QUESTION!! I need advice! Thanx!
By copperkitten
@copperkitten (3473)
United States
August 25, 2007 9:24am CST
So theres a lady and her friend posting things on here about me!! We used to be friends untill she posted a big thing on here and told everyone a bunch of lies, so I called her on it and she just made up more lies. I am not happy about it. Everything they say is a lie, BOLD FACE LIE! What do I do about this? I dont want to cause problems but Im tired of her lying to the mylot community, you all deserve better, and down grading me. We are her for honest discussions not crap. I have not responded to her discussions because I feel it will get me in more crap that I just dont want to deal with, Its sooo not worth my time. Do I contact mylot about this? Would they do anything about it? Its not fair to me to see this stuff shes "accusing" me of! I would never do what shes saying. Shes the one that needs help but wont admit it. She want to call child services on me for doing nothing wrong. If anything she need child services called on her. I am a GOOD mother, I take care of my kids, food and water, shelter and LOVE!! Its just urks me that people are talking about me like this. What do I do??? Any advice would be apreciated!!! Thanx!
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17 responses
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
25 Aug 07
Hope she didnt call you by your true name copperkitten-because if she did, then I thought mylot should do something about this-we are a family here in mylot and what ever we write here should be oppinions intended to stimulate our minds and strengthen our friendship. Anybody who goes to his/her computer on this site to slander or annoy another member of mylot should be ostracized by the entire mylot family! In my oppinion, you have done very well by not responding to this member's personal comments about you!
@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
No she didnt say my real name But I know shes talking about me. I didnt want to add fule to the fire by responding to her.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
25 Aug 07
Don't let her sweat you Copper. IF she calls child services, let her (I think its a bluff). They'll find nothing wrong and the false charges come back on her. If shes posting stuff on mylot thats libel on you, Copper keep posting and caller her out on it. Gather friends too, strength in numbers is good.
Ignoring her might work, but the last thing you want is for her to keep spreading this stuff and some people who don't know any better could believe it. I'd like to see some of the posts. I'm betting this person is probably posting and making herself look dumb.
Well wishes on you and your family Copper.
~-~Pro.
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
They wont find anything because I dont do anything to get me in trouble. I have some friends on here who know what going on. They support me on this all the way. Her post do make her look dumb. Thanx so much!!
@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
25 Aug 07
it is actually pretty easy to tell that this girl is lying in her discussions. I noticed that within two seconds and I told her what I thought.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Aug 07
Let her call CPS if she wants, when they find nothing wrong, you can write about your expereinces. Unfortunately, there is probably nothing you can do about it.
If she is using your id in her comments, I think that is abuse and she can be reported and the post removed, but that will not stop her from posting more.
I say, just ignore her, if she gets no rise out of you, she will get bored and stop. Trying to deal with her will just add fuel to the fire.
You know the truth, you take care of and love your kids, that is what counts.
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@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
25 Aug 07
Yeah, just ignore this person as long as she does not address you by your ID or real name in her discussions. If you talk too much about her, you might just end up aggrevating her malice upon yourself. If she mentions your name/ID, that is clearcut abuse and you can report her to myLot™ admin.
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
26 Aug 07
These kinds of people have many problems of their own and they want to put the blame on someone else, instead of taking responsibility for their own actions. They are trying to bring you out and let everyone know who you are and want to get you banned. It isn't going to work, because it will backfire on them and they will regret that they even wanted to cause trouble in the first place. It is easy to condemn someone on the internet becsause you don't know anyone else but if you were to come face to face with someone like this then they would hide. This is what is happening right now. Why doesn't she come to you instead of posting it on here. It is very sad that all they can think of is to cause problems for others instead of worring more about their life and kids. Don't worry about it and don't answer any of their posts...You are the better person in all this, so stay on top and do not stoop to their level no matter what..It is so petty.
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Thanx so much!!! You hit the nail on the head!!!
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@crazed_moma (1054)
• United States
26 Aug 07
It sounds like you're doing the right thing. :) Don't feed the trolls. If they know they're upsetting you it just encourages them. You should bring it to admin attention though she they know what's what.
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Thanx. Trolls...LOL!! Thats why I havent done anything. Im so Tired of it. I dont want to go to there level. Not worth it. Im a better person than her..shes just jelouse.
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Thanx..Lies have no feet to stand on..Thats a great line! So true!! In time she will get hers.
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
26 Aug 07
But how do you know this person is talking about you? In any case you got some good advice. Just ignore her. You can also inform Mylot that someone is stalking you and they might remove all discussions pertaining to this.
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I know because of what she says. Things about me and my family. Plus we used to be friends.
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@Calais (10893)
• Australia
29 Aug 07
Well obviously something is wrong with her life if she feels that she has to talk about others to take the attention off her life..You are the better person here and dont get wrapped up in childish behaviour...If she threatens child services then you dont have to worry because if everything is the way you say you have nothing to hide or worry about..
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
29 Aug 07
Thanx!! Im not worried just angry she has to do things like this!!! Like you said its CHILDISH!! I feel like im in 3rd grade!! Hes touching me, she yelled at me, he dosent like me...LOL
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
Just ignore her, there is no point stressing over her. God knows that you're not doing anything wrong as you say and that's what matter. As long as you know that you are doing the right thing then that's enough, nobody has the right to judge you.
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@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
25 Aug 07
thats odd..you must have known this person personally..well you can contact mylot about it and forward them the discussion they made about you..i think thats abusive to begin with..then ask mylot what to do and they will take care of the rest i hope..you can report them to the admin just be sure to provide them the discussions..if they are talking about you straight then maybe they can do something about it..best wishes for you..
@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Thanx for the advice. I will forward them the discussions and see what happens.
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I think she has learned her lesson about naming people because she did it to me. She mentioned my name in a discussion and it backfired on her.
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
25 Aug 07
I would report her to my lot and see if they do anything if not just ignore her she is obviously just trying to upset you, she will get bored and give up after a while. I know who you are refering to and I could see the first time I responded to one of her discussions she was lying and from her other discussions that she was just a trouble maker. I know that it is a pain to deal with CPS expecially when you are doing nothing wrong but hang in there and remember what goes around comes around and she will eventually get what she deserves.
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Shes trying to get me going and I think shes mad because its not working. She is a trouble maker out to make herself look good. Yep its called KARMA!! She will get hers!
@banjiexia (63)
• China
26 Aug 07
I think you should not pay much attention to this kind of people. It dosen't worth. People will find her a lier someday, and so does mylot.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
If you find the post pertaining to you, you can report it. I'm sure the admin will understand your reasons for that, since you cannot just let mylot delete their accounts for flaming user's, might as well let mylot do what they think is appropriate for that matter.
Since you've already opened up this topic, I'm sure that people will now have the idea of who these RUDE people are now talking about. Don't just ignore it, these things has to stop before it gets uncontrolled.
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@ranitam22 (1146)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I would imagine if you told mylot about this, they might review and look into it. It seems like they would have a policy against that.
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@sictstarsky (66)
• China
26 Aug 07
Just ignore the person,What you should do is to love your kids and other friends as before.And as time go,Everything come to a good situation.
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