swear it's real but after knowing each other so well and being so comfortable and familiar the magic just seems to be gone! i wont really say that it's happening to me right now, but i do believe that at some point this thing could actually happen no matter what we do to prevent it.. and i just dread the day it will come to my current relationship.. . but if ever it's gonna happen i just wish that it's not me who falls out of love. i can bear the pain if it's me who's hurting but i dont think i can take hurting the other person because i fall out of love for him.. how about you guys??
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@hcromer (2712)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I don't really know. Sometimes it seems as if I will never fall out of love with someone and other days it seems like I'm not even in love with my boyfriend anymore.
@austere (2814)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
hehehehe.. yeah right.. i tend to be getting that feelings at time too!:) hehehe wird isnt it.. one moment we could be overly sensitive and emotional. we could cry our hearts out because of the intensity of the feelings that we are feeling for an certain person..:) and there are just time when we dont care.. and nonchalant about the feeling and the person!:) i certainly do still love my boyfriend, but right now, there are just times when i dont wanna feel the feeling anymore. but i got reasons for it. he is away.. and that's the only way i have and that i know to stop my from crying everytime. when i take care and nurture the emotinal side of me... i might end up crying everyday!hehe
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
i don't know if i easily fall out of love but as far as i know, when i like a guy, it's like for a long time. back when i was in high school, i had a huge crush with one of my classmates. he was like.. so cool and so intelligent. we became friends and few people knew that i liked him. unfortunately, one of my friends told him. and so to save my face, i joked about it. i kept on telling him that i did like him because he was soooo cute... in a joking way.. in the procss, he didn't believe me.. he thought that i was really joking... after four long years (we're classmates since 1st year -4th year), i kept my feelings towards him. later on our senior year, i fall out of love... (or am i? hmm)with no reason at all. maybe it finally dawned on me that we can never be more than friends.... the same thing happen when i was in my first year college... i fell in love with someone way of out of my league.. until now, i felt the same way towards him eventhough i haven't seen hime for 2 years now. i don't know the reason why i like or should i say love him. i just do. many of my friends and many of his friends kpt on telling me to not fall for him. he's like this and that.. but i never did follow their advises. how can i... love has no reason right? you just fall even for a simpliest way. you cannot tell ur heart nor ur brain to stop falling for a person. but i guess, if i was in ur situation.. i have to tell the other party of what i really feel. honesty is the best policy, they say. but before i do it, i really need to be sure of myself first. in this case, ur not only honest with yourself but ur also hones with the other person.