would you share your boyfriend with a dying bestfriend?

June 16, 2007 11:47pm CST
just thinkin out loud... what would you do if your dying friend is in love with your boyrfriend?
4 responses
@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
hmmm...i can't share my man because if i do, that's also deceiving her. We could hang out together if that'll make her happy. Just because she's dying doesn't mean she has to get everything she wants/longs in any means that we want her to have those. And that would be unfair to the guy if I'll give him to my bestfriend just because she's dying and is inlove with him. We just need to accept realities even in times of dying :).
@VotreAmie (3037)
• United States
1 Jul 07
hmmm I won't and I don't see the reason why I would face this situation. He will not save my friend from dying anyway. I guess it's because if I do share him then things will never be the same ever again. So the question would be: can you lose your boyfriend/husband to please a dying friend. No I wouldn't want to lose my husband.
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
yeah, you have point there! ;)
@federickp (607)
• India
18 Jun 07
i am a boy. And if i have a dear friend who has been with me as a true friend, and if he loves my girlfriend, then in his last days i will allow my girlfriend to be with him. Even if she denies i will make her understand that he loves you and love is more important than anything, is he is a nice guy then i will take care of his emotions, and i am not feeling guilty because i know that nothing strange is going to happen. But is you are asking about bodily pleasures then there is a strict NO. But i will allow her to give as much love and care to him as she can.
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
there's nothing to do with it. It's a normal feeling anyway. I'm sure my boyfriend is madly in love with me and I trust him so too. Maybe we should have a special bonding the three of us, it's fun and I know my best friend will happy for that.