how to be confident around women

August 13, 2007 7:51am CST
CONFIDENCE: I know, I know, you've heard this puppy before. "every woman is attracted to a confident guy" right? Well, yes, this is right. Ask any girl, and they will always tell you that confidence is an incredibly attractive trait in a man. But here's the problem with this statement and why most guys roll their eyes when they hear it.... NO ONE EVER TELLS YOU HOW TO BE CONFIDENT! Most books will give you some artsy-farsty psychobabble about what you need to do to be more confident, like imagining yourself to br 50 feet tall and shining with power. Other products might tell you to "fake it unitil you make it" and just try to act confident around women when you 're really scared silly deep inside. The problem with these tactics is that THEY DON'T WORK! That's all for today more in other time
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@Pose123 (21667)
• Canada
13 Aug 07
I am a man who has learned from "being there". As a young man, I was not confident around women but eventually learned, that all I had to do was be myself. Never pretend to be something you`re not. If you are quiet so what, many women are attracted to quiet men. Relax.
• Malaysia
13 Aug 07
What ever book will not works for you because they are selling books. Just like ebook, their vision is how to attract readers to give them money. whereas woman needs woman's language to interact. So you have to learn about woman's language. Language been categorized into four(4); 1. thesaurus 2. text 3. body 4. voice. If you are able mastering yourself with all those, you are a dictator to woman.
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
13 Aug 07
Well I have always found a little shyness in a fella more appealing than confidence. maybe I have always been strange but I think you should just be yourself as everyone looks for something different. and welcome to Mylot I hope you have a great time in here and make many friends.
@rohit55_56 (2301)
• India
13 Aug 07
don't know how because 9'm not a women specialist but i tell you a trick see her like that you love her from a many days....then he always .....try to come.....ur close