Are you ANGRY?

@swatig (1183)
India
July 31, 2007 6:44am CST
Are you angry with someone or something in your life. if yes, why and what you do to counter that anger. describe and tell also that can this discusssion helps you in minimise your anger? if Yes then and if No then also, desribe your anger.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Aug 07
If I get angry with something or with some person, I normally do not tell her/him but on the other hand, I try and discuss the issue with my peers and other friends, in whom I can confide and who can give me advice on the tricky issue. It is better to take advice of others, before reacting.
@swatig (1183)
• India
16 Aug 07
dpk, its always better to take advice before reacting but i believe if im angry with somebody or something then i make him realise about my anger as im suffering with my anger and tht person should know that the cause of my anger, my suffering is due to him only. why i keep my anger and waste the fuel of myself.lol this is mybelieve anyways ur pic is cute enough to getrid of anytype of anger and put smile in the face. :)smile
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 Aug 07
I agree with your approach, sometimes it is better to let the other fellow know that your are angry. Thanks for your comments, could not see it earlier. Thanks for liking the cute baby. I always believe in the power of smile and wish and try how should I make others smile with my efforts. Have a nice day!:)
@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
i'll just get a piece of paper and write all the things that i wanted to say onto that person. Then I'll burn it up. Then my anger will gradually subsides.
@swatig (1183)
• India
15 Jan 08
This excerise definetely helps you in lessen or control your anger and brings smile in your face. :)smile
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
1 Dec 07
I am very angry with my ex, I walked out on my ex 8 weeks tomorrow, because it was a mental relationship, I blame myself more than my ex because it was my fault that I went into it, I thought I needed a partner but I should stay single, I am better off being single. I am angry the way I was treated and used and abused, I know it will get easier in time, as time is a great healer. I usually take my anger out in the garden when digging, good stress and anger buster for me. Counseling is also good but expensive.
@swatig (1183)
• India
5 Dec 07
Wolfie34, actually it is not wise for me to talk on any relationship but i agree wth you tht counseling is recommended at this stage.
• India
8 Jan 08
Angry??? who ain't angry today? Yes I am angry...angry wid people who have made this world a mess, angry wid politicians who f*** their country for political gains, angry at myself for not being able to adjust to this world, and angry wid god who brought me from hell into this world. The question shouldn't be "are u angry?" but shud be.."how many lost sould did u send to hell today?"
@swatig (1183)
• India
15 Jan 08
such spiritual touch answer relieve all the angerness, isn'it? atleast work for me.
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
25 Dec 07
I'm angry right now with my daughter because I feel/know she is making some bad choices for her life. I know as a mother I can't live her life for her and she has to learn from her own mistakes but my anger is more because she has totally turned against me because I voice my opinion. I still love her with all my heart but she doesn't see that just because I don't agree with her.
@swatig (1183)
• India
7 Jan 08
hi byfaithonly, opinion difference and her life really make an impact on your life to write this response as a mother. i here not suggest anything to you but in hope of resolving difference in opinion, if any still applicable. swatig
• India
7 Dec 07
Mostly i try not to get angry at anyone. But when someone crosses the limit then there is no other way than getting mad at that person.
@swatig (1183)
• India
7 Jan 08
I understand soulkeeper, you and your feeling and sorry for being in late reply for your response. hope you understand and not angry atleast on this.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
20 Oct 07
Those who do not get angry, I will give them the seat next to god. Everyone gets angry, it is natural. But that anger should be controlled in second, in minutes and should not be allowed to prolong, but it not only hurts the others, it hurts oneself. Temper is a valuable thing, so keep it with oneself.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Jan 08
I would say as for now I am too busy to remember who I hold grudges with. I do hold grudges but when I'm busy (in mind or physically tired) I forgot about them. I do not like being treated unfairly by anybody and tend to avenge when it happened, or get someone to do it for me. I don't know if this is enough to describe my anger but this is all I can say right now. No this discussion can not minimise my anger at all :) how will it do that anyway? you don't even know these people I hold grudges with, if you do you will then understand what I'm saying.
@aissha (2036)
• India
1 Aug 07
i was till few months back and that to with my mom ,but i have realised i was wrong and i know my mom is best mom in this world and she has sacrificed a lot for us,if i am able to half of her i'll be a good mom.
@swatig (1183)
• India
2 Aug 07
hi aissha, ur true tht nocomparison can be done wth mom atleast. anywys happy momemt wth your mom and keep smiling.
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
15 Aug 07
Dear swatig My angriness won't stay for a long time .. and right now I am not at all angry .. Ok I am describing my anger .. my anger is just like a anger of a small child .. he got angry on small issues but if you try to persuade him/her or offer him/her a chocolate or just simply cuddle him/her he/she forget all the angriness .. same is with me. I need love and I forget everything :)
@swatig (1183)
• India
16 Aug 07
hi touchnshine, You seems tobe cuttiepie who forget the anger easily and give the reason to others to smile.