the other woman

I think there may be situations that it seems more right than others. The best way to go is wait until the relationship is over. Otherwise you are just a rebound...a replacement..and what if he never leaves his other? what if you were that other woman? There are always two sides. I say it is best to back off from a man/woman that is already involved. If they really care about you and the relationship is really wrong...they will end it and be free to be with you.

I don't see anything wrong with pursuing another woman's man. If he feels the same way, good for us..to bad for his woman. If he would fall in love with me, then he doesn't really love his gf. That's it. Being a third party does not mean you are destroying a healthy relationship; it does mean you are making the two person realize they are not meant to be :P