wanting to get married

May 31, 2006 12:00am CST
i am in the states and i met someone on line who i have been speaking with for a long time and we have decided we want to get married how do we go across doing this does anyone know that can help us
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11 responses
@moneymind (10524)
• Philippines
6 Oct 06
how about you two meet in person and talk things out iehter in your sate or in his/her sate. how about that as a start. greetings. : )
@soulist (2987)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I would have to agree. You should meet in person in either one of your states and talk things out see where you want to take this relationship. Who would have to move and stuff like that.
@sagarbhai (104)
• Bangladesh
9 Jan 07
I want to get marry.
@luzamper (1360)
• Philippines
9 Jan 07
You have to meet each other personally first. Personally seeing each other and talking to each other is very much different from just seeing each other on webcam and chatting in the net. The man should visit the woman then they plan whatever they want to do if they want to continue with the relationship.
@ajithlal (14571)
• India
8 Jan 07
Try meeting together. If possible try to go for a couple of dates. Most times meeting together and having dating each other or having a coffee together helps a lot.
• Malaysia
7 Jan 07
My advice to you "just cross the river when you reach it'...
• United States
7 Jan 07
I have known a few couples that meet online then got married one was even engaged before meeting but you have to meet before getting married .I suject you meet first in a public place then if you feel comterble were ever you wish .Tell some one were your meeting take a cell phone and be safe this goes for both of you .All the couples I know that meet online only one did not work out so around 8 did so good luck .
@arwenrey (316)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
Don't be in a rush! You should get to know the person thoroughly its different when you guys meet personally rather than online there are a lot of things that you will discover with each other that you can't see by online communication. By then when you guys think that you are meant for each other then you can get married anywhere in the world.
@not4me (1713)
• United States
27 Nov 06
OMG stop! Do you even know that he is not already married? Everyone knows you have to at least go to a courthouse, fill out a marriage license and then have the justice of the peace do the ceremony. *At least!* What, did you want to get married online or something? lol. You HAVE to pick a state to get married in. Some states need blood tests first. :\
• United States
27 Nov 06
Have you ever met before?
@krysy1982 (1042)
• United States
27 Nov 06
you need to meet first then figure the rest out later
@maryannemax (12174)
• Sweden
26 Oct 06
have you two met in real life already? if not, that's the first step. don't rush to marriage. give yourself and your partner months to know each other well. then, decide together on what to do next.