cheater husband

@maya24 (10)
Indonesia
August 2, 2007 9:24am CST
my husband often cheating behind my back. And when he does that, he never care about our child. And usually he cheats with other man's wife. But every time he get his lesson, he always come back to me. What will you do if you are in my situation, remembering that not just once he did that...
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6 responses
@sid556 (31006)
• United States
2 Aug 07
I would leave him. I could not live with or respect a man that I could not trust. Trust is such a huge part of a loving relationship! Another thing to consider is your health....what sort of diseases is he risking bring back home to you? How long have you been dealing with this and why are you dealing with this? you and your child deserve much more respect than this.
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@maya24 (10)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
i have been dealing with this for 3 years. i'm dealing with this because i feel sorry about my child. I can't handle if he someday asking about his father. And basically he care about his son. And i am to ashame if i become a widow in such a young age.
@wykidd (83)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 07
I can really understand how you feel. my ex-husband was also like that. He just kept on cheating behind my back, times and again. The best part, All those women that he got involved with, knew me (as his wife) and they can still claim to be my friends!!! I am glad that I finally got the courage to leave him and now I am starting life anew with a NEW Husband.Hopefully it will be better this time round. Best of luck to you.
@maya24 (10)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
i often wanted to leave him, but his family are very kind to me. And especially his mother don't want us to be seperated. When he cheated me, i kept my mind that i will never except him if he someday come back back to me. But i can't help my self when that thing happen, i'm really confuse between my feeling to him and what have he did to me. And when i get involved with other man, i can't stop thinking about him.
@chnworld (149)
• India
2 Aug 07
this has been a very common problem in house holds..if I would be in your position then I wont fight with my husband as it wil lead to more troubles..I will call him and I will try to explain everything in cool mind..Rashness will cause problem..so explain everything in a friendly way to him..he will definitely listen to you...
@maya24 (10)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 07
i never fight him because in one time he punch me in front of his girlfriend. And i usually leave from our home and back to my parents home. I just shut my mouth in front of him. When he decide to come back to me, he always promise lot's of good things but he never keep his promise.
@momoney3 (16)
• United States
2 Aug 07
If I was in your situation I would leave him and go on with my life. You should just make the best life that you can for yourself and your child. When a man cheats I think that they will always have that problem, and in your case it has already happened more than once. Save yourself and your child and tell him to press on.
@cher913 (25893)
• Canada
2 Aug 07
why do you put up with this? i dont think i would be able to put up with his stuff...even though he keeps coming back to you, he still keeps leaving or playing around...why put up with that?
@mrsbrian (1951)
• United States
2 Aug 07
As far as im concerned the first time is the last time. If my husband felt he had to cheat on me than he is not going to get another chance to do it again , children or not! He must have no respect for you and your wedding vows must have meant nothing to him either. I would kick him to the curb.