June 21, 2007 4:01pm CST
I heard somewhere that every human has the capasity to fall into true love three times in their lifetime. I think I believe this because if you only had one true love, Would it last a lifetime? I mean in your heart love will always live, but people move away, and even pass away. If no one ever loved again, the world would be a lonely place. Another question, if you have a love and they move, what if they come back? Say 5 years down the road, you are in love with the person you are with, but when you see the other, or are forced to choose, how do you close your heart to that love or the new? Is it possible to love more than one person and still lead a normal life? If everyone in the world held love for 3 people openly, would the world be a bit less aggresive? Just a few questions I have pondered. Does anyone have insight on this?
• United States
21 Jun 07
This I think is funny. I don't understand how you can love 2 people at a time what say about 3. I don't think it would be the same love for all three at once. Amongst the three there would definitely be one with whom one can feel loved. And that one is the one whom we want to live with forever. By the way, where did you get this idea of three true loves in life? Whoever it was that managed to get this idea into your head should have been quite a diplomat to convince you into this. If everyone loved 3 people at a time(which is not possible as many can not love more than one) the world would be more aggressive due to all of them fighting for each other. It would be nonsense.
• United States
22 Jun 07
I actually read it in a poetry book. I feel that everyone in the world is capable of loving many people at the same time. We all have that high school sweetheart, or college thing. But does that mean that you can never love again? Your heart just isn't capable of feeling extreme connection to someone else? If everyone loved three, it would be understood by the world. No need to hate or fight. You can love someone without decieving another.
30 May 08
If have many to choice from,that may be not true love,true love has no choice.I also believe that every human has the capacity to fall into true love more than once in their lifetime.the reasons are as follows. First,Love is a kind of feeling and it changes with the time. Second,only in comparison can we know which is the best. But why three times?I can't tell why and I want to know the answers,too.
• Garden Grove, California
30 May 08
one life and one love was enough for me. I was married to the man I loved for thirty four years. a lifetime of love and now I live with my adult son. I do not need two more loves as one was sufficent for me. anymore would just be a mockery of my one true love.no thanks.