a online friend said hi, and after that what happened was so irritating

India
June 19, 2007 12:52am CST
he said hi,and said he wanted to chat,though i had work i accepted, he started dumping his guilt and bad mod on me, saying things like 'i am crap and foolish' for no reason atall. i just blocked him. i feel so bad that he behaved that way. why should he do this, is he trying to push off his own frustration on me? my heart sinks thinking how he has demeaned me and used me for no good reason
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11 responses
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
19 Jun 07
Same pinch friend..!! I met the same kind of person..!! But will you belive I chatted with him for 2 weeks ..just to find that he was too moody and he had no respect for others..!!It was really bad..!! I regret that a lot. after that I made a point not to chat with any stranger you met online..!! Thats it ...!!
• India
19 Jun 07
i dont have the patience like u to chat for 2 weeks, wow, how could u.i just blocked the person saying tht i dont like to have this foolishness any longer and i have more important work to do than this
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• India
19 Jun 07
actually I was having my holidays..!! It was just my foolishness..to let someone from outside come to me and hurt me..!! thats is why I hate having any internet chats from an online stranger.
• India
19 Jun 07
hi thts true we cretae our own circumstances, isnt it. i think people like this are unworthi and sick, and they dont really need the attention we are giving them now
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@gasmas100 (588)
• India
19 Jun 07
thats really bad. I dont think such things are called fo fom u friends. U should ignore him totally. However, if he is a close friend or a near one- just tell him that he should not have done that and u would not tolerate that from anyone, only if he starts talking to u, dont initiate it at all...Cheers
• India
19 Jun 07
he's not even a friend i should say an acquaintence, i think he was expecting some else and when he couldn't break the ice got over me and started accusing me, anyway i have blocked him for good
• India
20 Jun 07
guess uuve done the right thing. ppl like that should be kept away fom....take care...Cheers
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
19 Jun 07
That would of upset me too. I don't blame you at all for getting upset.
• India
19 Jun 07
it is so horrible to see how people tht too decent people working in high posts can behave in such a way
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
19 Jun 07
I agree I had a reply to a post today that I replied to that upset me but I just had to inore it and keep going the best that I could.
@Calais (10900)
• Australia
19 Jun 07
Thats terrible, how horrible for you, just try and ignore it if you can...There are some weirdos out there.
• India
19 Jun 07
and i think they do this especially to women, will they dare do it to a man. i would have slapped him if he were before me, all i could do is to block him. atleast i knew now what he is?
@Calais (10900)
• Australia
19 Jun 07
Dont let it get to you..keep your chin up.
@NeoComp (1320)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Yeah this guy sounds like a loser. I can not trust people like him. I don't like the things that he is doing. he should learn to treat you with more repect!
• India
19 Jun 07
yes he must be a terrible loser no doubt. how can anyone atall behave in this way be it friend or otherwise i wonder lol
@cdparazo (5768)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Those kind of people are like emotional vampires who just suck the good and positive vibes that we may have. Everytime you get to encounter those kind, you just mentally block them so that they won't be able to rub off on you their negative vibes and thoughts.
• India
19 Jun 07
thats true i didnt think in this line, they do suck ur positive vides, very true, i should be more metally strong.thx so much for pointing out this to me.
@1qazxsw2 (512)
• Singapore
19 Jun 07
1) You are a good listener and he needs someone to lsiten to him 2) You can ignore him and let him do all talking and writing 3) Don't let all these get into your head.
• India
19 Jun 07
well said, he was looking for someone to listen to his crap. and yes i did block him right away, but about not taking into my head, i still some time to recover from this i thinkk. anyway i feel much better reading ur reply thx
@obukohwo (302)
• Nigeria
20 Jun 07
Hey get that off your mind and try to enjoy yourself. These type of stuff happens alot, there are some people who just come up to say what they like and its unfortunate that the outcome is embarrassing please ignor them and make sure the things they say did not have anything to do with your normal reasoning. Remember, in every comfortable journey there are always some bottle necks.
• India
20 Jun 07
Seems you have encountered in chat with an evil minded people. There are, I have also faced while chatting. My only advice is not to mind too much and avoid in future to talk with such people. Just after few messaging, such people open and expose what they are. The moment you feel bad, stop and say simply good-bye. Block such people's chat ID. If you continue messaging, such person will think that you are interested a little bit at least and he may continue pouring his frustration. Avoid accepting each request at chat room. First you can watch any person in general room's comment. A rough idea can be guessed. Then only you accept request. In this way you can keep yourself away from unnecessary frustration.
@FrancyDafne (2048)
• Italy
20 Jun 07
Well Ranikrishnan, you are a good person, you had to work, and yet, you started chatting with him.... unfortunately the world is full of nuisances. The most important thing is learning to understand sudden who is the person in front of us and to avoid him/her. Did he really use you? Oh, no.... he lost a big possibility, he could chat with a wonderful person like you, and now he behaved like a stupid, he won't chat with anybody. You didn't lose anything, he lost a person who could become a friend of him. Don't worry and don't think about it anymore, it doesn't worth while.
• United States
20 Jun 07
I think he wanted to bring you down with him which he succeded. He also may have tried to get some sympathy from you. I am glad you blocked him those kind do not desever your time. If he comes on again tell him he needs to seek medial and psychological help.