soul Mate

@candy111 (240)
Philippines
August 25, 2007 11:03pm CST
have you found your soul mate? What makes you think that the person is really your soul mate? is it a matter of reading each others mind that you react to him minutes before he asks an important thing? What if trough your marriage you suddenly find your soul mate, would you tell your husband/wife/partner that you have found your soul mate and would you decide to get divorced. Do you think two people have to meet to know they are soul mates? Did you do anything in particular to find that lucky person. My own partner i thin is my soul mate, thought he is married, i'm very happy with him. not only that, we trust each other deeply and for some reason can feel if the other one has any problems. Online i have this notify sound that sometimes rings off when someone happens to be using his nick. for some reason it never woke me up. But when it is him, i happen to have already been awake 5-10 minutes before he does. what makes one your soul mate?
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Knowing is hard for many because it is easy to be deceived by what the astrologers call an Uranus attraction, which is a strong, almost electric desire for the exact opposite of what we really need or want. However, if you go to a very quiet place in your mind, you can, as you say, read his mind or know when he is in danger, even if you are many miles apart. But what if someone just thinks about the other person and comes to this decision without evidence? It has to work both ways. He has to be able to read your mind and know when you are in danger, too, and come to your aid. That is a good way of telling. Rather than divorcing someone if a person thinks the true soul mate is another, it would have been better to have waited in the first place. If a person made one such mistake, then what is to prevent another? Perhaps it is better in that case to love the one you are with, than to try to be with some other love.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
1 Sep 07
All of your points are valid, and I am happy that we agree on this. Best regards to you and I hope to "meet" you again here on myLot.
@candy111 (240)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
Definitely it is not a good idea to leave one's partner just because she thinks she has found her soul mate in another person. Definitely, one should no even dream of destroying a family just to be with someone else In fact, I don't believe that you need to be married to your soul mate, or that you even need to be "in love" to someone for him to be your soul mate. May sound ironic, but, I believe a soul mate goes beyond love, beyond some emotions we have as humans, it is someone you don't even need to be physical with. Being a soul mate means you are intertwined together beyond the limits of time and space. There is no actual rules to describe this relationship. We don't even know for sure if this truly exists.
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
26 Aug 07
i guess i found it...8years ago...at the countriside...i had 15 and he had 19 at that time...i felt he's the one for the very first moment i saw him.his look,his eyes,his smile was a part of my soul,i fet it and al my being knew that he's the one i have been looking.something like"i knew i love you before i met you".i loved him from hat first moment.i met him the next day again and started talking as we knew each other already for a long time.when we saw each other the second time both of us knew we have to talk to know better each other.there were then a couple of wonderful months.i didn't meet him often but when i did i live the moment at maximum.my family didn't like him cause he was poor.finally,he renounced at our relation after 6 months.can't understand even now why.then we met after a couple of months ,we missed our love,but the meeting was very short then we met also that summer a few times we went to the disco together,then the next year met again,and then he left far away,had another amily,me got a family too.we met the last time when my baby was 3 month,then he called me again after another year.he has children also.and for more than a year i don't know anything about him.maybe he's gone out of the country.don't know.i miss him.i regret a lot thta i found my soulmate and i lost him
@candy111 (240)
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
From what I hear about soul mates, is if he really is the one and you have met, you will never lose him. But as my question was, how do we really know he is the one? for one, it looks like he will always be in your mind and heart of course. But you do have your own family now and so does he, be happy that you have found not only your soul mate, but someone you can share the rest of your life with. He will always be there! Take care and much happiness to you and your family
• Romania
31 Aug 07
well,i guess you just feel with all your human being who is that one.thank you for your good thoughts!
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
6 Sep 07
i think each person is different and have there idea of what a soul mate can be. personaly for me there is a few things that can go in to it. first of all, is you able to talk to each other about anything, and you never seem to run out of things to talk about, little things that can seem to keep on another amuses, second of all the way you and the person kiss, i think it is another important thing, a kiss can tell alot if the other person works for you or not, you cant change that, thirdly it is someone you cant take your mind off no matter what, when, where. even 5, 10, 20 years from the time you meet the time, you still care and think of the person, and another thing, no matter how much, the other person change physicaly, you still found them attactive to you, and found that person speical. i found my a while ago, even though we broke up now, i still care for her alot, think of her all the time, she will always has a special place in my heart.
@thefortunes (2367)
• Netherlands
26 Aug 07
My partner is definitely my soul mate. We both have the feeling that we have known eachother from many life times before, as we know eachother so well, it's even weird. We read eachothers mind all the time, know what we feel and if in pain from thousands of miles between us, too many things to mention all in all, but this is a fact, we are sould mates and have been such since many,many many lifetimes.
@candy111 (240)
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
Good for you! Am glad you found the one. I'm quite unsure about my situation. My partner and I didn't start of so well, then again our circumstance is not typical. It was a long distance relationship, but even then when we were still getting to know each other, I could always sense whether something is bothering him or not, and vice versa. its funny at times when i have to say "so its you1 stop thinking about me so I can sleep" He'd laugh and say the same thing. To be honest on the surface we are totally different and I used to say he has all the qualities I detest in a guy, but alas we have been together for 8 yrs now and it seems to be getting stronger. Maybe he really is the one :)
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
i think my soul mate is i found it,100% per sure.he he..
• Australia
11 Sep 07
I have been lucky enough to find my soul mate and we have four gorgeous children together - I am thankful everyday that we get to spend together. The way I feel is that he is the other half to the puzzle of me - he knows me better than myself sometimes and I also can see his truths. Soul mates love eachother unconditionally and this love is not something that has to be worked hard on, it is something that just is.