Your Reactions 'In-Love'...
By add_im
@add_im (2712)
Philippines
July 1, 2007 7:20am CST
Hi guys, just a simple question that i'd like to ask all of you here and wanting to know your honest opinion and thoughts about it...
'How would you 'react' if you get to talked/chatted, to see, to met or just accidentally bump somewhere your secret 'admirer' or 'someone special' on-line or off-line in your heart?
Would you act as much as differently from what the 'real' you is? or just simply act as cool as you can get to act? lols:-)
How would you describe yourself then if so?
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6 responses
@Cheesymunky (55)
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2 Jul 07
I'd be myself because if you try to change that you don't just lie to them but yourself as well.
Only thing different that i would do is shave a lil more regulary :op
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@derek_a (10874)
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1 Jul 07
Well, that is something that hasn't happened for a long time. Then I just acted myself - no point in trying to be any different as later on, if you got serious about the person, you would have to show your real self. And that would be embarrassing if you had acted differently in the first place LOL
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Jul 07
Sweetie I would be myself as the Person needs to like who I am not who they want me to be or someone pretending to be
I am me and either People love/like me the way I am or forget it so I would not be any different. I am a shy and quiet Person when I first meet People until I get to know them
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
I would love that kind of attitude my dear gabs, being true to ourselves and our feelings are what matters the most despite from what other people may think or see in us...the important thing is we have shown them the real person we are in our thoughts and even in our feelings. Thanks for sharing.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
Being yourself is the best thing to be no matter who you meet anywhere. If a person is rightfully meant for you, he or she would accept you no matter who or what you are. That's what love is all about. Playing someone you're not or acting differently from your real self will not make you a better person. Eventually, the real you will show. I have been who I am from the very first time I met Mr. Right. We both accepted each other, irregardless of the negative human traits we both have. By accepting each other, we also talked about the things we disliked about ourselves and both agreed to try to change these attitudes little by little. If you happen to dislike the real at this point of time, you might as well change right now, even before you get to meet the special person in your life. That way pretending or acting will not be necessary, and you will be happy with yourself all the time.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
Exactly! being oneself, the real person we are is what we truly gain in this life specially when it comes to every relationships. I would rather also be the real me, than to pretend to be someone elses that I am really not...i'm only hurting or lying to my ownself in the very first place, so I better not pretend but rather be my own very self. Thanks for sharing.
@Yestheypayme2dothis (7874)
• United States
1 Jul 07
Imelda, you know me! I would be honest and go with my feeling whatever they would be. However, being married would make it different. I am married so I would have to say, no thank you.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
That is right Kimberly, being honest to our feelings would be a very great thing to do than being fhony with it. And yeah being married would be very different as well when it comes to such a situation...when it do comes, learning to refuse and say 'no' would work things for it's best. Thanks for sharing Kim.
@beauty_ph (2749)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
Most of the time people don't sense how much I feel or how am I. I carry me self well, sometimes I pretend nothing happens. I onced cahtted and dated with my crush. I was not aware to see my crush in person. But when we were dated 5 years ago I was so cool. When he was out of sight, after our date, I was in the cloud9. LOL. God bless!
