MY girlfriend can not stand me clubbing

China
August 13, 2007 2:39am CST
My girlfriend can not stand me clubbing,she dosen't dance or enjoy clubs.Do and even though I have calmed down a lot with my going out,the odd occasion I do go out,I get so much grief.I don't want to change who I am just to make he happy.what should I do?
2 responses
• Malaysia
13 Aug 07
Be yourself....that is the only one way to know your girlfriend's standing. Until she can accept you that you are in 'be myself'. Different people, of course, has their own indulge. And you in the future if she also likes clubbing or maybe just want to test your jealousy degree, you must not to scold/blame her for her actioned in that such way. You know why? Because both of you are the similar stone type in the same river. Be best for all, from me; Michael.
@mistissa (1348)
• Netherlands
13 Aug 07
Did she ever tell you what the exact thing about your clubbing she does not like? Is it that there are other girls around, or she doesn't want you going out without her? In a relationship it is very important that you leave each other free to do your own things as well. Maybe you could do something together a few days before you go clubbing. I imagine she has her own hobbies that don't interest you either? Good luck with everything.