What would you do if your partner is always cheating on you?

United States
July 19, 2007 6:51pm CST
I am tired of my ex which he think he is still my man. He won't leave me alone. He doesn't pay bills or anything just destroys things in the house. He been cheating on me and I caught him. He says it is not true but I am tired. What can I do to get him out and away from me with out geting out of control?
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@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
If that would happen once, then no chances will be given...break him up and tell him "I don't deserve you I still have my kids to love...and not you anymore...
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• United States
20 Jul 07
I would definately kick him to the curb. Once you put your foot down and give him no more attention that it will only be a matter of time.Its like even if you give him one sec of attention he will know he still has a chance. He is trying to play on your emotions. Dont let him! The devil is a liar. Its very hard because they will appear to be in distress and even though you may still love your pet poodles you have stand firm! You cant go to his rescue because it will warrent more unwanted visits. Its really hard as well as heart breaking but look at it from a different view! take the month or few weeks of heart pain vs another year or more of hardship and termoil! You have children, think of them first! You also cant reason with a child and that is how he is acting! Make a decision and stick with it! Remember the devil is a liar and he will tempt you more than once! Stand strong and firm and i am sure you will shake him loose soon!